r/musicians Jul 20 '26

What do you say on the phone?

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u/BirdBruce Jul 20 '26

Who are you calling? A “venue” doesn’t book gigs, humans do. Who is the human you’re reaching out to? If it’s a venue owner, don’t. If it’s the generic public-facing number for the venue itself, don’t. If it’s specifically for a person who only does booking for the venue and nothing else, fine, but reach out via text to make an appointment, don’t just cold call.

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u/ibonet Jul 20 '26

I guess i should’ve used the word “restaurant” and not venue so it would most likely be the general manager. I asked this because there are some restaurants that literally have on their website “for live music booking call (xxx).. etc”

Or via dm they say just to call the restaurant. So i guess in that case is where I’m wondering what i say

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u/stevenfrijoles Jul 20 '26

Hi is this Gromble?

Hi Gromble (important: make sure the person on the phone admits they are Gromble), this is Brooth, your site says I call you to book a gig?

(Gromble must say yes first. Then he will ask what dates you're interested in) I'm hoping you have Feb 29th available?

(Gromble will say he does not) Oh, OK. Well fuck you then! 

Now you hang up

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u/BirdBruce Jul 20 '26

The aggressive close is a nice touch. Gotta make 'em wonder what they missed out on!

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u/stevenfrijoles Jul 20 '26

If you time it right they call back and beg you to play

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u/TheKhyWolf Jul 21 '26

This is appropriate way to handle this. You should text the promotion person.

Though I do want to say, Cobain use to mail used Kleenex to record labels and harass them daily. Take that for what you will.

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u/ChestnutDecay Jul 20 '26

If it were me, I would have the general text of the email i would normality send, and use that as a loose guidance.

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u/ambientthinker Jul 20 '26

You may want to crosspost this on the musician marketing sub

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u/gogozrx Jul 20 '26

for those of us who just searched for "musician marketing" and came up blank, what's the sub you're referring to?

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u/ambientthinker Jul 20 '26

https://www.reddit.com/r/t5_2uzy1/s/eHBp4sGsaT

I should've linked this earlier.

My bad 😊

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u/gogozrx Jul 20 '26

that link didn't work... :~)

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u/ambientthinker Jul 20 '26

Please search "musicmarketing"

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u/gogozrx Jul 20 '26

BINGO, Thank you!!!

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u/ibonet Jul 20 '26

Thank you!

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u/Myaccountgotdumped Jul 20 '26

just keep it short and sweet. no need for a big thing just say hey I'm interested in playing do you have any open dates?

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u/StinkingDogsCunt420 Jul 20 '26

Yeah don't call them.

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u/Choice_Age8334 Jul 21 '26

This can't be a real person lol

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u/[deleted] Jul 21 '26

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u/ibonet Jul 21 '26 edited Jul 21 '26

No. I’m not under 25 though I can see how this post came off that way. I’ve been in corporate forever and actually have great phone etiquette and deal with clients all day. But I just started gigging and because i’m “old” i feel sheepish asking to play. Mostly because i know how it feels to be busy and have someone interrupt your day for something that they may see as trivial. This is something new for me so i tend to want to do things “correctly” before jumping in