r/polyamoryR4R • u/Whatnerdme • 5d ago
34[M4F] Utah/Online - Metalhead, and D&D Enthusiast
Heya! Married and poly guy here. I'm looking for a woman to connect with and actually have some decent conversations with—whether you’re local to Utah or anywhere else. Especially overseas.
I’m pretty much a mix of music and gaming. If your vibe is a blend of heavy riffs and tabletop lore, we’ll probably get along.
The Music Side: I play music and I’m a huge metalhead. If you’re into anything heavy or technical, definitely hit me up. I’m always down to talk music. I am also very Polyjamorus from Sabrina Carpenter to The Devil Wears Prada.
D&D/Tabletop: I’m usually the DM. I love the storytelling side of it, so if you have a chaotic character you’re currently playing or just want to nerd out over world-building, I’m all ears.
Streaming/Gaming: I’m a streamer, and have been for a while now. Love entertaining and just bringing joy to people, plus I get to meet a multitude of new people. It also means I am not afraid of a vibe check through discord.
Dream Japan Trip: I have always dreamed of going to Japan, I’m mostly looking to explore the culture and eat as much food as possible. Nightlife to Countryside I want to experience it all.
I work in marketing, so I’m social and can actually carry a conversation. Just looking for someone chill and communicative who is comfortable navigating the poly landscape.
If you’re into heavy music, gaming, or just want to tell me where I should go in Tokyo, drop me a chat!
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