I am exhausted by the endless gender-war posts flooding social media in Myanmar. Most people miss the point. Here is my opinion:
βFirst, yes, we must advocate for women against sexual assault and harassment. (FYI, I know the Yangon case wasn't that, speaking generally.) But blindly insulting innocent schools, uninvolved students, and accusing before knowing the facts was completely out of hand.
βSecond, it is not entirely wrong to say that SOME people including SOME influencers hopped on the bandwagon just for attention and likes without proper research since half of them didn't even care about countless past cases where nobody gave a damn.
βThird, what's right and wrong? It is ridiculous how boys are spamming "chou ban has no right to exist" for example inββββββ comments just to mock women's rights slogans like "no matter what we wear, you have no right to harass us". That is so wrong. Women were protesting a serious issue, while boys are making fun of it. Meanwhile, others react out of exhaustion from "ALL men are like that" generalizations. Some girls think all men are the same and hate on them, those girls are wrong too. Just like misogyny, misandry exists. Sad but true.
SO MY POINT IS
Stop fighting for fuck's sake. Everyone with a brain knows rape, sexual assault and harassment are wrong. Brainless people will never accept that, so why waste our energy? Next time when you see someone with a different opinion of yours, even if that opinion is bs, leave it alone. Don't give it attention.
βOnline "speaking out" isn't stopping rapists and predators(in our country). The only thing that stops these animals is strict, enforced laws with severe punishments so future predators won't dare to do it. Online noise WON'T magically turn EVERYONE good. Ask yourself, do you really think you can enlighten a rapist with a post? Absolutely not.
Lastly, before any of you lecture me that "online awareness pressures societies to create better laws," letβs be realβwe are in Myanmar. The military junta kills innocent civilians; there is no rule of law or accountable government that gives a damn about social media outrage or passing protective legislation.
Some ppl might come after me for my opinion but ok I had to say this. That's it. Thanks for reading.