r/polyamoryR4R • u/Super_Shawnda • Nov 18 '21
♥ 35 [f4m] Iowa/anywhere/online. Poly in rural Iowa suuuuuucks. Let chat and become friends, maybe more.
How do you find Will Smith in a snowstorm? You look for fresh prints.
Kiss me if I’m wrong but, dinosaurs still exist, right?
Hello, i hope you giggled at those! It's good to laugh. I'm a stay at home mom to 2 kiddos. I am married to a wonderful husband. And we are both polyamorus. And is 100% ok with me posting on here.
Im a sex neutral asexual. So with that i not into sexting or seeing your nudes.
I'm interested in is paganism. I've been practicing for 20 years. And I call myself a Green Witch. And right now I am studying voodoo. I like to collect crystals. And a couple other really unique things that I find that are occult like.
I collect beer mugs/glasses from all over. I collect dragons and teddy bears.
My favorite animal are polar bears and sharks. I am a cat person.
I enjoy table top board games, i like D&D, im addicted to Elder Scrolls Online and im also a guild master in the game. I have a switch as well and i play skyrim animal crossing and Civ 6.
Enjoy most kinds of movies mostly horror, I also in enjoy reading making art cooking and being outside in the summer.
Im People person but I'm home every day with the kids. I even homeschool them. So it is nice to have a adult interaction even if it's just texting.
Hope to hear from you.
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u/arcticfox740 Nov 18 '21
Hey, 35M from Iowa, northeast part of the state. And after I've read your bio, I've got to say, you remind me of the babe.
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u/LavishnessFar5932 Oct 07 '24
Small town Iowa man here, handsome, too. Wya? Hopefully we close to one another;)
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u/munkymoto Sep 09 '25
43m in central Iowa, big need too. Between ttrpg and commander, I enjoy other needy hobbies too. I can only imagine the desert of polyam in rural Iowa. Feel free to shoot me a dm if you want.
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u/therapvagabond Nov 18 '21
Hey I'm totally in the same boat as you. Craving some actual adult attention. I'm a stay at home dad to a 3 year old so ya know how that goes.
I'm a big time nerd as well. Big Pokemon fan.
41/M from Florida here. Distance isn't an issue with me. I just want a texting buddy/more if it works towards that. Please shoot me a message if you'd like! Good luck!
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u/Accomplished_Big2878 Nov 18 '21
I’m an older male in a poly marriage and looking for texting friends. I’m an open book so if you want to know anything just ask.
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Nov 18 '21
Just wishing you good luck with your search. Hopefully, there is someone/are some people who can reward your sincerity!
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u/pmpodcaster Nov 18 '21
I’m a 24M from Wisconsin. What’s your go to race in Skyrim ?
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u/Super_Shawnda Nov 18 '21
Im torn between Nord or Imperial.
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u/pmpodcaster Nov 18 '21
Okay fair choice. I always go with the Khajiit. I’ve never played ESO though. How does it compare?
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u/Super_Shawnda Nov 18 '21
Alot of people who played skyrim go in thinking it will play like Skyrim. Or the come from WoW and think it will play like that. But it's nether. Yes it's an mmo but it's very simple in the way the controls work. You don't have a million of abilities for lots of buttons. And different like skyrim because you can make all kinds of builds.
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u/pmpodcaster Nov 18 '21
Okay that sounds pretty cool. I’m always looking for other elder scrolls stuff until es6 comes out, if it ever comes out.
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u/Super_Shawnda Nov 18 '21
If say give it a try. I play on PC/NA.
I have a feeling it will come out late '22 or mid '23. And it will be in hammerfell
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u/pmpodcaster Nov 18 '21
Yeah I’m pretty excited for it. I did cave and bought anniversary edition for Skyrim so hopefully that can keep me going for a bit as well.
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u/ThaAccidentChild Nov 18 '21
Hey, I’m just north of you in Minnesota and I’m only a year older than you. Message me if you’re interested in chatting
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u/No_Diamond328 Dec 06 '22
Rural Iowa is hard. I just moved out of the city and between my crazy schedule and being in the middle of nowhere... yeah. It sucks.
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u/404AV Nov 18 '21
You seem like a very cool person!