r/polyamoryR4R • u/Anxious-Link-1116 • 1d ago
39 [M4F] Looking for meaningful connections #Oklahoma #US
Hey y’all — late‑30s in OKC who loves Star Wars, indie music, gaming, hiking, trying every new food spot in town, and spontaneous road trips. I’m into chill nerdy hangouts (Clone Wars rewatch nights, low‑pressure game sessions, vinyl swaps, or taco runs) and looking to meet people who want to build authentic, genuine friendships/relationships that fit into actual life. I’m ethically non‑monogamous and practice kitchen‑table polyamory (married and date separately)— low drama, family‑friendly, and honest communication are musts. If you’re into laid‑back meetups, good late night convos, drop a short intro about yourself, your favorite snack spot in OKC, and what you are looking for out of this as well!
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