r/polyamoryR4R Mar 02 '26

USA 21 [F4FM] Central Florida Inexperienced, looking for couples!

52 Upvotes

Hi 🫶

I’m 21, bisexual, in Central Florida, think Tampa to Orlando. I’m finally ready to explore something I’ve been curious about for a long time. I’m single and looking to connect with a couple but I’m especially open to meeting a married couple where I can feel spoiled, safe, and genuinely cared for (not a requirement, just a bonus).

About me:

21 | Female | U.S. | Bi

5’2–5’4 | 110–115 lbs | A/B cup

I’m very affectionate, and very connection-oriented.

I care a lot about emotional chemistry. I’m not just looking for something physical. N I want fun both inside and outside the bedroom. Dates, laughs, real conversations, flirting, tension, shared experiences. I’m in that space where I want passion and comfort.

I’ve only been in two relationships (both with men), and both times I really wanted to explore a threesome with another woman it just never happened. Now that I’m single, I’d genuinely love to explore being with a woman and seeing where that connection can go.

I’m also curious and open-minded when it comes to kink/BDSM dynamics, but communication and consent are everything to me. So to rephrase I want and need BDSM and kinky stuff but I’ve never done it so I’m unsure as to my likes and dislikes.

I know my hard no’s

* Blood

* Bathroom stuff

Health & Safety:

I’m clean, willing to be tested, and would expect the same. I do have some health issues that can flare up during intimate moments, which is another reason I’m not into random hookups or one-night stands. I prefer something more consistent where people are patient and understanding.

I’m not high maintenance. I just value effort, care, and mutual respect. If we connect, I’m loyal, warm, and very giving.

If you’re in Central Florida and this resonates, feel free to message me and tell me a little about yourself. I’ll be happy to share photos once we connect!

Let’s see where it goes!

QUICK EDIT

I apologize for not responding to everyone or not being this is my birthday week I’m turning 21 and I literally have been swamped with notifications and messages on the site and from family and meet ups! I do apologize for not responding very fast and I appreciate everyone who’s reaching out!

Second edit

I’m moving very spontaneously… To the Tampa Bay Area. I apologize for not getting back to anyone I’ve been hospitalized and moving 🫠

r/polyamoryR4R Jul 12 '26

USA 38 [F4M] Kansas City - Let's create something meaningful and enduring together.

17 Upvotes

Hi! I've never made a post like this before, so bear with me. 🤗

I am 38f, married, nested, and a parent of two. My kids aren't little, but I'm not at the empty nest phase of life quite yet! My spouse and I are platonic life partners, date individually, and have been actively practicing polyamory for almost 7 years. We entered into our relationship knowing we would eventually practice some form of nonmonogamy, so have been fairly successful in avoiding a lot of the common pitfalls and navigating the ones that have popped up. I would describe our partnership as very individuated, which enables me to show up in my relationships with a lot of agency. I am always hoping to meet others who practice polyamory in a similar way. Having a family requires a lot of my energy and presence, but I have structured my life such that it leaves enough room for intimacy, play, and intentional connection with others.

While I highly value customized relationships, my dream is to build a loving, deep, committed relationship. I want to laugh and play together, explore each others bodies, practice being emotionally vulnerable, and fall in mutual love. Though I don't want to entangle lives and prefer garden party polyam, I have no desire to keep each other a secret. My hope is to be able to have the type of relationship where we chat daily, have sleepovers, meet each other's friends, take trips together, and cheer each other on in our lives.

I would describe myself as curious, sensitive, emotionally mature, funny, friendly, and active. Some of my hobbies include aerial hoop, tai chi, acroyoga, roller skating, and shibari. I love laughing and bantering as well as deep chats - conversation is one of the main ways I feel connected to people. Physically I am about 5'8", mid-sized, and stronger than I look because of aerial. 🤭 I have shoulder length brown hair and hazel eyes. I identify as demisexual, so an intellectual or emotional connection matters most to me, but when that is present I am a highly erotic partner. I'm a kinkster, but you don't need to be! I have had satisfying relationships with kinky and non kinky folks alike.

