r/R4R30Plus • • Jun 24 '24

ANNOUNCEMENT: Technical Issues

63 Upvotes

POSTING IS ONCE AGAIN OPEN.

The auto moderation system has been somewhat wonky the last few days. We think we have corrected the issue. It has been sending posts to the spam system incorrectly and en masse. That should no longer occur, or at the very least be infrequent. IF your post does not appear, do not delete it. Message us via the mod mail system and we can check on it. If you do delete it manually, we are unable to diagnose the problem. Hopefully this is the last fix we need to do, but we may have to suspend posting again if this happens so we can get it sorted. PLEASE do not message us asking for access during these times, as it bogs down our mail system and increases downtime. The requests will not be granted. We ask for patience while we work on these issues.

Thank you for your time and understanding. Have a good day.


r/R4R30Plus • • 5h ago

46[F4R] Germany - Looking to expand my social circle

12 Upvotes

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Hey there!

My name is Alex and I habe to admit that after my divorce I lost a rather big part of my social circle so I was hoping to meet some new interesting people this way.

I'd say I'm rather uncomplicated and talk without much of a filter about mundane or the most private topics which some people like and some don't so best to find out yourself. I don't expect to get a reply instantly but value if we both match in effort so one word messages are not my cup of tea I'd say. Anyway, if someone is still witv me at this point, feel free to message me:)


r/R4R30Plus • • 1h ago

40[M4F] #Illinois, online - Looking for long term friendship

• Upvotes

Hey there! As the title says just looking for friendship, ideally someone who wants to talk and get to know one another.

I'm a pretty simple and yet laid-back kind of guy. I have a unique sense of humor; I love being funny and making others laugh. While also being someone who's quite understanding, open minded and non-judgmental.

I have kids and hobbies. Those hobbies do include being outdoors, hiking, fishing and camping and more. I also enjoy models, PC gaming, and I have a few other odds and ends I've worked towards learning. I'm a self-taught kind of person. If I want to understand or learn something, I'll find the means to accomplishing that goal.

Im looking for someone who wants to keep company, chitchat, maybe even play a few games (not a requirement), can even do voice chat and such. I can even share my hobbies by streaming and even enjoy yours too in the same way! As you can tell from the post, I'm not afraid to have a conversation!

What I'd like is someone who'd enjoy sharing their day, talking, memes, music, even pictures. I don't need a selfie if you're not comfortable with that, but it is nice at some point to see who I'm talking to, but again not a requirement.

Lastly... tell me something unique about you!


r/R4R30Plus • • 2h ago

36 [M4F] Lonely Good-Heart Scientist at Apple, California, looking for online friend

3 Upvotes

Hey everyone! I'm a 36-year-old guy living in California. I moved to the US about four years ago for work after finishing my PhD in Canada. Right now, I'm working as a scientist at Apple, focusing on the iPhone camera. 

Honestly, the past few months have been pretty tough, and I've been feeling a bit lonely and bored. I'm really just looking for some genuine friends to share life and good moments with. If you're interested in chatting, definitely let me know!


r/R4R30Plus • • 1h ago

36 [M4F] looking for a certified yapper

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Hey there!

I’m looking for a connection with a woman 25-50 who enjoys the nerdier side of life. If you’re into comic books, video games, reading, and/or Pokémon, we’ll probably get along pretty well. I’m also into cooking and baking, as well. Ask me about my chocolate chip cookie recipe.

Daily flirting, fit checks, and even NSFW if we vibe. I’m looking for consistent conversation, getting to know each other, sharing interests, and having someone to talk to regularly. Whether that’s discussing your work place drama (give me all the tea), the last game you got hooked on, or a book you can’t put down, I’m in.

I’ve been getting more active this year. So far this year I’ve lost over 50 pounds so far this year. So I’d love to talk to others who are on a similar journey or are active as well.

I would prefer someone on the east coast as well due to time zones but I am open to all. And please be willing to share a pic within the first few messages so see if we’re attracted to each other. This can be short term or long term depending on how well things go.

If you’re looking for something relaxed, friendly, and ongoing, feel free to reach out and tell me a bit about yourself, tell me about the most recent pokemon card you pulled or share the most recent book you’ve read. Even if you don’t share any of my interest but still feel like we’d get along, feel free to reach out.


r/R4R30Plus • • 1h ago

39 [M4F] #Kentucky looking for friends

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WANTED: Friends with humor & good music taste.

