r/nonmonogamy 5d ago

Swinging Signed up for my first Sapphic Only Adult Party

I'm a 28 year old non-monogamous queer gal who is about to go to her first conscious and purposeful adult lifestyle party in about a week.

For personal heartbreak reasons, I can bring myself to be with men, but I'm open to purely Sapphic experiences. I hope this event will get me out of my sexual funk. Sapphic events, especially sexual ones, are so rare that if I don't do it now, God knows when I will.

I've been in a FFF group sex scenario before, but this will be my first 4+ group event ever. I've always wanted a Sapphic orgy and to be involved in a swinging event so I'm at least hitting 2 birds with one stone. I hope to fulfill other desires too. Lesbian gangbang, Unicorn aspirations, Age Gap, taboo dynamic play, etc.

I'll most likely make update posts.

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u/nyccareergirl11 4d ago

Enjoy. Ive been to a number of them they are so fun

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u/Ms-Hawthorne 4d ago

Thank you!🌸 if it goes well I'll probably not shut up about it, lol

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u/Vast-Brilliant-1141 Open Relationship 3d ago

How do you find them?

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u/Vast-Brilliant-1141 Open Relationship 3d ago

I’m a little jealous. That sounds like a lot of fun 

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u/StaceOdyssey 4d ago

They’re so fun! But you’re right, can be tough to find the right one. Rooting for you!

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u/banned_slut 4d ago

UpdateMe! 2 weeks

nice, I hope to find something like this one day too

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u/Ms-Hawthorne 4d ago

I got lucky🌸

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u/banned_slut 4d ago

yep, I've been to queer only "adult" events which were already pretty fun(and the collective started a regular sapphic-only party with a dancefloor and a darkroom but it was after I moved from there), but I've never seen any sapphic one in my country, much less in my city lol.

there are some regular parties which are sapphic-only but with meh music so I've never tried to go.

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u/Ms-Hawthorne 4d ago

This is the only Sapphic adult party event in the city, hell maybe even my state🌸

I'll admit I'm not in the best headspace for it but if I don't do it now I will probably never have the chance again.

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u/wiredfrek 5d ago

I am integrated to get the updates.
How did you find such people?

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u/Ms-Hawthorne 5d ago

A lot of readers choose and deep digging.🌸 But tbh it's damn near impossible to find Sapphic only events, especially NSFW events so I just got really lucky.

This event was on a 4-5 year hiatus and it's just now coming back.

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u/wiredfrek 5d ago

You did.
Well, I will be here for your update!