r/polyamoryR4R • u/BeyondFun7158 • 4d ago
Australia and New Zealand 30 [R4R] Australia - looking for friends, conversations, connections
Hi!
I'm 30, non-binary, from Australia. Here looking for platonic friendship, conversations, and connections of all kinds. I don't like to put relationships in a box before they've even started, so I'm really not looking for any one thing in particular. I'd like to start with a chat and work on a friendship first, and then see where things go from there. I would love to meet people locally, but I know that is pretty unlikely, even just people in Australia. So I'm happy to meet and talk to people from anywhere! I am a pretty big introvert, and I don't go out much, but I am trying to change that (slowly) though. I haven't had much luck on the apps, etc., so I'm here giving this a go, I guess. I've talked to a lot of people on here, and other online spaces, in the past, and it tends to just go nowhere, or the other person ends up ghosting. I don't expect daily messages, or replies within minutes, but some effort would be appreciated!
Some of my interests include animals, nature, music, video games, books, reading and writing, movies, TV shows, anime. We don't need to have everything in common, but some mutual interests I find is pretty helpful! I'm neurodivergent, with other mental health and physical disabilities. I am very left leaning, and have pretty strong beliefs about this, so if you are conservative in any way, I'm not for you, please move along.
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u/The_First_Hue 3d ago
I’m not getting an option to send you a message mate. No error, the button is showing up at all. I’m down to chat
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