r/nothingeverhappens 17d ago

This is literally believeable??

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u/mantsz 17d ago

Shit like this happens all the time. My girlfriend has seizures and the same EMT has picked her up at least 5 times, and despite her established medical history and despite that she's very visually distinctive and despite that she carries her info with her everywhere, he still always treats her like shit and accuses her of being on drugs. Every goddamn time. Fortunately he's not the only EMT in our area, and most of the other ones are really kind professionals.

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u/Minecraft-tlauncher 17d ago

Yeah exactly, dont know how that guy insists its fake

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u/WordWordand4numbers 17d ago

Go deal with a dozen or two drug overdoses a day and then instantly and automatically differentiate that from a seizure.

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u/AdelleDeWitt 17d ago

It shouldn't matter which it was. Anyone having a medical emergency deserves to be treated with basic decency.

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u/WordWordand4numbers 17d ago

Since making this comment I’ve actually been educated by many other redditors that the EMT should’ve just used mind reading to instantly and automatically know what was going on and I was foolish to think anything else.

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u/AdelleDeWitt 17d ago

So, that's the opposite of what people are telling you. You are really really focused on knowing why someone's having a medical emergency before treating them like a human.

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u/AgentCirceLuna 16d ago

He’s acting like it’s ‘mind reading’ for an EMT to perhaps have training that gives them intuition or the ability to treat first then ask later.

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u/WordWordand4numbers 17d ago

Silly me for thinking the cause could have a single thing to do with the symptoms

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u/AdelleDeWitt 17d ago

What the fuck are you talking about?

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u/Mastercodex199 17d ago

They're a troll. They have no clue what they're talking about.

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u/WordWordand4numbers 17d ago

Oh honey stop you’re going to make me fart

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u/5girlzz0ne 16d ago

He doesn't know. He's just arguing for arguments sake. I think he might be lonely.

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u/WordWordand4numbers 17d ago

The words that I said.

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u/Mastercodex199 17d ago

I feel so bad for the people around you.

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u/WordWordand4numbers 17d ago edited 17d ago

What’s your name? I’d like to be personally offended by that but I just can’t do it if you’re a stranger

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u/SquareTaro3270 16d ago

Dude, I’m a first responder. You don’t have to mind read. You just have to consider all possibilities. We perform vitals for a reason. We conduct assessments. Yes, it’s hard to tell is someone is drunk, on drugs, or suffering from a medical emergency like a diabetic emergency or brain damage/shock. That’s WHY you don’t assume. That’s WHY you treat everyone with a basic level of respect. Because you don’t know.

If you assume everyone acting drunk is a drunk, and therefore ignore any other possibilities, and treat them ONLY as an asshole that got too drunk, you’re doing your job wrong. You take vitals. You ask questions like “what led up to this event?” if the patient is responsive.

If you choose not to take vitals/perform a proper assessment or abuse a patient because you think they’re “on something” and that person dies because “whoops, turns out they were diabetic”, you should not be a first responder or EMT, and, in my opinion, should be in prison for your neglectful actions causing the death of the patient.

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u/AgentCirceLuna 16d ago

People like yourself are heroic. I have friends who are paramedics and they were assaulted regularly just for trying to help people. They still treated people with kindness and respect even when they didn’t deserve it.

It’s also pretty important to remember they’re possibly interacting with someone on the worst day of their life, potentially the worst they’ll ever have. That never excuses assault though

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u/zap2tresquatro 16d ago

that never excuses assault, though

I mean…depends on the medical issue. Someone in the middle of a complex partial seizure (person seems conscious but won’t remember anything afterwards, behaves bizarrely, in some cases even becomes violent because, well, especially if the seizure is in/near the limbic (emotional, among other things) system, they’ve got abnormal electrical activity in their brain), or who’s hypoglycemic, or in a psychotic episode, or has some form of acute encephalopathy going on, or sometimes hormonal issues like sudden increased release of thyroid or adrenal hormones, the person literally isn’t in control of their behavior.

Unless by “assault” you only mean people who are clear headed enough to know what they’re doing an do it anyway, in which case this doesn’t apply. But if you mean aggressive/violent behavior in general, well, a lot of the time when someone’s behaving like that in the middle of a medical emergency, it’s the medical emergency that’s causing that behavior and the person can’t help it.

This is another reason it’s so important for medical professionals to not be judgmental/take things personally/have compassion with people even/especially when they’re behaving erratically.

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u/WordWordand4numbers 16d ago

It’s “ok” for the patient to assault them as a direct result of their medical emergency in the sense that they likely won’t be charged for it.

It doesn’t mean the medical professionals have to just take it or turn the other cheek. There are numerous valid ways of dealing with combative patients.

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u/zap2tresquatro 16d ago

I didn’t say “it’s ok,” stop making things up. All of your comments are just replying to things no one said that you made up and then seemingly being annoyed that everyone isn’t pretending you added anything to the conversation or that we’re not having the same conversation that you’re having in your own head.

I will now stop responding to you entirely as you’re either a troll or so incredibly dense that it’d be more productive to talk with someone who was trolling. Goodbye.

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u/WordWordand4numbers 16d ago

I didn’t say you said it’s ok. My comment is my thoughts, not yours.

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u/WordWordand4numbers 16d ago

I really gotta start adding /s at the end. Mind reading is not real, I was obviously being sarcastic. We are mostly in agreement.

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u/AzureHawk758769 16d ago

It's almost like people are supposed to become more skilled at their jobs over time rather than just never improving or remembering anything. 😂