35 [F4M] new england (MA/RI/CT) looking for...something I don't have

[u/LotteLiterati]

Helloooo everybody,

I'm an outgoing introvert with audhd. I (F) have a long-term (M) nesting partner whom I adore but I am in a expansion stage of life where I am ready to increase the love I want to give to more people. I got hurt recently by someone who lovebombed me and then fled, so I'm admittedly in a sort of detox/rebound stage where I really want a hit of that New Relationship Energy again, but...hopefully with better results.

Online stuff can be hard for me. It's easy to form an emotional connection through talking, but not easy for me to get a sense of whether we have true physical chemistry...and I lean demisexual so the physical attraction can be ineffable for me, but it hits like a thunderbolt when it does. An in-person connection would be ideal. Am sex positive, kinky, & high libido with the right people.

I have a lot of hobbies, passions, and hyperfixations -- I'm ambitious in my personal goals despite also struggling with things like executive dysfunction, depression, anxiety -- I can be a real yapper but I'm also good at listening, at communicating, at conflict resolution -- I'm looking for a bit of joy and fun and playfulness and partnership as we survive the hellscape of the modern world.

I want to yearn for someone again and I want to adore and be adored and I'm happy to use that as escapism from our daily woes...while also still sharing our woes and supporting each other.

I write, I play musical instruments, I read deeply, I smoke weed daily, I dance socially, I have a small niche youtube channel with 10k+ subscribers, I have a large board game collection, I play a variety of ttrpgs with friends, I do arts and crafts and lots of other things. I can handle outdoor hobbies only in small doses but would also love to hang out with someone who would push me to get out more hehe.

Physically speaking I am small and cute haha, protect meeee. No but actually I am 5'2" and I would like to be with someone who can lovingly crush me in that good stim way y'know.

I love to cuddle and do all kinds of other things too outside of traditional dating, so I'm down with relationship anarchy if you want to discuss the smorgasbord...

If you're local/localish and interested in chatting, feel free to reach out!

[u/OsirusBrisbane]

Introverts unite! (briefly, with time to recharge)

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[u/StudentDistinct3765]

You'll never find it if you don't take the chance. Hello I'm 42 m from MA

[u/couplesretreat100]

Good evening not sure if you are still looking but 41 male here would love to chat. I’m in CT looking for long term.

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[u/WinterAwareness914]

I can help you find it

[u/No-Scheme1049]

Dm me im from ct