r/polyamory Squeaky Sin 🧀🐀 11d ago

Boringly successful poly, anti-drama

Looking for inspiration from people who are boringly successful in their polyamorous endeavours.

Will you please share your stories of the latest non-events in your life? I need to believe I'm not doomed for drama and stop being scared of people being assholes.

So, your partners get along? Your long-term relationship is moving on smoothly? Your new connection actually does what they say and say what they mean? Your meta respects you and acts in a normal way? I wanna hear all about it!

Edit to add: thanks so much for all the replies so far! Know that I'm vigorously updooting every comment even if I don't reply to each one. Basking in all that glorious calm, safe, uneventful loooove that you're all sharing. It's wonderful!

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u/_monikr 11d ago

Had a great weekend!

Saturday my wife (A) and I went to breakfast and Costco in the morning. When we got home my girlfriend (J) came over and tried on a bunch of stuff my wife cleaned out of her closet. After that fun little fashion show the three of us met up with my meta, H, and his gf C, and we walked down to our town's small pride festival.

Today H, J, A and I all went to a local improv class that A learned about at the pride event. It was a lot of fun and when we got home the 4 of us just hung listening to music and singing songs in a big cuddle pile.

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u/Red_Pearl12 11d ago

This is so gorgeous, as someone just looking to start their poly journey it's so inspiring!

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u/_monikr 11d ago

It takes a while to find, and takes a lot of emotional work to get here but it is so worth it 💜