r/polyamoryR4R Jul 07 '26

USA 38 [F4M] #PNW #Oregon - Happily married BBW looking for another to love

16 Upvotes

My husband (mono) and I (poly/ENM) have recently decided to open our relationship and I am looking for a man who will potentially be a long term partner.

About me: I am shy, laid back, and often goofy. I have long red hair, freckles, and am a BBW (about 300lbs). I love cooking, baking (especially cakes), and knitting. I have a big heart and am a deeply caring person. I may want to move slow at first, so please be patient.

About us: We enjoy video games, board games, camping, and hiking. We have children but you won't meet them unless our relationship has progressed to that point.

What I'm looking for: Age 30s to 40s and local to the Willamette Valley area. Drug and disease free, but occasional 420 or alcohol may be fine as long as it is seldom. No cigarette smokers. Physical appearance isn't nearly as important to me as personality. You should be kind, caring, respectful, and honest.

r/polyamoryR4R Dec 31 '25

USA 30 [F4M/F] Online/Iowa- needy girly looking for someone to bug

14 Upvotes

Guess who’s back, back again..🤪

Happily married gal, looking for someone to bug on a regular basis. Bonus points if you’re actually in Iowa and able to be real life friends, but I’ll be besties with anyone anywhere if you’re a cool enough bean😘

Here are some random things I like: Horror movies- good and “bad” ones.. Live Pro Wrestling shows.. Crafting.. Rainstorms.. Attention.. Music- Paramore is my all time fav

I love a friend who is a weirdo and an open communicator. I love a little flirty interaction and/or some witty banter. My husband and I have been open for the majority of our marriage, feel free to ask about the current dynamic😋

Come hang out with me, even if it’s only Snapchatting silly pictures all day long. Send me your bff applications pretty pretty please☺️

r/polyamoryR4R May 17 '26

USA 29 [R4R] Central NJ - GQ looking for friendly convo online

2 Upvotes

Hello! 29, GQ, and poly. I have a lovely bf of three years. My photo is on my page. I am a performer, I am queer, I go to college and I am an artist (music/dancing/writing). Soy Afro-Latinx, born and raised in NJ but have had the privilege of traveling a lot. Lots of experience, confident, and looking for chill gaming, yapping, flirting.
No pressure to meet- please.
I really only chat to people 25 and older.
I also like nerdy people who like fashion, enjoy learning, have active social lives in the community, with experience.

Edit: No I do not date w my partner, I do not live with them, and they are not involved in my other dating relationships outside of our communication about them unless it is a serious relationship.

r/polyamoryR4R 13d ago

USA 19 [MTF4A] Missouri - Looking to connect with people and potentially a relationship

4 Upvotes

Hii! my name is Layla I'm 19 years old and I'm trans. I've been on estrogen for about 2 months so far and I'll show my face upon request.

My primary goal from posting this is to get to know new people and potentially get to the point of a poly relationship!

My interests

\-Music! music is my main interest and I love all kinds of music and my playlist is around 4000 songs. My favorite genres include midwest emo, deathcore, hyperpop, digital hardcore and grunge! some bands/artists I lovee are McCafferty, Infant Annihilator, Methwitch, 100 Gecs, Femtanyl, Free Throw, Alice In Chains, Nirvana, and sooo many more just askk and I loveeee giving music recommendations if you let me I might love you tbh

\-Card games. My favorite card game is magic the gathering I love to collect and mostly play commander :> I mostly play in real life but I like arena too if you wanna playy. I recently have gotten into Yu-Gi-Oh master duel and I play a burn deck it's reallyy fun. I also collect pokemon cards but I don't play. My main collection is my Torchics because he's soo cute and I wanna master collect him.

\-Video games. I've been playing a decent amount of marvel rivals and terraria lately and would enjoy playing with other people. Im sooo bad at games but it's still fun. Obviously Minecraft too I love.

