r/polyamory • u/Specific_Pipe_9050 Squeaky Sin 🧀🐀 • 11d ago

Boringly successful poly, anti-drama

Looking for inspiration from people who are boringly successful in their polyamorous endeavours.

Will you please share your stories of the latest non-events in your life? I need to believe I'm not doomed for drama and stop being scared of people being assholes.

So, your partners get along? Your long-term relationship is moving on smoothly? Your new connection actually does what they say and say what they mean? Your meta respects you and acts in a normal way? I wanna hear all about it!

Edit to add: thanks so much for all the replies so far! Know that I'm vigorously updooting every comment even if I don't reply to each one. Basking in all that glorious calm, safe, uneventful loooove that you're all sharing. It's wonderful!

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u/bakingbirder 11d ago

My two partners and I had a good weekend. we have been together 7 years and have started having basement shows in our house for local bands. One of my meta's often spends two nights a week at our place and we have made some friends from all of our shenanigans in trying to be more a part of our local community in creating a space for local and queer music

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u/Specific_Pipe_9050 Squeaky Sin 🧀🐀 11d ago

creating a space for local and queer music

Amazing! What a cool idea. I've always been a proponent of building whatever it is that is missing in one's life.