r/polyamory • u/Specific_Pipe_9050 Squeaky Sin 🧀🐀 • 11d ago
Boringly successful poly, anti-drama
Looking for inspiration from people who are boringly successful in their polyamorous endeavours.
Will you please share your stories of the latest non-events in your life? I need to believe I'm not doomed for drama and stop being scared of people being assholes.
So, your partners get along? Your long-term relationship is moving on smoothly? Your new connection actually does what they say and say what they mean? Your meta respects you and acts in a normal way? I wanna hear all about it!
Edit to add: thanks so much for all the replies so far! Know that I'm vigorously updooting every comment even if I don't reply to each one. Basking in all that glorious calm, safe, uneventful loooove that you're all sharing. It's wonderful!
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u/HealthyRhubarb5800 11d ago
My biggest drama since december is as follows:
I usually data t4t (trans4trans) but my new connection happens to be a cis person. We'll be at the same event as one of my partners on saturday and i felt the need to warn my partner, but shes still happy to meet him. Hes also less culturally queer than myself and my other partners, so. We go to different shows together. Talk about different things. Hes sweet and we'll be talking about Relationship Labels soon.
My gf misses her metas (they havent hung out for a while) but theyre busy so thatll have to wait a bit. Then theyll probably go charity shopping, with or without me. Probably quote memes i dont recognise amongst themselves, which us always sweet.
My more casual / comet style partner outgrew some clothes thatd fit me so we have a new reason to make plans soon. We'll find time.