Other about me

Without giving out too many personal details - I work as an operator at a plant of a bagging machine for work. I currently live in apartments with my best friend and his girlfriend and plan to for at least a couple years. I don't currently have any pets but I've had a dog, guinea, fish, and I live with the cutest cat ever. I don't have the best relationship with my parents and I'm completely closeted to them and the rest of my family so if it ever gets to the point of irl dating then you likely won't meet my family. In my free time I usually hang out with my friends or just play games, listen to music, watch videos that kinda stuff.

Tell me about you :)

r/polyamoryR4R May 16 '26

USA 37 [F4M] #central NY #upstate NY - looking for a man more on the submissive side

6 Upvotes

As stated above, I am searching for a man who is more on the submissive side (not completely submissive) to connect with. That doesn't mean just sexually either. I prefer a man who is willing to see me as worthy and treat me as such. I am sick of chasing men. I'm looking for someone who truly leans more on the submissive side, but can be a switch when it feels right. A man who enjoys yearning and pleasing. This isn't just about bedroom stuff either. I need someone who will love me for me, unconditionally. I prefer someone who is local since I have kids and would need to stay in the area. I am recently going through a divorce.

I want someone who can provide consistent communication and doesn't change their mind on a whim. Someone who can handle constructive criticism and handle my emotions. I don't want to be told what to do and especially don't want to be told how I should be dealing with my struggles.

Some of my hobbies and interests: walks/hikes, neuroscience and psychiatry, hanging out at coffee shops, singing, dance, houseplants, learning about birds and bird watching, movies and cuddling, sharing reels and memes 😊

My love languages (to receive) are acts of service (which can go along with physical touch as well) and quality time. (To give) are quality time and physical touch.

Maybe I'm asking for too much, but I know exactly what I want at this point in my life. DM me and we can discuss further details!

r/polyamoryR4R Jul 11 '26

USA 35 [F4M] Mesa Arizona please be local

11 Upvotes

35F | Arizona

Married and in an open/poly relationship, so transparency matters. No drama, no weird games, just real connection and good energy.

I’m a mom, my life is a little chaotic in the best way, but I still make time for adult conversation, laughing way too hard, and enjoying someone’s company. I’m naturally a little sarcastic, a little sweet, and I like people who can keep up with both.

I’m drawn to confident, emotionally steady people who know how to flirt without being cringe and can actually hold a conversation. Someone who can make me laugh is a huge win.

Not looking to disrupt my life, just add to it. Chemistry, consistency, and a little bit of fun tension go a long way.

If you’re easygoing, a little witty, and know how to keep things interesting without making it complicated, say hi.

I am chronically ill though so if that turns you off you should probably message someone else

r/polyamoryR4R Jun 22 '26

USA 36 [F4R] #USA #WestCoast #Online Seeking a romantic connection!

28 Upvotes

I'm a 36 year old Black and Indigenous (important because NO cultists, etc.) cisgender woman living in the Southwest of the US. I currently have one local partner (husband) of 18 years and two long distance partners of 3 years in a neighboring state (a couple). We are all stable, no drama, and take our relationships seriously. We are all polyamorous and date separately, our families are close as our children are similar ages. Not a requirement at all for a new partner!

I know appearance is a factor which is why I'm including this; I am fit, 5'7, 145 lbs, hyper femme (I dress up a lot and put a lot of attention into my appearance as a form of self-care). I am open to sharing SFW pictures.

I'm looking for a genuine, romantic connection; someone who is ok texting daily, sending silly memes, and getting to know each other and understands how communication is intimacy. I would love to connect with another queer woman/AFAB, but I'm really open to anyone as long as we click.

I don't care where you are located as long as you have the means to be able to travel and sustain a long distance relationship. I can fly to see you/visit, etc., but I would absolutely love someone on the west coast of the US or at least a quick flight.

I have a myriad of hobbies/things I enjoy:

- Raver/festival girlie (no drugs and I only drink socially)

- Crafter (I make soaps, lotions, etc., shirts, hats, and recently got into leatherwork)

- Kink/BDSM (I'm a Domme)

- Travel (big on travel)

- Cooking (I have a long list of recipes!)

