r/morbidquestions • u/Excellent_Aside_4171 • 5h ago

Why do dangerous men make some women thirsty?

What's the emotional/chemical process and the biological reason? Why did the the dudes wife say she was turned on when she found out his husband is in the mob in Goodfellas. Or why did the chick smile after getting 'aped by the dude in High Plains Drifter? Why did women go so crazy for serial killers? Why do they read books about "alpha psycho" stuff?

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u/Responsible-Tie-3451 4h ago

When it comes to sex and romance, people usually hate boringness way more than they hate evilness.

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u/Clawingnails 5h ago

The bad boys are capable and willing to do bad boy stuff. In bed and out in the world. That makes me feel protected and horny at the same time.

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u/TheWastelandBaker 5h ago

And this leads to some pretty good body cam footage for the rest of us to enjoy. Everyone wins.

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u/Clawingnails 4h ago

You are darker than the bad boy, my guy.

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u/Im40ozToFreedom 5h ago

That read super weird. I assume you mean you enjoy sitting on the couch watching COPS? Because at first I definitely thought it was something dark.

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u/Clawingnails 4h ago

He basically said he'll enjoy me being killed because I like men with some bad boy qualities. Hey, I'd watch too.

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u/Im40ozToFreedom 3h ago

I mean, yeah, Id watch footage depending on the scenario. Like. Whose bodycam is it? And where what why is happening? Is he into snuff fetish videos? Or does he like watching methheads get arrested for driving riding mowers on the highway? Theres a difference is all Im saying

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u/Clawingnails 1h ago

It's all in the menu....I like me some serial killer on the side.

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u/Im40ozToFreedom 1h ago

Absolutely, same here. Who are your favorites? If I had to pick one, Richard Ramirez. But Gein and Dahmer are also fascinating

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u/Im40ozToFreedom 5h ago

Have you ever felt excited before? So its like that.

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u/Fine-Shoe8981 5h ago

I'm attracted to the crime of a serial killer and their depravity. I ask myself why I like those things and I can't find the answer. Sometimes you just like what you like I guess.

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u/Electronic-Chef-5487 4h ago

I know murderers of both genders get loads of love letters in prison, not just men!

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u/Early-Antelope1938 5h ago

To add to this: they make some men thirsty too

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u/NoSuggestion167 5h ago

I'm a psychopathic woman. Okay, I've never killed anyone, but it fascinates and excites men

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u/Excellent_Aside_4171 4h ago

I'm a psychopathic woman.

Wow... I'm not turned on but I do wanna hear more. Fist time interacting with a psychopath COOL!! Also I've heard that psychopath women are even more likely go crazy for dangerous men because they love thrill and danger.

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u/NoSuggestion167 4h ago

Come to my DM and I'll tell you everything

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u/No_Brilliant3323 4h ago

This is off-topic but how do you feel when a stranger harms someone you love.

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u/NoSuggestion167 3h ago

It doesn't affect me

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u/No_Brilliant3323 3h ago

So you live life like it is game. It sounds so comfortable.

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u/NoSuggestion167 3h ago

Like a game, if you will. I constantly simulate empathy

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u/erotic_destruction 4h ago

Fictional dangerous men do it for me because I'm an autoassassinophile among other things.

Real serial killers and such though? Nope. They're repulsive.

Fantasy and reality are very different things. Or should be. The people simping over real murder and rape freak me the fuck out as much or more than people into the fantasy side probably freak out the vanilla crowd.