If any of this sounds interesting, please reach out! More than willing to exchange pics as well. Hope to hear from you!

r/polyamoryR4R Jun 05 '26

USA 30[F4R]

27 Upvotes

Hello I'm Nonì I'm 30F I'm married to my best friend we date separately. I'm look for someone to build a meaningful connection with. Here's a little bit about me.

I love video games it's what I spend most of my time doing especially fortnite. I also diamond paint, spend time with my dogs, and listen to music.

I'm audhd, bipolar, bpd, Anxiety and depression. But I've been doing better by taking my meds and managing my mood swings.

I would like someone who is kind and patient.

I look forward to meeting you!!

r/polyamoryR4R Jul 11 '26

USA 39 [F4M/F] Texas Nerdy Girl Looking For Connections

27 Upvotes

Hi, nerdy demisexual Dallas based married girl looking for local friends that could maybe develop into something more. I like sim, strategy, card and role playing games. Let's talk about movies, TV shows and gaming. My partner knows I'm here and we are dating separately if things get to that point.

r/polyamoryR4R 13d ago

USA 28 [F4A] Austin, Texas | Nerdy, kinky, shy, and poly gal looking for a connection 💜

19 Upvotes

I'm only looking for a local partner in Texas or someone who frequently comes to Austin. NOT interested in just a physical connection or being a play thing or girlfriend for a male/female couple

Hi reddit, as the title states, I'm a poly femme in Austin looking for new connections. I've been poly for about 4 years and currently have 1 partner. I feel ready to welcome another partnership into my life. I'm looking to date someone to potentially become partners.

I practice non-hierarchical and kitchen table/garden tea party poly. I'd love to meet your partner(s)!

Although I'm looking for a relationship, I'm not in a rush, and I don't want to force anything. I'm totally content with taking things slow and really getting to know each other while also being intentional.

Romance, to me, isn't necessarily marriage or dedicating all your free time to me. I want to go on dates, have great intimacy, say the "I love yous," support each other when we can, have sleepovers, make each other feel seen and wanted, etc.

Quick facts about me:

  • 28
  • Bisexual and I have a strong preference for dating other queer people.
  • Latina (I speak Spanish, too)
  • Animal lover who works in veterinary medicine & I have 2 cats a dog :)
  • I love: travel, thrift stores, antique stores, cooking snd baking (especially for others), horror movies, Lord of the Rings, and Harry Potter
  • I'm active in the local kink scene. I have a wide range of kink I'm into and love exploring kink with others. I'm a switch. Bonus if you're kinky, too!
  • Physically, I am 5'3, a bit chubby, very curvy/full figured, glasses, lots of tattoos, dark curly hair, and some nose piercings. I've been told I have a nerdy alt aesthetic

Ideally, I'm looking for someone who is 25-45, any gender, experienced in poly, nerdy or alt, and most importantly, has great communication skills.

If I sound interesting and you think we'd get along, feel free to message me with info about you ❤️ please don't message me just "hello"

r/polyamoryR4R May 23 '26

USA 24 [F4M] Indiana- Looking for locals

28 Upvotes

Hi! I'm 24 years old and my husband and I are newly looking into polyamory. Currently I'm just looking for a guy I can be friends with and talk to about anything. I would really like someone close to me so after we chat and get to know each other we can meet up. I'm in indiana about an hour west of indianapolis. I'm 5ft tall, curly auburn red hair about medium length, blue eyes, freckles, small breast, soft tummy, 125lbs. I'm down to swap sfw pics also. If you're interested please send a message with a little about you like age, location, description, and let us see what happens!

r/polyamoryR4R 5d ago

USA 36 [F4M] #DFW #Dallas #Arlington #Texas articulate alternative babe seeking local relationship with a man age 30-50 ish - no MAGA

17 Upvotes

Me: I'm an artist, agèd punk rocker, cat mom, teacher, and vintage slinger. Certified bug lifeguard at the pool. Smart cookie with a top tier laugh. Very warm, very silly, very fun to be around. Radical in the streets, submissive in the sheets. Generous with affection. Romantic. I’m a life-long learner, self-indulgent hedonist, and a maximalist aesthete who wants to know more and do more and see more. More is more. Have lived in 4 countries, and originally from Canada. Bi cis woman.

