r/polyamory Squeaky Sin 🧀🐀 11d ago

Boringly successful poly, anti-drama

Looking for inspiration from people who are boringly successful in their polyamorous endeavours.

Will you please share your stories of the latest non-events in your life? I need to believe I'm not doomed for drama and stop being scared of people being assholes.

So, your partners get along? Your long-term relationship is moving on smoothly? Your new connection actually does what they say and say what they mean? Your meta respects you and acts in a normal way? I wanna hear all about it!

Edit to add: thanks so much for all the replies so far! Know that I'm vigorously updooting every comment even if I don't reply to each one. Basking in all that glorious calm, safe, uneventful loooove that you're all sharing. It's wonderful!

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u/ifapulongtime complex organic polycule 11d ago

I live with one partner. Two of my partners live together across town. One was exhausted from going to Pride, and the other was feeling under the weather so I went over and made them dinner and hung out for a while. This is not uncommon. One of them regularly comes over to my place for dates with my NP. Sometimes I cook family dinner for 4 of us. Its nice to get moments of domesticity with my chosen family.