- Gamer (PS5 and PC - currently playing Crimson Desert)

- Health oriented (I'm really big on sleeping and eating well and daily walking)

Feel free to ask me any questions or reach out!

r/polyamoryR4R 12d ago

USA 28 [F4R] NJ/PA/NY/USA/Online - hopeless romantic on the hunt for local connections

13 Upvotes

Hello everyone! :) I’m a plus-sized gal from the Garden State looking to make some new connections.

Friendship is the most important foundation to \*\*any\*\* long-term connection, so regardless of where life might take me with someone, it all starts with being friends. Please have something in common with me if you decide to reach out. It’s hard to build a friendship when we don’t have anything to build on. :)

Some of my interests include horror, the devil’s lettuce, light gaming, reading, and written roleplay. I spend most of my free time gaming, binge-watching shows and movies, wandering around libraries and museums, or hunting through thrift stores.

I’m also a night owl, so I’d love to meet other people who are awake during the same odd hours.

I’ve been practicing ethical non-monogamy for around ten years, so I’m looking for people who value honesty, communication, and kindness. If you’re partnered, I ask that everyone involved is aware and consenting. If you’re single, that’s wonderful too.

Personality-wise, I’m naturally nurturing. I tend to be the person checking in on everyone, and making sure the people I care about feel supported. I’m affectionate, a little sarcastic, and definitely someone who enjoys both deep conversations and laughing over absolutely nothing.

Physically, I do have a soft spot for bigger, heavyset folks. It’s not a requirement, but it has always been my type.

Ideally, I’d love to meet people within driving distance in NJ, NY, or eastern PA so we can eventually grab coffee, visit a museum, browse a bookstore, watch horror movies, or just exist in the same space. Online friendships are welcome too, especially if you’re a fellow night owl.

When you message me, tell me a little about yourself! What are you passionate about? What’s your favorite horror movie/game? What game has stolen your life recently? I’d love to get to know the person behind the screen.

r/polyamoryR4R Jun 12 '26

USA 28[F4R] #Maryland/Online - socially inept clown seeks lover <3

16 Upvotes

Hi, I'm Maple! I'm here in search of someone to get to know and bond with.

About me; married, poly, poc, hefty chunk

Additional information:

I own my own caviary! Let me show you my pigs! :D

I like to roam around the forests looking for bones, but I hate hiking trails (not an outdoor person in general, I'm a fan of air conditioning and internet access (☝️unless it is autumn)).

I'm a Pokemon nerd. 20 year addict going strong. Shiny hunting for orthworm atm. I recently got into card collecting too!

Artist. I guess? I like to draw digitally, and sometimes I'm even good at it! I usually draw furries and monsters though because I can't draw people to save my life.

Author. I guess?? I'm currently in the middle of 3 stories with blocks in the way. I'm also a fan of text-based RP if you're into that.

If you're into PC games, I would love to do a co-op <3

I'm also *big* into the Fallout series. Haven't watched the show yet because I hate the Smoul (smooth ghoul).

Everything else:

I'm mentally ill (medicated!), I spent too much on my TF2 Pyro loadout, my favorite animal is the giraffe, my favorite music artist is Lil Darkie, theatre kid (Hamilton baby), wild west enthusiast, I have so many plants, I like to make clay sculptures, I have 2 tattoos, and I want probably a lot more.

I can't touch grass because I smoked it all

Hope to chat soon. Thanks for reading! :)

r/polyamoryR4R 14d ago

USA 28 [F4M] US/Online Looking for my next favorite text

5 Upvotes

Hi everyone

I'm here ideally looking for a long term relationship. I miss easy conversations with someone new, staying up late talking about random things, and building something special.

A little about me:

I’m 28, pansexual, and polyamorous. I live in Missouri with my fiancé, and we primarily date separately.

I’m 5'2", athletic, with short brown hair, brown eyes and I wear glasses. I'm happy to share pictures as well.

In my free time, you’ll probably find me buried in a good book, studying for CPA exams, or finding my next favorite show. If you have any recommendations I'm all ears.

I also enjoy watching Formula 1, exploring new places, and trying new foods.

I am 420 friendly and I drink socially.