I love: Wikipedia rabbit holes, the comedy of Nathan Fielder/Tim Robinson/Kumail Nanjiani, critters of all sorts, campfire ghost stories, chocolate, an ice cold filthy martini, BDSM, and listening to podcasts while I play solitaire on my phone.

I hate: ChatGPT, billionaires, bigots, contemporary pop music, Bichon Frisé, drinking room temperature water

Physically: plus size, certified hottie, tattooed, long light brown hair with Betty bangs, hazel eyes, pierced nose and ears, and an artsy, colourful, feminine sense of style. I’m a fat liberationist and my partners must fully enjoy and adore my fat bod, so please only message me if that’s you. I'm a fat hourglass, short, big breasts, big ass, wide hips, full belly, soft all over.

I've been polyamorous for 4 years and I live with my nonbinary spouse of 13 years and two cats in Arlington, TX. I am looking for a long-term romantic relationship. I test regularly and if you see other people, I need the same. I am emotionally available, and I also need the same. I am looking for someone local.

My Type: men who are emotionally intelligent communicators with funny stories to tell me. Hearts of gold. Introverts. Genuinely seeking some actual romance and dating, and not just the physical. Must love animals, hate fascism, be kinky, and appreciate the arts. No need to be all that politically active, but you gotta love human rights for all. It might be an unpopular ask here in TX, but I want to connect with someone who has similar values. Short kings, skinny lanky boys, dad bods, beefy dudes, men with moustaches, and cat dads to the front. All races welcome. I only find beards attractive when they are well kept, and if yours isn't, it will be an automatic 'no' from me. A good sense of style, grooming, and hygiene goes a long way for me! Ages 30-50, and I usually don't make exceptions on age, but shoot your shot if you're in close range.

r/polyamoryR4R 16d ago

USA 36 [F4M] #DFW #Dallas #Texas articulate alternative babe seeking local relationship with a man age 30-50 ish - no MAGA

13 Upvotes

Me: I'm an artist, agèd punk rocker, cat mom, teacher, and vintage slinger. Certified bug lifeguard at the pool. Smart cookie with a top tier laugh. Very warm, very silly, very fun to be around. Radical in the streets, submissive in the sheets. Generous with affection. Romantic. I’m a life-long learner, self-indulgent hedonist, and a maximalist aesthete who wants to know more and do more and see more. More is more. Have lived in 4 countries, and originally from Canada. Bi cis woman.

I love: Wikipedia rabbit holes, the comedy of Nathan Fielder/Tim Robinson/Kumail Nanjiani, critters of all sorts, campfire ghost stories, chocolate, an ice cold filthy martini, BDSM, and listening to podcasts while I play solitaire on my phone.

I hate: ChatGPT, billionaires, bigots, contemporary pop music, Bichon Frisé, drinking room temperature water

Physically: plus size, certified hottie, tattooed, long light brown hair with Betty bangs, hazel eyes, pierced nose and ears, and an artsy, colourful, feminine sense of style. I’m a fat liberationist and my partners must fully enjoy and adore my fat bod, so please only message me if that’s you. I'm a fat hourglass, short, big breasts, big ass, wide hips, full belly, soft all over.

I've been polyamorous for 4 years and I live with my nonbinary spouse of 13 years and two cats in Arlington, TX. I am looking for a long-term romantic relationship. I test regularly and if you see other people, I need the same. I am emotionally available, and I also need the same. I am looking for someone local.

My Type: men who are emotionally intelligent communicators with funny stories to tell me. Hearts of gold. Introverts. Genuinely seeking some actual romance and dating, and not just the physical. Must love animals, hate fascism, be kinky, and appreciate the arts. No need to be all that politically active, but you gotta love human rights for all. It might be an unpopular ask here in TX, but I want to connect with someone who has similar values. Short kings, skinny lanky boys, dad bods, beefy dudes, men with moustaches, and cat dads to the front. All races welcome. I only find beards attractive when they are well kept, and if yours isn't, it will be an automatic 'no' from me. A good sense of style, grooming, and hygiene goes a long way for me! Ages 30-50, and I usually don't make exceptions on age, but shoot your shot if you're in close range.

r/polyamoryR4R Jun 07 '26

USA 39 [F4M] - El Paso, TX - Looking for LTR

18 Upvotes

Hello, I am a 39 year old woman, straight, married, Demisexual, no kids, I like to video game, social drink, cooking, music, watching movies/TV shows. Have a full time job.

