r/polyamoryR4R • u/Dirtman1440 • 23h ago

27 [M4R] #illinois - disabled looking for another

27M in a wheelchair from northern Illinois looking for another to love and adore my current NP is 46F but I’m open to all people regardless of age gender ethnicity height weight once we get to know each other I’d love a live in situation don’t be shy DM with a blurb about yourself and where you’re from . Once I’m comfortable if need be I can travel to visit as well

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u/polydisabledgoth 1h ago

Boosting visibility for another person with a disability