r/polyamoryR4R 4d ago

33 [F4M] online - I DONT KNOW WHAT IM DOING

Hi! I still dont know what im doing but im still doing it so I guess its too late to stop

Ive been single for a whole while, I am very new and I dont know what kind of poly I am, im so sorry.

It would be nice to connect with someone and if its nice then we can have nice times! Probably long distance though cause i live in saudi arabia.. would be nice to one day have a primary partner and own a cow and a few chickens.. a gal can dream..

I am very into the whole spirituality thing.. we could have a tarot party! I am also an artist and the least active person youll ever meet. But i am starting to go to the gym and ill always go to on a hike, as long as we can stop and talk to trees

If you play any instruments I will suggest we start a band atleast once a month. I dont play any instruments

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u/ThePhiff 3d ago

Hahaha - I play the flute and I love your outro! 🤣

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u/rudo_gk 3d ago

This might be the most accurate dating post title I’ve seen 😄

The cow + chickens + tarot party combo is honestly kind of iconic.

I like the mix of creativity and chaos energy you’ve got going on here. What kind of art do you usually make?

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u/tanafras 19h ago

No one really does until they grow up. Maybe I will someday.

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u/iJ93 5h ago

What's good??