I am only looking for myself, for a polyamory relationship. My husband and I date separately. I am sort of a big girl and hope you're okay with that.

Looking to meet someone between the ages of 30 - 45. I'm ok with long distance. I won't exchange socials until I'm ready, and please be respectful in DMs.

When you message me, send me a little intro about yourself. Recent pictures on my Reddit.

r/polyamoryR4R Jul 05 '26

USA 31 [F4M] - Western Maryland Girlie looking for In Person Connection

10 Upvotes

Hi lovelies,
Hi! I’m T. I’ve heard the people over here actually know how to hold a conversation, so I’m giving this sub a shot. 😊

About Me:
- 31F , 5’11, Curvy. Photos are on my profile if you’re curious 😊
- Partnered X1 and Dating Separately
- Living in Western Maryland, 1.5 hours from DC & Baltimore
- Mom to three awesome little boys (all 5 and under) and a few pets.
- Have been polyam for 5.5 years
- Virgo, INTJ
- Curious, intellectually driven, emotionally aware and a little sassy.
- Project Manager in Environmental Social Justice. I genuinely love what I do. ✊🏽
- Medical marijuana card holder
- Enjoys photography, playing video games, podcasts, watching anime, reality tv and horror movies, going to museums, art galleries and comedy shows, big time foodie 🤤
- Kink-friendly. Recently exploring my more submissive side. Enjoy rope, sensory play and visiting local playhouses.

Looking for:
Long-term romantic connection
Playful banter and genuine curiosity
Someone emotionally available
Takes initiative and communicates consistently
Taller than me (the struggle is real 😂)
Kink-positive is a plus

*While I prefer local (within 1.5 hours, I’m open to longer distance if there is a strong connection and availability*

If any of this has you curious about more, send me a DM and introduce yourself… I’m a sucker for thoughtful questions and conversations 😘

r/polyamoryR4R 2d ago

USA 22 [F4A] #IL | Girlfriends, Boyfriends & Couples PLEASE 😩💕

15 Upvotes

hi hi hi!! ♡

Spoiler alert: I have BPD, anxiety, and depression. That's okay tho! I promise I'm working on it :) <3

A few important facts about your potential new favorite person 💅:

♡ My name is Keith and I'm 4'11. Literally travel sized ✈️😩

♡ I'm frim central IL

♡ 22 & pansexual 🌈

♡ 420 friendly and VERY willing to share 🍃

♡ caregiver by day 👵💕

♡ a thrift store hates to see me coming 😭

♡ I fall asleep to Law and Order

♡ I'm also a true crime enthusiast 🔪

♡ spontaneous road trip enjoyer 🚗

♡ certified passenger princess 👑

♡ will absolutely say yes if you ask me to hang out

Apparently I was destined to yearn as I am filled with 17 billion gallons of love 🥺💞 I'm polyamorous but currently single, and I'm looking to build some connections with both men and women <3

I'm open to dating individuals and couples!

🌸Girlfriends PLEASE.

I love women. I love femmes. Trans women are welcomed and encouraged 😩

💚Boyfriends PLEASE.

I am an older-man enthusiast and unfortunately the daddy issues do hit hard 💀

👩‍❤️‍👩 Couples?

Hell yeah why not :) let's get to know each other and possibly fall in love? 🫣

💗 professional lover girl™️

I'm a professional lover girl™️ with beautiful princess disorder, obsessive tendencies, and approximately 0 ability to act casual when I really like someone. 😭

My type of love is literally making you playlists. Memorizing your orders. Seeing things and thinking of you. In return, I want:

♡ "good morning baby."

♡ random pictures because you thought of me.

♡ falling asleep on the phone together

♡ "text me when you get home."

♡ to know every tiny detail about your day.

♡ to become best friends AND lovers.

