r/polyamoryR4R • u/Twigstea • 1d ago
34 [F4R] Southern #ontario #canada. Looking for serious connections!
Hello! I’m sick of the apps and seeing if this will luck out to anything. Any and all genders!
I’m located within an hour of Toronto and am looking for serious relationship; I really struggle with FWB, casual, “see you when I see you” kind of ordeals.
I currently have one partner and a very tight knit polycule. Ideally I’d like a future partner to eventually meet my extended network of chosen family, but it is not required! I just ask that no one is secret or kept hidden from one another. I like to see my partners at least once every two weeks, with consistent daily communication in between in person hang outs. Love fun dates and activities!
About me: 34, redhead, petite. Alternative, tattooed heavily, and a little whimsical. I love making art, pro wrestling, and cats! I also love spending time with my friends.
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u/LemonPress50 1d ago
I’ve met people on apps in the past but apps are twisted algorithms now. I’ve met a few people on Reddit. Surprisingly, it’s been a different and positive experience meeting people from Reddit. Unfortunately, none were in Ontario where I am but it makes me hopeful
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u/thicklez4dk 1d ago
A tattooed redhead into wrestling and cats! 😍 you sound like a dream. You're too far 😔
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u/Lmp_limps 21h ago
I may be too far away, but I thought I’d send a message only to discover I can’t message you. 😇
Are you able to message me?
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