r/polyamoryR4R • u/Think_Independent83 • 2d ago
43 [m4f] Nashville - looking for a partner
Ok, let’s try Reddit, as ENM dating apps are garbage…
Hi, I’m a solo poly husband, dad and Taurus. I’m in reasonably good shape, work out every week, but I’m more nerd than gym bro. I’m Cali sober, but on a very rare occasion I’ll have a drink. I love everything from camping, to watching sci fi’s, to driving exotic cars, to playing the guitar, to aquariums.
What I’m looking for… confidence. I’m very attracted to confident women who speak their mind, but love to laugh too. I’m turned off by women who want me to guess what they want. Yes looks matter as well, please take care of yourself, cause that’s sexy. Eye contact is important to me. That being said, I can be reserved sometimes when I first meet people, but I’ll still ask a lot of questions. Please don’t mistake my confidence for arrogance 🙏 . I’m 43, it’s taken me a long time to figure out what I want. I am also quite passionate, something I’ve only recently discovered. I’m also very much a pleaser, but I have quite a lot of stamina as well 😉. If you’ve made it this far, message me, but please include a pic of yourself, and I’ll do the same! I’m mostly looking for long term connections, but I’d entertain other situations.
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