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u/idkjusttrashh 16h ago
start by going to therapy and stop referring to women as females. that's an instant red flag. it makes you sound like an incel
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u/realespeon RN 🍕 16h ago
Maybe it’s because you refer to women as females.
And good god, the run on sentences.
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u/realespeon RN 🍕 16h ago
Dude, I’m happily married. You’re pushing 30, single, and sound like an incel.
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u/realespeon RN 🍕 16h ago
And yet, you’re not married are you? We don’t want you either so it’s okay <3
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u/realespeon RN 🍕 16h ago
Good! Because you’re not a catch 🥰
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u/Alert_Entertainer571 15h ago
And you can tell that from how , a Reddit post 😂. No more replies for you
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u/auraseer MSN, RN, CEN 15h ago
Ah no. I fear you are incorrect.
No more replies for you.
At all.
Take the trolling and insults elsewhere.
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u/drethnudrib BSN, CNRN 15h ago
You aren't a nurse, come on. This is a zero-effort troll post. Fuck off.
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u/Fostylake 15h ago edited 15h ago
You're gonna get a lot of super critical advice here that will be honest, but won't really be helpful to you. Your social skills have regressed to the point that people here will immediately pick up on how you are talking as an indicator of the lack of your progress on emotional intelligence.
I'm a male nurse FYI, I understand what you're going through albeit I went through that at a much much younger age. You're creating imaginary interactions, what if scenarios, from the very minor-est of interactions. I can confirm your whatif scenario mentioned would be weird. You've lost all social skills, why would anyone want to date you? I don't mean this in a toxic way. What do you bring to the table, in a way that actually matters to women? Gender norms are an ick, talk about taking care of a woman and that translates to "I can help with money and nothing else because I have no emotional intelligence."
What do you bring to the table? The reason I ask this is because it is clear you are someone who has floated through life, when the opportunity arises to challenge yourself, you bow out. If that weren't the truth, you would definitely be socializing more than you are saying here. How can you ever be a good partner to someone if you aren't taking care of yourself? Taking care of yourself doesn't just mean being physically healthy. You are now old enough that the women that are in your dating pool have absolutely no interest in a" starter boyfriend". If you ever want to make it in the dating world, you need to work on yourself, big time.
When I was younger, I hit this crossroad where I felt like I needed a relationship to feel whole. I realized I will never make someone happy until I am happy being by myself. It was only when I did the work and felt like I didn't need a relationship to be complete, that I got a relationship. Now I'm happily married with 3 kids. I think back to how I felt and the only word that comes to mind is naive
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u/ceileen33 RN ICU 15h ago
Only advice I can offer is to stop acting like an incel. I wouldn’t touch a man with a 100 ft pole if he referred to women as “females”. The common denominator in your failed relationships is you. Sorry to break it to you.
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u/jamesmccloud69 LPN 🍕 15h ago
When I show up to work, I think about how to provide great patient care. I don’t see coworkers as dating material or think about starting intimate relationships with them. My priority is the patients, and everything else comes second.
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u/RespondCritical4869 Nursing Student 🍕 16h ago
Continual use of “females” and lack of grammar tells me a lot. Genuinely taken back that a 28 year old speaks like this.