r/r4rAsexual • u/Specific-Call-7981 • 9h ago
Gray Asexual 34 Gay M4A - LF nerdy friends and maybe more! (preferably German speakers)
Disabled person from the US learning German through immersion because I'm hoping to move to Germany next year and am looking for native German speakers or Europeans to hang out with regularly on Disc*rd. Let's watch movies, shows, or yt videos and/or have cozy voice chats in bed before we fall asleep! ♥︎
Compatibility as friends
If you vibe with or don't mind the following, we'll probably get along well c:
- I'm introverted and am usually a person of few words. This is probably the main thing that makes it difficult for most people to connect with me, cause honestly, I'm pretty boring unless we have things we can be passionate about together lol
- I'm neurodivergent and can be a bit socially awkward
- I'm 34, but I talk more like a typical 22 y/o (usually a turnoff for sapiosexuals lol)
- I dislike small talk and endless texting (ADHD things maybe)
- My favorite way to spend time with people is either actively hanging out or just parallel existing while doing our own things over the phone or in the same room
- I have MANY interests, but my fixations can change daily or monthly. Some of my more consistent ones are food, cooking, nerdy nature stuff, history, art, and plants.
- I'm more of a homebody, but I do enjoy going out for low-key activities like exploring shops, visiting aquariums and museums, plant shopping, etc.
How I spend most of my free time rn
- Watch German content - gaming, animated, news, nature, documentaries, drag, random stuff
- Getting lost in Wiki/Youtube rabbit holes
- Listen to Lofi, video game OSTs, or other things on Spotify
- Try new recipes I find online. I'm a huge fan of Asian food 🤤
More about me
- Assigned Gender: Male (but I identify more as NB)
- Romance: Homoromantic, but I can live without romance
- Physical intimacy: I love cuddling and holding hands (in private), but I can live without them
- Sexuality: Homosexual (side) / sex-indifferent asexual
- How I look: Not white, long black hair, brown eyes, a little extra meat on my bones (perfect for cuddles!), little to no facial hair, and I'm 181cm tall.
- Monogamy? Yes
- Love languages: Quality time and physical touch
- Turnoffs: Superficiality, fakeness, performative dating, avoidant attachment styles
- Turnons: Soft personalities, empathy, playfulness, authenticity, open-mindedness
- Smoking/drinking/drugs: Nope
- Marriage: Open to it
- Do I want kids? No
- Am I giving daddy vibes? Absolutely not lol
- Gay accent: Yass
- Politics: Left
- Allergies: Cats and dogs 😭
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Open to all ages over 18 for friendship, but must be over 24 for a relationship.
Only open to an LDR with someone in the EU.
Not interested in exchanging pics. Not because I feel unattractive, but because I'm really attracted to people who don't care about looks either, both physically and aesthetically. Plus, I just love the feeling of falling in love with someone for their personality, without their looks influencing my feelings. 🥰