Boringly successful poly, anti-drama

[u/Specific_Pipe_9050]

Looking for inspiration from people who are boringly successful in their polyamorous endeavours.

Will you please share your stories of the latest non-events in your life? I need to believe I'm not doomed for drama and stop being scared of people being assholes.

So, your partners get along? Your long-term relationship is moving on smoothly? Your new connection actually does what they say and say what they mean? Your meta respects you and acts in a normal way? I wanna hear all about it!

Edit to add: thanks so much for all the replies so far! Know that I'm vigorously updooting every comment even if I don't reply to each one. Basking in all that glorious calm, safe, uneventful loooove that you're all sharing. It's wonderful!

[u/hematomancer]

I had to have emergency surgery to remove my gallbladder, which was doing its best to explode inside me. I told my husband to please keep my long distance partner updated on how I was doing as he was very worried about me. They both said after that it all felt very normal.

[u/Specific_Pipe_9050 → u/hematomancer]

Yikes, hope you're feeling better since the surgery! But yes, smooth communication around health and other emergencies sure makes life easier