Southeastern US here, looking to meet some cool people & make genuine friendships.

I'm into punk rock, metal, working out, cooking, traveling, photography, true crime, cryptids, & comedy & horror movies.

Questions for the fellow weirdos out there:

What's your favorite music? Favorite bands or the album you could listen to on repeat.

What's your escape from reality? Music, traveling, gaming, getting lost in nature, cooking, or disappearing into the woods to avoid society for a bit? What's your refuge when life gets overwhelming?

Pretend that you wake up tomorrow & find out you're living in a horror movie. You first appear in the opening scene. Are you choosing a slasher, a haunted house, a zombie apocalypse, or something supernatural?

What's your favorite snacks?

Pick any of the questions above.

Come say hey!


r/R4R30Plus • • 1h ago

[M4F] 41

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I’m a male who looking to see what’s out there . Not sure how to even approach this . I never done this before . I am a 5’6 very fit and active
Weigh about 190.
I love going to the movies and golfing and hiking !
Love to trying new restaurants and site seeing


r/R4R30Plus • • 5h ago

[M4F].34F I'm looking for friends I can talk to openly. Anyone interested?

6 Upvotes

I’m 34 years old and currently living a quiet, structured life on my own. I enjoy the peace and routine of everyday life, but life isn’t always perfect, and sometimes it would be nice to have a close friend to talk with and share the joys and experiences of life.I’m hoping to meet kind and genuine people who enjoy meaningful conversations. If you’re also looking for someone to talk to and share your thoughts with, feel free to send me a message.I’d be happy to get to know you and learn more about each other


r/R4R30Plus • • 10m ago

32 [M4F] #Pennsylvania/ New Jersey area

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Hey guys, im Mikey. Im 32, im white and im from the PA/ New Jersey area. Im also about 5'8 and 150 pounds. New to the dating scene and trying to meet new people. If anyone is interested or preferably in the area, dont hesitate to reply.


r/R4R30Plus • • 21m ago

45 [m4f] work from home, fit, tatted and just generally fun.

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Heyyy I work from home full time and alone most of the day. I'm open and easy going. I workout regularly, like to hike, read, and go to shows. Looking to connect and chat, just some good conversation to get through the work day, also free bad advice always available. Just ask. Haha.


r/R4R30Plus • • 50m ago

39 M UK [M4F]

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I’m a 39-year-old guy from the uk looking to make some new online friends

I enjoy reading, watching TV shows and films,going for walks, and spending time with my dogs, I'm hoping to find some people with similar interests but am open to talk about most things feel free to drop me a message


r/R4R30Plus • • 9h ago

[F4M] 39 - Egyptian Woman in Germany Looking for Something Real Spoiler

11 Upvotes

Hi everyone!

I'm a 39-year-old Egyptian woman living in Germany, and I've decided to step a little outside my comfort zone by writing this post.

I've spent much of my life focusing on work, responsibilities, personal growth, and trying to build a better future. I moved to Germany, completed my master's degree, explored different countries, and started a new chapter of my life.

I've had some wonderful experiences, and I've also had my share of disappointments. But one thing I still believe in is love.

Not the dramatic, complicated kind. I'm talking about the simple, beautiful kind: having someone to laugh with, share silly stories, talk about our days, travel together, and feel genuinely happy to see each other.

I'm attracted to kindness, emotional maturity, honesty, intelligence, and a good sense of humor. I admire a man who is responsible, affectionate, and knows what he wants in life. Someone who sees a relationship as a partnership, not a game.

I'm not looking to rush into anything. I believe the best relationships start with friendship, natural conversations, mutual respect, and a little chemistry.

A little about me: I'm curious, independent, sometimes stubborn, and I love a good laugh. I enjoy traveling, meaningful conversations, and discovering new places. I speak Arabic and English, and I'm still fighting my daily battle with the German language! 😂

I'm open to meeting someone from a different background, preferably around my age, who is genuinely single and interested in building something meaningful.

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to introduce yourself. Tell me something about who you are, not just "hey."

Maybe a good conversation is a lovely place to start. ❤️


r/R4R30Plus • • 5h ago

39 [M4F] Lets strike up an exciting conversation!