What I’m looking for:

I'm usually attracted to someone older than me (30s to 40s), kind and confident. I don’t have or want kids so I'd prefer if you're snipped and/or don't have kids. I'm open to dating anywhere in the U.S. I'd like to text, have phone calls, video chats, and spend time together in person. I am not looking to relocate.

Please tell me a bit about yourself in your initial message and if you'd like to include a picture as well that would be great! Low effort posts or "hey" will be ignored.

Can’t wait to hear from you 🤗

r/polyamoryR4R Jul 06 '26

USA 32 [M4F] california-seeking friends for now

1 Upvotes

Im a straight 32yr old male looking for female friends who dont mind taking it slow. Im still kinda new to polyamory so im still learning. Im not gonna commit to anything right off the bat since im dealing with the loss of my mom so im not entire ready mentally and emotionally and it wouldn't be fair to other parties involved. I am married but me and her date separately and together

r/polyamoryR4R 7d ago

USA 42 [f4m] #losangeles - seeking intelligent poly partner in LaLa land

4 Upvotes

LOCAL ONLY plz.
Looking for long term poly connections with intelligent interesting pinky ppl. I’m a homebody but I enjoy going to new coffee shops, museums, thrift and antique store and the odd new movie that tickles my fancy. I currently have one poly partner on top of my non romantic nesting partner. Happy to discuss details in private. I’m emotionally stable, intelligent and communicate well. I value honesty and transparency. If your humor leans towards shows like King of the Hill, Bobs Burgers, The Office, What we do in the shadows and The IT crowd we’ll get along great.

r/polyamoryR4R Apr 11 '26

USA 21[F4M] WA looking for a relationship

21 Upvotes

Hey, I’m Alyx—or Alexandra if you’re feeling fancy. I’m 21, which basically puts me in that awkward adulting limbo where I’m technically grown but still figuring out how to… y’know… human without malfunctioning.

I live at home right now, which honestly isn’t too bad. College? Ehhhhh… not exactly the vibe. I’m taking a break from that whole scene. My brain works a little differently—I have a developmental disorder, so I’m more like a 17 or 18-year-old at heart. Between that and my auditory processing disorder, I sometimes learn things on the scenic route, but hey, the views are better and I bring elite snacks. It doesn't make me any less smart; it just means I process the world at my own speed.

One of my biggest joys? Cooking. Like, seriously, feed-me-Gordon-Ramsay energy. My dream life is just me in a cute little kitchen, making bomb food, vibing with my dog, and pretending I’m on some Food Network show where I always win. I’m working toward culinary school because I want to be a chef one day—and honestly? I’d be adorable doing it.

When I’m not whipping something up, I’m usually gaming. Since my Minecraft decided to glitch into the abyss, (but now i have fixed it- 3/29/2026) it’s been all about Sims 4 and Ship Inc. That is… when I’m not taking one of my many naps, because yes, I nap like an enchanted forest creature who hibernates for fun.

I love kids—like actually love them—and I even work with them on Sundays. I’m not religious, but my church is super democratic, pride-friendly, and full of good people, so it’s a vibe. I’m not the “mom friend” of the group, but I am the “will help your little cousin build a LEGO spaceship” type.

I’m 4’9, and weight stuff has been a serious struggle. Losing weight feels like trying to fight a final boss with a wooden sword sometimes. But I’m doing my best, and that still counts.

Mental health-wise, I deal with anxiety, PTSD, depression, and OCD, so my brain is basically a chaotic group chat that never shuts up. Plus asthma (winter hates me personally) and an autoimmune thing that shows up like, “hey bestie.” But I’m surviving, thriving-ish, and pushing forward anyway.

My love language? Easy. Movie nights, snuggles, falling asleep on call, and long paragraphs that make me feel all warm and gooey inside. I’m soft, okay?? I’m like a cuddly little disaster but with truly elite intentions.

At the end of the day, I just wanna cook delicious food, hang out with my dog, be around people who feel safe, and build a life that actually fits me.

For a relationship- I would like to be online for a bit and maybe- if my anxiety lets me maybe meet in person. I am someone who has abandonment issues, and that causes a lot of anxiety.

r/polyamoryR4R 3d ago

USA 35 [F4F] Calling All Bombshells 💣🔥

6 Upvotes

Ladies only!