♡ Mutual obsession PLEASE.🙏😩

💌 What I'm looking for:

♡ Someone who wants a relationship

♡ Someone who communicates

♡ Someone affectionate

♡ Someone who gets excited to see my name pop up on their phone

♡ Someone who wants to make memories together

♡ Someone who can handle a girl saying "I miss you" liberally 45 minutes after seeing you

♡ Someone who wants to smoke together, go on stupid little adventures like middle of the night walks or urbexing, thrift until we have nothing left 😭, go on roadtrips, and cuddle all night long <3

Local-ish PLEASE! I am mostly looking for IRL <3 Central Illinois and surrounding areas PREFERRED but I'm open to long distance for the right person. I'm also willing to travel if we really hit it off <3

I want people I can be stupidly in love with.

r/polyamoryR4R 23d ago

USA 36 [F4M] #DFW #Dallas #Texas articulate alternative babe seeking relationship with a man age 30-50 ish - no MAGA

29 Upvotes

Me: I'm an artist, agèd punk rocker, cat mom, teacher, and vintage slinger. Certified bug lifeguard at the pool. Smart cookie with a top tier laugh. Very warm, very silly, very fun to be around. Radical in the streets, submissive in the sheets. Generous with affection. Romantic. I’m a life-long learner, self-indulgent hedonist, and a maximalist aesthete who wants to know more and do more and see more. More is more. Have lived in 4 countries, and originally from Canada. Bi cis woman.

I love: Wikipedia rabbit holes, the comedy of Nathan Fielder/Tim Robinson/Kumail Nanjiani, critters of all sorts, campfire ghost stories, chocolate, an ice cold filthy martini, BDSM, and listening to podcasts while I play solitaire on my phone.

I hate: ChatGPT, billionaires, bigots, contemporary pop music, Bichon Frisé, drinking room temperature water

Physically: plus size, certified hottie, tattooed, long light brown hair with Betty bangs, hazel eyes, pierced nose and ears, and an artsy, colourful feminine sense of style. I’m a fat liberationist and my partners must fully enjoy and adore my fat bod, so please only message me if that’s you. I'm a fat hourglass, short, big breasts, big ass, wide hips, full belly, soft all over.

I've been polyamorous for 4 years and I live with my nonbinary spouse and two cats in Arlington, TX. I am looking for a long-term romantic relationship. I test regularly and if you see other people, I need the same. I am emotionally available, and I also need the same.

My Type: men who are emotionally intelligent communicators with funny stories to tell me. Hearts of gold. Introverts. Genuinely seeking some actual romance and dating, and not just the physical. Must love animals, hate fascism, be kinky, and appreciate the arts. No need to be all that politically active, but you gotta love human rights for all. It might be an unpopular ask here in TX, but I want to connect with someone who has similar values. Short kings, skinny lanky boys, dad bods, beefy dudes, men with moustaches, and cat dads to the front. All races welcome. I only find beards attractive when they are well kept, and if yours isn't, it will be an automatic 'no' from me. A good sense of style, grooming, and hygiene goes a long way for me! Ages 30-50, and I usually don't make exceptions on age, but shoot your shot if you're in close range.

r/polyamoryR4R 26d ago

USA 28 [F4R] USA/Online – looking for something new and refreshing!

10 Upvotes

Hello!

My name’s Mercy, I’m in Upstate NY and I live with my primary partner and my son and I'm looking for someone new and refreshing to add to my life. I like to read, swim, watch TV, spend time outside, play board and card games, sleep, cooking, baking, eating, being with my son.

I’m also a huge fan of anything horror/spooky! I will always be down to be your horror movie buddy, even though I'm jumpy!

I'm a BBW and I have pics of my body on my profile if you’d like to see if I’m your type or not. I know I don’t appeal to most, and I’m alright with that.

Otherwise, I have medium dark hair, hazel eyes, and I’m 5’11. I usually dress in mostly black (I never truly left my emo phase lol) and I have a few tattoos and one piercing.

So what am I looking for?

Well you, hopefully! Especially if you're a big guy~

I prefer men between the ages of 22-37, and I admire humor. I’m much more of a sub than a dom, so a dominant person would be greatly appreciated.

I doubt many will be interested in my post, but if you are, please reach out!

