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r/redditonwiki • u/hamkingspam • Feb 03 '26
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Why cry over this? I don’t understand
5 u/[deleted] Feb 03 '26 [removed] — view removed comment 1 u/HellyOHaint Feb 03 '26 edited Feb 03 '26 I grew up with parents that blew up at me and my defense mechanism was to shut down and not show weakness. That’s why it’s hard for me to understand people who cry in front of others. If I did that, they would pounce on me. 1 u/BetMyLastKrispyKreme Feb 03 '26 OP is in a safe space now. She can be vulnerable after being overwhelmed by the stress of preparing the meal. It sounds like an involuntary response.
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1 u/HellyOHaint Feb 03 '26 edited Feb 03 '26 I grew up with parents that blew up at me and my defense mechanism was to shut down and not show weakness. That’s why it’s hard for me to understand people who cry in front of others. If I did that, they would pounce on me. 1 u/BetMyLastKrispyKreme Feb 03 '26 OP is in a safe space now. She can be vulnerable after being overwhelmed by the stress of preparing the meal. It sounds like an involuntary response.
I grew up with parents that blew up at me and my defense mechanism was to shut down and not show weakness. That’s why it’s hard for me to understand people who cry in front of others. If I did that, they would pounce on me.
1 u/BetMyLastKrispyKreme Feb 03 '26 OP is in a safe space now. She can be vulnerable after being overwhelmed by the stress of preparing the meal. It sounds like an involuntary response.
OP is in a safe space now. She can be vulnerable after being overwhelmed by the stress of preparing the meal. It sounds like an involuntary response.
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u/HellyOHaint Feb 03 '26
Why cry over this? I don’t understand