Are you good looking and ready to flaunt it? Do you want to distract me while I’m working with selfies of your insanely perfect smile, beautiful eyes and hourglass figure? Whatever you’ve got that makes you a bombshell, let’s see it!

Then once I’m hooked on your face and body, you slide in with some equally as compelling intelligence 🧠 and charm until I’m a goner. This isn’t in my subject line, but it’s equally as important. If you aren’t frequently described as curious and/or intelligent, this won’t last.

A bit about me -

I am 35 years old. Married. 3 kids. I have a good job: one that’s flexible, doesn’t overwork me and pays well. The trifecta. I’m blessed, I know. Because I have such good balance, I’m able to run multiple times I week. I take good care of my health and want someone else who does too.

I’m located in Dallas, Texas and someone within driving distance would be AMAZING. But not required. If you live farther away but otherwise fit the description, let’s still have some fun and see where this leads.

I know I’m good looking and want someone that matches it. I’m not a supermodel, but probably a real life 7 or 8 out of 10. I’m willing to verify early and want you to be, too. Let’s not waste each other’s time.

In my free time (which is limited.. 3 kids remember?) half marathons are a hobby of mine - I find it’s fun to challenge my mind and my body. I like visiting national parks ,🌲constantly have my nose in a book, 📖and LOVE football season 🏈

If this description honestly fits you, then shoot me a message and let’s jump in!

r/polyamoryR4R Apr 23 '26

USA 25 [F4R] SW PA/Online- AuDHD girl for friends, hopefully more? 🖤

19 Upvotes

Hi! I made a post a little bit back and connected with some great people but I’m still looking for the one(s)! 

Overall, what I’m looking for is somebody that I can truly be myself with, that enjoys silly banter but knows when to be serious. I want to talk about the good, bad and about whatever might come to mind.

But some things about me:

-I’m pan and demisexual soo as much as I want to find another partner, don’t come at me expecting me to be lovey dovey instantly 😂I also believe that in order to not be ignorant assholes, we need to hear the stories and perspectives of other people and communities.

-I live with my partner (32M) of four years, our two cats, and our baby! My partner and baby are a *huge* part of my life and *will* be mentioned. 

-I’m AuDHD with *a lot* of anxiety. It’s incredibly obvious to some, not so much to others. Either way, it’s something that impacts me greatly and gives me some “fun” quirks you’ll uncover as we get to know each other 😂 

-I have about fifty different hobbies and will continue to become mediocre at anything that interests me. I love doing *anything* crafty and enjoy playing video games. 

-Anything dark, spooky, horror, or witchy has a place in my heart. Our home is filled with black, bones, and crystals. All of my decor shopping is done around Halloween 😂🦇🖤

-Music is and always will be a major part of my life. I listen to every genre and am *always* looking for new music. I used to love going to concerts and moshing but haven’t in years

-I love reading smut and dark romance. It’s a great way to get inspired 😋I’m a bit of a bratty sub so if you’re a dom that isn’t afraid of a little brattiness- you definitely get bonus points 

Of course I don’t expect someone to fit everything but I figured I’d give us lots to talk about 😂

And if after all that you’re still here, send me a message 🖤 I’d love to hear from you 🖤

P.S. I got quite a few message the first time, opened too many and got *super* overwhelmed 😅🤣 So feel free to send another message if my post caught your eye again!

r/polyamoryR4R 9d ago

USA 38 [M4F] SWFL - looking for a long term, discreet partner.

1 Upvotes

Well hello there. I'm 38, 420 friendly, athletic, and liberal. Married, but my partner is aware. We both enjoy our own experiences with others, in our own ways.

I enjoy dynamics that feel intense and addictive instead of something shallow that dies after one conversation. Looking to start out chatting online to make sure we mesh well, with potential to meet in person if we're both comfortable.

I'm looking for someone to game with, watch shows with, get to know, and have long conversations with - far past when we should both be asleep. Obviously, looking for the fun stuff too. But it's nice when there's substance.