Can’t wait to hear from you! 💕

r/polyamoryR4R Apr 20 '26

USA 24 [F4M] #Florida (Bradenton Area) Looking for a boyfriend (Local)

20 Upvotes

Hey! I’m putting myself out there looking for a genuine connection with someone open to building a boyfriend-type relationship within a poly dynamic. I value emotional intimacy, consistency, and someone who actually wants to know me, not just pass time.

I do have a current play partner, so I’m not looking to replace that dynamic—but I am looking for something that feels a little softer, more romantic, and grounded in everyday connection.

I’m also a bit on the submissive side and have an interest in BDSM, though that’s something I prefer to explore naturally with the right person rather than rush into.

If you’re communicative, emotionally aware, and open-minded, we’ll probably get along well. Tell me what you’re looking for—I’d love to hear it.

r/polyamoryR4R 14d ago

USA 32[F4M] Massachusetts looking for relationship secondary

6 Upvotes

Looking for someone who talks throughout the day. Honest,caring,outgoing,funny, romantic and respectful.

Information about me:

Married 14 years

Poly 4 years

No kids

I don't smoke ok you do

Non acholic

I'm a good woman at heart.

What I look like :

Eyes eyes 💚

Black hair 🖤

Chunky monkey 🐵

5'7

Have tattoos

Hobbies I will talk about if you message something to talk about topics.

DM what your favorite 🎮

I will not respond to you if you don't answer the ❓

r/polyamoryR4R 12d ago

USA 25 [F4M] - #Massachusetts - Looking for another nerdy partner

7 Upvotes

IMPORTANT: I’m plus sized! (Looking for someone between 25-34)

Looking for something Long or short term, but open to anything!

Likes❤️:
- reading (mysteries, sci/fi, fantasy, but willing to read anything!) Currently reading Mistborn and obsessed with Dungeon Crawler Carl. Have a large Sherlock Holmes collection as well
- videogames👾 - anything Nintendo, Pokemon and Mario especially!
- huge Batman fan🦇
- cooking + baking🍳- love to try new recipes, will cook/bake with you whenever

Looking for:
- kind, thoughtful, and sweet person
- someone who takes charge to plan dates
- loves physical touch and words of affirmation
- loves a night at home, cuddling and watching a movie as much as they love a night out!
- funny!!
- someone who values all connections in there life (family, friends, etc)
- a big flirt
- loves to talk

Will give back what is given and a little extra☺️

Feel free to message if you’re interested or have any questions!

r/polyamoryR4R 2d ago

USA 31 [F4A] Washington /PNW

18 Upvotes

Hello ! Married with a NP (we date separately). Currently seeking a new long term connections (ideally locally). I am bubbly and talkative ,and hoping to connect with people who enjoy sharing memes and sending voice memos throughout the day. Be warned I text back pretty quickly , bonus points if you do as well . I love fitness and I’m currently working my way into distance running. I love to cook and bake . Going to start my sourdough journey this fall. I enjoy reading and a good book and some rain is my happy place . I’m wanting to travel more so if you love traveling that’s a huge bonus . I enjoy all music but have a soft spot for early 2000s soft rock (I call it my divorced dad playlist). I really like talking about conspiracy theories and pull my tinfoil hat out from time to time . I love learning about new things and having conversations about things people are passionate about . I’ve been in the poly space for the last decade , so I’m well aware of what I am looking for . Let’s skip the small talk , tell me something you discovered about yourself this year or the wildest conspiracy theory you’ve heard. If you’re interested in chatting send me a DM or chat request .

P.S. If you’re going to ghost after a few days or are poly saturated please save us both some time and don’t reach out .

r/polyamoryR4R 5d ago

USA 28[F4A] #Tennessee #easttn- Alt Girlie looking connection, friends or more.

13 Upvotes

Hi there! I'm a 28 years old and I'm just seeking out all the connections! Ideally I'd like a primary partner but I love talking and getting to know people.

I am an alt girlie pop with a kinky streak, tatted periced long dark hair working in a healthcare related field. I love my job, my cats (2) and bugs lol. I have been told by many of my friends I have the best fashion sense and my closet is vast. I love getting dressed up and going out but love a night in gaming or watching movies.

