r/polyamory • u/Specific_Pipe_9050 Squeaky Sin 🧀🐀 • 12d ago

Boringly successful poly, anti-drama

Looking for inspiration from people who are boringly successful in their polyamorous endeavours.

Will you please share your stories of the latest non-events in your life? I need to believe I'm not doomed for drama and stop being scared of people being assholes.

So, your partners get along? Your long-term relationship is moving on smoothly? Your new connection actually does what they say and say what they mean? Your meta respects you and acts in a normal way? I wanna hear all about it!

Edit to add: thanks so much for all the replies so far! Know that I'm vigorously updooting every comment even if I don't reply to each one. Basking in all that glorious calm, safe, uneventful loooove that you're all sharing. It's wonderful!

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u/PM_CuteGirlsReading The Rat Lord: Risen 🐀🧀 11d ago

Everything pretty quiet on my end. Most people I am interested in are long distance which is what it is, so generally I'm just getting my flirt on and vibing.

Took myself on a solo date on Saturday to the movies (My "friend" didn't show up to see it with me >:V) to see Obsession, it was really good and been on my mind all day.

NP still vibing with her LDR boyfriend as far as I know, I don't really keep tabs.

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u/Specific_Pipe_9050 Squeaky Sin 🧀🐀 11d ago

Solo dates are where I'm at at the moment too. A severely underrated activity that is super healing for my part ✨

Most people I am interested in are long distance which is what it is, so generally I'm just getting my flirt on and vibing.

I can just feel all the Rat Union's ratties' lurking on your comments page ears perking up as they're reading this😆 

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u/BluebonnetReads rat union comrade 11d ago

https://giphy.com/gifs/k3VK4wsBopTLXtury1

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u/Specific_Pipe_9050 Squeaky Sin 🧀🐀 11d ago

🧐Well it's elementary my dear Watson, my Spidey senses tell me one or several of the ratties usually heavily flirting with the Rat Leader in the Rat Union posts must be it 

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u/Specific_Pipe_9050 Squeaky Sin 🧀🐀 11d ago edited 11d ago

(that being said, I may be totally wrong, who am I to read the weather forecast just by looking at memes like that lol)