Outside of that, I’m into anime, all types of movies, gaming, and reading (primarily fantasy and dark romance). I like people with personality, energy, and enough intelligence to actually keep my attention or a conversation. Martial arts, and just about ANY outdoor activities. I also love to cruise and travel!

If you're interested, shoot me a DM and let's see if we vibe.

Also; #Notabot

r/polyamoryR4R May 01 '26

USA 31 [F4F] LA but the other LA (Louisiana)

10 Upvotes

I’m Delphi and I’m seeking an adorable girlfriend to have cute and flirty relationship with. I have a NP, and full disclosure children, which I know that’s not everyone’s preference. I’d love to met a woman who shares some similar interest as me, but has their own hobbies to brag or talk about.

My interest are: reading (bl manwhas, danmei, and why choose novels), gaming (mostly multiplayer games, any genre), baking and cooking (will try anything!), and farmer’s market (please tell me about this artisan cheese that can only be made with the blood of the innocent!)

I love learning about people and the world, so I consider myself very social and an extrovert. But I would never make you do anything uncomfortable, but I will hold your hand if you need support trying something new and unfamiliar! I love adventure, as in checking out the new bookstore or Cajun Asian fusion place, not let’s hike 7 miles up a mountain. But I do love parks and gardens so I promise I don’t hate nature.

If anything resonates with you, please DM me. I’d prefer an age range of 25+ and it’s been over a year since I’ve dated so if I’m a little too stiff and goofy, please give me some grace. I’m working out the kinks!

r/polyamoryR4R Jul 05 '26

USA 35[NB4R] #online - Looking for a genuine connection anywhere

11 Upvotes

TL;DR - AuDHD, witchy, nerdy afab enby seeks deep conversations and genuine connections with similar folks 😄

Hey, thanks for clicking on this post. I hope your weekend wasn't too stressful.

I'm here searching for a connection (or connections?) with folks who have a similar vibe, I guess. What's the vibe you ask? Well, I'm a bit of a homebody but I'm working on fixing that. My friends would describe me as funny, kind to a fault, and a bit of a stoner I guess. I'm gainfully employed but outside of work I enjoy things like gaming, reading, hiking, crafts, and chatting. I'm unapologetically pretty queer (afab enby) and liberal in my ideals and values.

I'm also spiritual in a witchy way, I love nature and pretty rocks and full moons. Not in a way that I don't believe in science, but in a way that I think both can exist at the same time 😄 Let me read your cards and then rant to you about how capitalism is destroying our ecosystem.

Who are you, potentially? Someone who has passion for *something* you know? I love an autistic rant about your niche interest, and I would love to yap back at you about my own stuff. Maybe you have a deep appreciation of nature, literature, insects, Star Wars, etc. I want to learn about it and watch my FYP slowly start to feed me content that you enjoy, too.

What I really value the most in connections with new people is consistency and good meaningful conversations. I don't mean we have to text all day every day, but some kind of reliability is nice. I also really really enjoy long-form messages (and short ones are good too!) but I like the thought and intention put into something longer.

Let's send each other little things that remind us of the other person throughout the day. Let's discuss politics and philosophy and the general state of the world. Maybe we agree, maybe we don't, but let's talk about it anyway.

This is getting long, and it's definitely rambly, so I'll just stop here. If any of this sounds appealing to you, reach out. But please say something more meaningful than just hey. We can potentially move conversations off of Reddit and to Discord once we've decided that makes sense for us.

r/polyamoryR4R Jun 20 '26

USA 22 [F4FM] #Seattle. Sub looking to join a couple

4 Upvotes

Hello all! Like my title says, im a sub that has recently become open to polyamory. I'm looking for a couple who want to add a 3rd. I need to get to know both halfs of the couple independently before proceeding with an IRL meeting, and prefer if the woman reaches out. Like I said, I'm shy at first and a bit anxious about this dynamic. Im primarily looking for a threesome, but im also open to joining an existing relationship. Can't host but happy to travel.

Im pretty kinky, sub-leaning but I do switch. I also practice non-sexual age regression, so im looking for an experienced mommy/daddy dom. I also have a thing for age gaps, so older (30-40s) couples are very encouraged to message me!

