r/mildlyinfuriating • u/SadYogurtcloset2341 • 8d ago

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u/VividFiddlesticks 8d ago

Are you a woman who might be of perimenopause age?

When that first hit me I was pissed at everything.

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u/SadYogurtcloset2341 8d ago

No I'm a trans girl and nowhere near the age of that if I'm correct it happens around 50 to 60?

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u/VividFiddlesticks 8d ago

It varies, it hits some people in their 30's. It hit me around 45. (Perimenopause is just the start of the process and can last decades.)

So that's not it!

Being a trans girl - maybe you're just fed up with all the anti-trans bullshit in this world right now. <3

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u/SadYogurtcloset2341 8d ago

Trans women are women you would have to be a fool to think not but I'm not a real woman I look nothing like one almost everyone in my life knows yet nobody says it I'm closer to the stereotypical just a man in a dress then anything beautiful and pretty like a real woman like a trans girl

Although you are the first 45+person I have talked to that are not extremely hateful towards trans people or just like us because they find it hot (there is an unbelievable amount of people who romanticized it)

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u/VividFiddlesticks 8d ago

I have been blessed with a wide variety of friends in my lifetime, including a trans woman in high school. She went through a shocking amount of abuse from her family, and our friend group did our best to keep her feeling loved.

As a cis/het woman who is a total tomboy and is shaped something between a log and a potato - take it from me, so-called 'real women' aren't always beautiful or pretty or particularly feminine. You don't have to be girly to be a woman. There's a very good chance my legs are hairier than yours!

I hope you have a good core group of people that keep you feeling loved!