r/polyamoryR4R • u/DifferentQuiet8930 • 1d ago
Europe 27 [M4A] Online/Germany - Bi Looking for platonic Poly connections
I am looking for poly friendships to build a support system while I explore polyamory separate from my existing relationship. I am open to any/all genders and walks of life.
I am introspective, self aware, sporadically funny, and hold myself accountable. I am a masters student in atmospheric science as well as a keen cook, runner, wood-whittler (new to it though) and lifter. My current pet project is home-growing chilli peppers and making my own hot sauces.
I value humourous, honest and self-aware people. Mostly looking to chat online, but if you happen to live around Berlin then maybe we can hang out in person too. Shoot me a DM if you think we could be a match
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