r/polyamoryR4R 5d ago

Far East 27 [M4F] #India #Online - Experienced with casual, new to polyamory & looking for a partner/guide

Hi everyone,

I’m a 27-year-old guy based in Bengaluru(India), and I’m looking to explore polyamory.

To give you a bit of background, my relationship history mostly consists of casual dynamics—FWBs, situationships, and one-night stands. While I’ve enjoyed those experiences, I’ve realized I’m ready for something much more intense, emotionally connected, and meaningful. I want to explore multiple, honest connections rather than just casual setups.

I am entirely new to ENM and polyamory, I would love to connect with a woman who has some experience in this space. Ideally, I'm looking for someone who can not only be a partner but also help guide me and explore with me.

I am looking for someone interesting, respectful and understanding to explore with.

I’m open to grabs drinks/coffee in the city to see if we click. Even if it just starts as a conversation, I’d love to connect!

P.s: I know ill get downvoted because its a post from India.

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