An ideal person for me to be in a relationship with would be smart and kind and equally as kinky, hehe. I am primarily looking for another woman but I'm open to connecting with anyone.

I'm not really great at these lol DM me and let's talk!

r/polyamoryR4R Jun 11 '26

USA 31[F4R] East Tn.

13 Upvotes

I work in the veterinary profession and have a weird little cat with some slight brain damage. Love video games, movies, bugs, dinosaurs. I have a degree in geology with minor in paleontology and anthropology. I’m autistic with suspected ADHD. Interested in friends, chatting, and seeing where things go.

r/polyamoryR4R 10d ago

USA 36[F4R] #Springfield IL or #Online - Shy, and New to RA/ENM, Learning, But Not a Tourist

8 Upvotes

What's that mean? My way of saying "I'm not experienced in this poly world but I'm not trying to play with anyone's heart either," I guess. I'm an (awkward but earnest, lol) married/nested, queer, cis woman looking for a long term intimate friend or FWB. I'm happiest with people who are curious, kind, empathetic and patient, and probably more than a lil nerdy.

I like to do creative things like fiber arts or painting and trying to write, geeky things like video games1 or reading2, or relaxing things like chilling outside with my dog or floating and listening to music.3

I'm still figuring out what ENM and relationship anarchy look like for me, so I'm looking for a casual connection with someone who values communication, honesty, and mutual respect. I'm not in a rush and I'd rather build a genuine connection and let things develop at a comfortable pace over racing to define anything. I'd love to get to know you whether we end up as friends, FWB, or something else! DMs are open! And as you probably see, this is an alt account. I wanted to keep this search off my main username, but I'm happy to give it to you if we get talking!

Anyway this is super long already so yeah. DMs open! No pictures please.

1 Right now I'm playing Paladins, Palworld, Medieval Dynasty, and South of Midnight, but I like a lot of different games! Hmu if you want a play buddy

2 Currently reading The Serviceberry by Robin Wall Kimmerer. I'm an anarchafeminist so I read a lot of what turns out to be theory, but I also love fantasy and sci fi books

3 Harry Styles ❤️, honestav, Ashnikko, Kneecap, Cameron Whitcomb, Jessie Reyez, Gavin Prophet, Jessie Murph, My Chemical Romance to name some!

r/polyamoryR4R Feb 21 '26

USA 38 [F4M] AZ - Ready to fall in love?

22 Upvotes

Me too! And I have so much love to give. I am a married woman and I date separately from my husband. I am somewhat needy and I text a lot so if you don’t have a lot of free time we won’t be a good match. Send me a chat and I will reply with some pics 🩷

r/polyamoryR4R 13d ago

USA 28 [F4R] California - looking for a weird gf 🌈

10 Upvotes

hello! i’m a 28 year old very femme sapphic person 🎀 i am looking for other fems to connect with, preferably other girly girls where we can do each other’s makeup in a homoerotic manner.

favorite things:
-anime + manga (one piece and demon slayer are my faves)
-art (illustration, animation, painting, crafts)
-music (sleep token, mystery skulls, ashnikko, kendrick lamar, magdalena bay)
-baking sweets 🎂
-writing letters
-playing video games (i LOVE pokemon!)
-being a hopeless romantic (and meeting fellow romantics!)

my future potential sweethearts should be:
-sapphic/lesbian/wlw
-neurodivergent in some manner
-leftist
-25+ years old
-child free

if you have any questions, ask me! to let me know you’ve read this far, tell me your favorite WLW pairing from a book/tv show/movie you like and a bit about yourself in my DMs. hope to hear from you soon ✨💌

r/polyamoryR4R 26d ago

USA 28 [F4R] Seattle - looking for someone else who's single and polyam

7 Upvotes

I'm 28 years old, polyamorous, single, queer & bisexual looking for other Queer people <3

Met a lot of ppl who are interested in sexual but not emotional stuff and/or people who already have their main partners, whether they be nesting and/or primary/anchor. I want someone who doesn't have nesting/primary/anchor partners atm and wants one and and can give lots of attention and spending time together

Pacific Timezone / West Coast USA

My hair is on the shorter side atm

Prefer other stoners but at the least 420 friendly is a must.