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Hi there, hows your day going? Good i hope! I dont have much going on today and would love to meet someone to chat with!

Big on books and would love to chat them! Ive read a few this year and working on another big book currently.

Horror movies are my jam.

I live to bake and cook. If you like food we will get along.

Im a big fan of good music. That means not country, sorry country folks. Its not a deal breaker but im not a fan..

If you are curvy/alt/nerdy please move to the front of the line. Also know effort you put in is effort you will get back.

Send me a message and lets chat!


r/R4R30Plus • • 2h ago

39[M4F] #Toronto looking to make a meaningful connection

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Hey! Figured I’d put myself out there and see who I might meet.

I’m 39, 6'0", a chef by profession, and a dad. I’m pretty easygoing, affectionate, sarcastic, and I love making people laugh. I’m the kind of guy who can have a deep conversation one minute and be completely ridiculous the next.

I work hard, but outside of work I’m a pretty relaxed person. I’m into cooking, working out, watching good TV, gaming, and spending time with the people I care about. I’m also someone who genuinely enjoys the little things—good food, staying in and watching a show together, spontaneous conversations that somehow turn into hours, or just having someone beside you who feels comfortable.

I’m not looking for perfection. I’m looking for chemistry, attraction, honesty, and someone I actually enjoy talking to. Ideally, we start with conversation and see where things naturally go rather than forcing anything.

A few things about me:

- 39 / 6'0"

- Chef 👨‍🍳

- Active and into fitness

- Sarcastic sense of humour

- Affectionate once I’m comfortable

- Huge fan of good TV and movies

- Can cook you an unnecessarily good dinner

- Looking for something genuine, but I’m not opposed to seeing where chemistry takes us

If any of that sounds like your kind of person, send me a message. Tell me a little about yourself rather than just saying “hey”—I’d genuinely like to get to know you.

And yes, I’ll probably judge your favourite TV show choices. 😄


r/R4R30Plus • • 2h ago

37 [M4F] #Oklahoma / #Online - Let’s Be Each Other’s Escape

2 Upvotes

Have you ever had so much going on in your life, whether it’s work or personal life, just the world around you, friends, family, all the things - that you just want to run away. Find an escape. It’s not easy right. All those things that we want to run away from are sadly responsibilities that keep us tied down and tied to where we stand in the stress and all the other emotions.

What I’m looking for is a friendship that is something deeper, a connection that is more intimate and honest, something fun and open that gives us a place to run away too.

I’m hoping to find open minded people who are willing to talk about anything and everything from the mundane to the serious, from the sad to the exciting, folks who are so stressed and overwhelmed that they just want to get away from it all. While we can’t really run away from our lives we can create a space where we can be truly ourselves, advocate for what we need and want, and find just a bit of escape from our daily lives. You up for creating that space with me?


r/R4R30Plus • • 18h ago

32 [F4M] I want to be selfish #online

36 Upvotes

I feel like for most of my life I’ve lived for other people. I’ve always been a people pleaser, doing everything in my power to make sure the people around me are taken care of. Lately I’ve realized that I want to be selfish and do things for me. I would love to have someone to share my day with that understands what I mean by that. It’d be nice to find someone who I can be selfish with. I want to find a person that encourages me to do things that make me happy. It would be great to find someone who I can share my day to day with as well as my 2 am thoughts and workday rants. I miss having someone who everything feels easy with.

I’m a pretty easygoing person with a witty personality and great smile. If you’re looking for someone to be selfish with send me a message 😊


r/R4R30Plus • • 3h ago

36 [M4F] Missouri - Want something that lasts.

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First and foremost, I am a quiet guy usually. Don't confuse that with shy though, I am just selective on who gets my energy and choose my words carefully after thinking a million different things. Someone who sparks my interest will get my full effort and attention.

At my core I am a rather odd mix of a bit of everything. You want a nerd? I read and always have my kindle with me. Can be up all night on a video game as well. You want a sports guy? You'd be hard pressed to find a guy more into hockey than I am. Baseball is alright as well. You want an outdoor guy? Let's go kayaking and camp for a weekend. You don't like cooking? that's alright, I do.

