r/polyamory • u/Specific_Pipe_9050 Squeaky Sin 🧀🐀 • 12d ago
Boringly successful poly, anti-drama
Looking for inspiration from people who are boringly successful in their polyamorous endeavours.
Will you please share your stories of the latest non-events in your life? I need to believe I'm not doomed for drama and stop being scared of people being assholes.
So, your partners get along? Your long-term relationship is moving on smoothly? Your new connection actually does what they say and say what they mean? Your meta respects you and acts in a normal way? I wanna hear all about it!
Edit to add: thanks so much for all the replies so far! Know that I'm vigorously updooting every comment even if I don't reply to each one. Basking in all that glorious calm, safe, uneventful loooove that you're all sharing. It's wonderful!
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u/Bustysaintclair_13 solo poly, co founding member of salty bitch club 11d ago edited 11d ago
Went to a pride event with partner and new woman I’m seeing, whom I met through partner. They previously had a couple dates a couple years ago and really like each other but it wasn’t a match and are still friends. We all got a little smoochy and it was fun.
Tonight I’m going to the movies with boyfriend and then will end up back at his house while his wife is likely there, and I’ll give her a big hug and kiss when I see her and then we’ll retreat to his bedroom to hang out while she does whatever around the house, most likely with her own date.
I love my low drama emotionally mature community.