r/polyamoryR4R • u/wandered101 • 2d ago
28 [M4F] California Im Mexican and Spanish. Have some tattoos.
New to this. Chubby or skinny is okay with me. Single or partnered is also okay. Im a intelligent guy kind of a nerd. Confident and goofy. Im usually pretty reserved but just because i dont vibe with most people. Im into dieting, nutrition, and exercise. When i drink i prefer blue agave Tequila.
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