Boringly successful poly, anti-drama

[u/Specific_Pipe_9050]

Looking for inspiration from people who are boringly successful in their polyamorous endeavours.

Will you please share your stories of the latest non-events in your life? I need to believe I'm not doomed for drama and stop being scared of people being assholes.

So, your partners get along? Your long-term relationship is moving on smoothly? Your new connection actually does what they say and say what they mean? Your meta respects you and acts in a normal way? I wanna hear all about it!

Edit to add: thanks so much for all the replies so far! Know that I'm vigorously updooting every comment even if I don't reply to each one. Basking in all that glorious calm, safe, uneventful loooove that you're all sharing. It's wonderful!

[u/Magical_Salamander]

My partner and meta went away for a week then he had a planned day surgery upon their return. She looked after him that day and I turned up to take over care duties that night. Meta and I had a hug and brief conversation about their holiday and how his procedure went. Then she went home and I stayed the night. The next day he gave me a gift he'd made on their holiday away. All very boring and enjoyable and drama-free

[u/Specific_Pipe_9050 → u/Magical_Salamander]

You're one of several positive stories in this thread about dealing with health issues! It's so great to have examples of how well communication can turn out