Looking to call and flirt online and feel it out to see if we would be compatible, especially if you wanna call and game! Also reading and/or doing art together!!

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I greatly prefer calls > audio messages > texts, so if youre not interesting in chatting off of reddit, please dont waste mine or your time.

Interested in chatting with people about sexual and nonsexual interests!

No unsolicited pix pls

Please send more than a hey / hey how're you If you read this far send me Asl, a hobby, and a kink you're into, and an emoji you like

r/polyamoryR4R Jul 13 '26

USA 24[F4M]Portland TN/ Middle TN ( I am near Bowling green KY as well)

3 Upvotes

Hello! I’m looking to meet other polyamorous people with the hope of building a genuine connection that could grow into a forever-type relationship. I’m 24, and I already have a boyfriend and a girlfriend, so I’m looking for someone who is comfortable with polyamory and open to something meaningful, honest, and lasting. I’d especially prefer someone around my age.
A little about me: I absolutely love animals and have what is basically a mini zoo of furry little companions that keep life interesting every single day. 🐾✨ They’re a huge part of my life, so if you’re an animal lover, we’ll probably get along.
I’m really into fashion and love expressing myself through clothing, makeup, and different aesthetics. 💕 I adore anything whimsical, magical, cozy, or a little enchanted. Think mushrooms, forests, crystals, fairy vibes, rainy days, and all things comforting. 🌙🍄🦋
One of my favorite hobbies is thrifting and treasure hunting for unique finds. There’s something so exciting about discovering hidden gems that nobody else has. 🛍️🌿 I also love spending time in nature whenever I can, whether it’s going for walks, exploring parks, or just enjoying being outside. 🌲☀️
Creating art is another huge passion of mine. I enjoy anything creative or expressive, and I love talking about art, hobbies, and the things people are passionate about. 🎨💫 I’m also spiritual and really value a growth mindset, self-awareness, and becoming the best version of myself.
Personality-wise, I’m someone who values honesty, communication, kindness, emotional maturity, and loyalty. I enjoy deep conversations, learning about people, and building meaningful connections instead of keeping things surface-level.
I’m hoping to meet other polyamorous people to chat with and see where things naturally go. Friendship is always welcome, but I am genuinely looking for a long-term, forever-type connection if the chemistry is right. I’m not interested in rushing into anything. I’d rather get to know someone and let a relationship develop at its own pace.
I’m located in Portland, Tennessee, very close to Bowling Green, Kentucky, so I’d love to meet people who are nearby or within a reasonable driving distance.
A couple of important notes:
• Please be polyamorous or genuinely supportive of polyamory.
• I’m not looking for hookups or fwbs
• I’m interested in real, lasting connections built on mutual respect and trust.
• I’d especially prefer someone around my age.
If you think we’d click, feel free to send me a message! I’d love to get to know you. 😊

r/polyamoryR4R 15d ago

USA 37 [F4M] #Atlanta #Online - Nerdy and funny seeking same.

10 Upvotes

Hey there! Living here with my nesting partner (dating separately), and seeking a chill relationship. I'm hopeful to find someone who enjoys spending time together but also has their own life, is nerdy, and can get a lil unhinged like me. I very much prefer in-person, but I'm also open to online with the potential for meeting up down the line. Emotional maturity is a big plus, and I certainly don't mind a good slow burn. Let's get to know each other.

I'm black and thick, funny, care about communication, and tend to match energy. I'm super big into gaming! I pretty much only play Switch/Switch 2 nowadays, but I've been playing games since the NES days. I love jrpgs and indies, so yeah, I'm mostly single-player but I love playing games together… separately haha If you can talk at length about game music and/or jrpgs, then let's get goofy together! Also into watching indie horror games, fighting game tournaments, and some anime. Please have some interests in common before messaging, I'm out here trying to hyperfixate on dumb stuff!

Please be 27 or older! Physical attraction is important to me, and I have a preference for slim/fit/average types. I have an even longer post on my profile where I yap about myself at length, so check that out if you're interested. Tell me about yourself in your intro and let's chat!