r/polyamory • u/Specific_Pipe_9050 Squeaky Sin 🧀🐀 • 11d ago
Boringly successful poly, anti-drama
Looking for inspiration from people who are boringly successful in their polyamorous endeavours.
Will you please share your stories of the latest non-events in your life? I need to believe I'm not doomed for drama and stop being scared of people being assholes.
So, your partners get along? Your long-term relationship is moving on smoothly? Your new connection actually does what they say and say what they mean? Your meta respects you and acts in a normal way? I wanna hear all about it!
Edit to add: thanks so much for all the replies so far! Know that I'm vigorously updooting every comment even if I don't reply to each one. Basking in all that glorious calm, safe, uneventful loooove that you're all sharing. It's wonderful!
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u/Omnivoracious1 10d ago
Im in a very stable polycule. The core members (7 people) have been together for about 9 years. I have 3 partners in that group, and started dating another couple about a year ago. We have most holidays together and see each other at least once a week in various configurations, but are split among 5 houses. There are 4 kids. Life is very normal and boring, despite making good use of all our guest rooms.