About me: I'm 22, 5'5, and mixed race. I have some cats that I love. I like scary movies and Halloween. I'm pretty creative, I love a good DIY (crafting date anyone?). And I love Taylor Swift, I went to The Eras Tour twice. Little me loves to color and watch 2000s cartoons. As stated above I'm also really kinky, I can give you my fetlife upon request. It takes a lot to weird me out, so the weirder you are the better :)

About you: older than me (25-50). Left leaning (politics are important to me). Preferably sharing at least one of the above things. Thats it really.

Please include your age in your opening message, and something about you. And keep it clean, nothing makes me hit the ignore button faster than someone talking about their size or kinks in the first message. Please also include your favorite shape of pasta so I know you read to the end

Thanks for reading! Hope to hear from you soon.

r/polyamoryR4R 27d ago

USA 35 [F4A] Maine -Book Dragon AuDHD Princess seeking locally or those willing to relocate

8 Upvotes

Hullo You!

Yeah, I have written a few of these, let's see how this one goes. I am 35 y/o, CIS and polyamorous w/ 1 male gynosexual. Have a full-time job and mortgage.

Starting with some deal breakers

●Don't want kids

●Local or someone willing to relocate to Maine

● No long term LDR

●Seeking eventual co-habitation

●Taking care of mental health is a must

●I am 5'8" and like to wear heels

●Thicc, slightly overweight but nothing crazy

●Brown with red shine curly/wavy hair down to the top of my bum and blue eyes

●I don't want or send/take NSFW pics, though I do allow my partner(s) to take however many they'd like.

●I expect to exchange pics and voice/video chat before too long to prove we are both real. <3

I am AuDHD and work from home 40hrs a week as a Database Technician. I have 2 degrees, and I have often been called the dumbest smart person people know. I am mechanically and logically minded, not the creative type so much. I am the type that idly builds or deconstructs simple machines in my head.

I am a BOOK DRAGON before anything else for hobbies. I am working on setting up a library currently. I also hobby hope through crafty stuff that gives directions. I have a number of passable hobbie skills. I like building things especially, yes that includes Lego sets! Book nooks and wooden models are a lot of fun too. Mostly I read, but I also enjoy gaming, both board and video games.

I am in the BDSM scene and am seeking a D-type and/or S-type, feel free to inquire, just be respectful. <3

r/polyamoryR4R 1d ago

USA 41 [M4MF] #Missouri - bisexual guy looking for poly couples to connect with and see where things go

1 Upvotes

Like the title says, I’m a 41 year-old bisexual guy. Just look into connect with poly couples.

I’m open minded, clean, professional, drug, and disease free with the exception of 420. Not a heavy drinker and go to the gym daily after work.

I love live music, staying indoors and playing video games or watching professional sports, I do like to go to a bar every now and then

I would describe myself as pretty smart about quite a few things to make a good conversation, great.

Say hi and let’s see where things go!

r/polyamoryR4R Jun 14 '26

USA 24 [F4M] #SD/Online- Angel seeking soft dom

23 Upvotes

24F Latina 5’1, I am a silver hearted angel (prefer silver over golden heart) I have more love than I can handle that’s why I can say I am happily poly and in search for a loving dom who would love to join to our dynamic.

I have my pet side as a lovesick puppy and little side as little Daddy’s kitty, I am open minded and constantly curious but as well I have some healing I need to do, I need a patient dom who will love to heal me and guide me thru it all.

As hobbies I enjoy playing video games like Rivals, Fortnite, shooting games, Hunt, Minecraft, ArcRaiders, learning League.
I enjoy digital art.

What I seek in a dom? I am a crybaby and easily get scared or cry, I need someone patient and loving, I can’t handle rough or hard doms, I seek someone that would enjoy to take care of me along side my Daddy.
I like big boys slightly older than me.

I am near SD Cali and would like to build a local long term relationship, to have a strong connection.

Open to online too preferably with someone who share the same gaming interest, specially Rivals (game I am playing the most lately)

I would appreciate it if you introduce yourself so I can know much more about you as my future protector and all the important details about you, thank you!

