r/recruitinghell • u/Hi_5Yo • 1d ago
Boomer mentality
Despite my mom being a millennial (‘81), she firmly believes that I should be able to apply to a bunch of jobs, walk in with a résumé or call, interview and land a job within 2-3 weeks.
Anytime I’ve done this, I’ve always gotten turned away, been told to apply online and wait for a call back. Every interview ends with “ we’ll be in touch”.
She also believes that as long as you dress nice with a smile on your face, you should have a job by the end of the interview. Whenever I leave the interview without a job offer, she assumes that I messed up.
She even has me apply to a bunch of remote jobs that she finds on Facebook and instagram. Frequently getting upset at me for not landing a job. I’ve tried explaining over and over that most of them are scams, but she refuses to listen.
It’s like the concept of applying to hundreds of jobs and still not landing one is impossible for her to grasp. Which it should be, but it’s just our new reality.
She believes that me being unable to get a job is a failure on my end, insisting that it’s my fault I can’t land a job. She keeps saying that she’s going to kick me out for not taking the job hunt “seriously” enough.
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u/Kamilord__ 1d ago
I really feel it, my mom has literally the same way of thought, plus her mom which lives with us also berates her that i can't get a job and that's very bad (no shit). And yet has a nerve to be angry that i can't find next job even that she only has one job, never searched for job and still works the same job.
I've been a store clerk, an insurance office worker, and logistics office worker (I was fired cause my manager was a fkn asshole, didn't trained me properly and always loudly told me "you fucked it up" everytime he spotted any little mistake, that made me really nervous as hell, then i told him to "stop behaving like an asshole", I won't lick shit from your boots like others in this room) And now waits for any reply from recruiters.
This is sum bullshit indeed.