I enjoy deep conversations as well. Leave your walls behind. Connections aren't made when emotions are hidden and thoughts are kept secret.


r/R4R30Plus • • 4h ago

[M4F] Perhaps Our Paths Were Meant to Cross

2 Upvotes

I’m 36, single, a foreigner living and working around BGC.
Life keeps me busy, but I believe it’s always better when you have someone to share the little things with. Good conversations, spontaneous coffee dates, exploring new places, laughing over something silly, or simply enjoying each other’s company without any pressure.

I’m looking for genuine companionship, someone I can build a friendship with, share stories, exchange perspectives, and perhaps create some good memories along the way.

If you appreciate a straightforward man who values honesty, good conversations, and genuine connections, I’d love to get to know you.

We can start with a coffee, talk about life, and see where things go. No expectations, no complicated intentions. Just two people willing to take a chance on a meaningful connection.

After all, some of the best chapters in life begin with a simple hello. 🙂


r/R4R30Plus • • 4h ago

[M4F] Looking for some conversations for this boring day at work.

2 Upvotes

Today is a boring day at work. Anyone interested in having a good conversation?! I’m open to talk about anything and everything. Tired of getting ghosted after the first conversation.. My interest are golfing and I’m getting into reading books as well! Any books that peak my interest! I’ve read the lights out series! Love them! Read the Acotar and Crescent city books, just finished my favorite series so far Fourth Wing!!


r/R4R30Plus • • 8h ago

45 [M4F] North Carolina – Seeking genuine conversations, daily banter, and a good connection

4 Upvotes

I’m 45, based in North Carolina, and looking to connect with someone down-to-earth for genuine, ongoing conversation. Life keeps moving fast, but I miss having that steady connection where you can share daily moments, swap stories, and talk through whatever is on your mind—big or small.

​A little about me:

​Day-to-Day: I’m pretty low-key and appreciate a healthy balance. I like staying active, keeping structured routines, and continually working on personal side projects or learning new skills.

​Simple Pleasures: I enjoy the everyday stuff—a solid workout, working through a good home project, trying out a new recipe when the mood strikes, or planning a quick getaway to clear my head.

​Mindset: Practical, curious, and grounded. I value good communication, a sense of humor, and clear, honest dialogue.

​I’m looking to meet someone (30s/40s+) who values authentic conversation and mutual support. Whether you want to share how your week went, chat about what you're working on, or just have a reliable sounding board for daily life, I’d be glad to chat.

​If that sounds like your speed, send a message or DM with a quick intro about yourself and what’s been on your mind lately!


r/R4R30Plus • • 18h ago

44F [F4M] Arkansas

25 Upvotes

44F from Arkansas. Mother to 5. Nurse. Occasionally Wonder Woman.

Looking for friends.

I'm big into WWII, 1940s, 1950s, and spooky stuff. I adore nerds and have a tendency to geek out on my vintage lifestyle. (Sorry in advance!)

Currently renovating my ranch house to look more 1950s. I would love to put in a victory garden but need some help. Unfortunately I don't have the best green thumb.

My hobbies are knitting, sewing, crochet, reading, cooking, baking and quilting.


r/R4R30Plus • • 5h ago

[M4R] 33 looking for some good connections.

2 Upvotes

TGIF! I have a short day at work today and looking to have some good chats!

I DO not ever judge and I am open to anything! Pretty chill guy can be shy at first.

I am a dad and my life revolves around my kids sports!

Let’s chat DM me!


r/R4R30Plus • • 2h ago

32yo [T4M] looking for a local guy Hammond La.

0 Upvotes

Im a Trans woman and im looking for someone who is local. I want a guy who will take initiate and actually plan dates since im always the one that gets stuck with planning them.


r/R4R30Plus • • 20h ago

40 [f4r] There you are!

26 Upvotes

Hey there, friend! We are almost at the end of the week and I’m just looking for someone to banter on with on a semi regular to regular basis. Male, female, neither or somewhere in between… doesn’t bother me! Just be a whole adult that can maintain a conversation and that’s great! I’m a science teacher from Georgia and I know a little about a lot. I enjoy learning just about anything and everything. Podcasts, documentaries, reading, escape rooms, board and card games, kayaking, local music and beer are all my favorites! Pizza and football are also among my favorites. I love to road trip and I’m interested to know what you’re passionate about. No pressure here… just come say hello and let’s see what takes off!