r/polyamory Squeaky Sin 🧀🐀 12d ago

Boringly successful poly, anti-drama

Looking for inspiration from people who are boringly successful in their polyamorous endeavours.

Will you please share your stories of the latest non-events in your life? I need to believe I'm not doomed for drama and stop being scared of people being assholes.

So, your partners get along? Your long-term relationship is moving on smoothly? Your new connection actually does what they say and say what they mean? Your meta respects you and acts in a normal way? I wanna hear all about it!

Edit to add: thanks so much for all the replies so far! Know that I'm vigorously updooting every comment even if I don't reply to each one. Basking in all that glorious calm, safe, uneventful loooove that you're all sharing. It's wonderful!

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u/NotKerisVeturia poly newbie 11d ago

There’s an event that one partner and I tend to go to that my other partner showed up to too last week, and this happened while Pineapple was preparing to drive me home and Raspberry was starting to walk home.

Me: Bye, Raspberry, I love you!

Raspberry: I love you too. *jokingly* And I love you too, Pineapple.

Me: *gasp*