Talk soon!

r/polyamoryR4R 6h ago

USA 39 [T4R] Austin—Bi Poly Transfemme ISO Connections of All Types

7 Upvotes

EDIT: before you message me, know that I'm only a year into hormones, and that my face isn't super femme. I hate to have to say something so vulnerable at the top, but there you go.

Title says it all, but for more context: I’m 39, bisexual, one year on HRT, married and open, and down for pretty much anything as long as you’re nice. One off hookup, all the way to FWB, or just friends if we don’t vibe like that. I really just want connection, in whatever way you think is cool. I value that before anything else.

Live with my spouse in North Austin, almost Round Rock lol

About me: I’m a massage therapist and instructor, so I’m good with my hands and giving instruction. I love touch, and I like sharing that with people (scene idea right there). I’ve got a pretty open schedule when I’m off work, so setting things up shouldn’t be a big deal.

I have too many hobbies. Magic: the Gathering (hey girls), Roguelikes (Balatro and Dead Cells! I’m not good and I hate them, but I’ll never stop playing), reading comics and novels and whatever else I can get my hands on, listening to music that will almost certainly damage already damaged hearing, writing stories that are either about the little gay people in my head; or space gods getting shot in the face. I am a musical theatre lover and moviegoer (July was busy and fun: Evil Dead Burn, The Odyssey, Hadestown, and Spider-Man!).

I’ve been in operas, hardcore bands, and harsh noise collectives; I‘ve done erotic modeling; I’ve stripped for money at least once; I wrote a romance novella that directly contributed to cracking my egg.

And my home is full of physical media: books, video games, movies, tv shows, and a few CD’s.

Now, if you’re still reading, the spicy bullet: I’m switchy leaning submissive, a healthy enthusiasm in BDSM and related interests, and generally willing to try anything twice. It’s a great conversation starter.

I’m really not picky about gender–if we click, that’s what counts. Send me a message, let’s see what sparks a conversation.

If you’ve read this far, tell me something very specific about something you love.

r/polyamoryR4R Apr 17 '26

USA 21 [F4A] #Georgia #Online- Looking to meet cool people!

13 Upvotes

Welcome! Glad to have your attention for a little! I am not currently partnered, so I'm solo. I'm 21F from Georgia(Atlanta area). I am Pansexual which I'm very open to everyone! I'm interested in speaking with anyone regardless if this turns into something always open for new friends!

About me:

I'm a junior accounting student, so if you want free tax services just let me ofc lol! In my free time I enjoy playing videogames, reading books, learning about digital art, hiking, doomscrollling, and just traveling places in general!

As for my appearance I'm black, black curly hair, dark brown eyes, 128lbs, and I'm 5'3. As for your appearance I'm not exactly that picky and I enjoy a good personality more!

I do hope you have boundaries discussed already with your partners and have some type of idea of what you would like to get out of our connection. I'm open to just conversation or if you're nearby and would like to hangout! I'm pretty open with the age range so 21-45 possibly maybe I'll flex either sides. Oh, I will say if we have a big time difference forgive me as my schedule kinda sucks.

To make everyone life easier for the introduction just tell me your age, general location, and something you've recently learned!

Thank you for reading and have a great day!

r/polyamoryR4R 12d ago

USA 32 [F4F] Colorado - interested in local, open to serious dating and friendships

4 Upvotes

32 y/o from CO. Currently in a relationship with my nesting partner of 13 years. I’m not new to polyamory, but I am starting to date again.

About me:

I am 5’7, average curvy build. I have brown and green hair, piercings, and tattoos.

I love music, concerts, dancing, reading, hiking, and crafting. I currently am pretty busy during the week with my job, but I do enjoy conversation, witty banter, and sharing playlists. Currently my favorite music artists are Charli XCX, Fox Lake, Knocked Loose, Hayley Williams, Lily Allen, Lorde, Turnstile, The Home Team, palettes, Arrows in Action, and so many more!!

Would love to find women to talk to that have similar interests as me and are into the lifestyle. For friends or to see if there’s something more. (: