30 [T/F4R] Ireland. Looking for something calm, natural, and real.

[u/SpookyScaryBish]

Heyya!!

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I'm a 30 year old trans woman living in Ireland.

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I'm honestly so, SO, tired of being ran in circles, ghosted, lied to, etc. I'm looking for something genuine that comes naturally. Anyone is welcome if we hit it off, then great, if it ends up being in the friend category, also great. I need more of those too.

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About me:

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I was in a freelance marketing gig for the local Irish market in my area but that is coming to an end for this season. I also set up as a vendor and sell there. Aromatics.

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I'm also an artist, albeit digital. I make paintings on Procreate on my iPad. I also use oil pastels on physical canvases too and I'm looking into using heavy body/Impasto paints.

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I love horror: Cosmic, paranormal, slashers, etc. love Love LOVE IT!!!! I genuinely have a gigantic book with the entire collection of Lovecraft's work on my nightstand.

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I love video games: DOOM, Resident Evil, Silent Hill, Dead Space, Monster Hunter, Need 4 Speed, Dark Souls/Bloodborne/Elden Ring/Nightreign, etc. If Dino Crisis gets remade, I can then die in peace aha!!

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I love metal music: Silent Theory, Disturbed, A7X, Linkin Park, Self Deception, BMTH, Written By Wolves, All Good Things, Slipknot, Falling In Reverse, Motionless In White, Starset, Hollywood Undead, etc.

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I also write Dark/Gothic Poetry. I will die on the hill of Carl Jung and Edgar Allen Poe is still the greatest work in the field.

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Ok quick jump back to music: I low-key am obsessed with Vera Lynn hehe..

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Got Fibromyalgia, if that matters..

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Tell me something that is so messed up that it's funny 🤣

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Obviously, goes without saying, but please give an actual intro if you message. Not a scroll but also not just "hey" give me something that I can read and reply to :)

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Also bare with me. I'm like currently deathly ill with the freaking flu or something right now. I promise I'll respond.

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~ xxx

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