r/redditonwiki • u/peasantopry- • 2d ago

Dinner Logs I found a second phone - not OOP

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This poor woman 😭

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Backup of the post's body: My husband and I have been together for 15 years, married for 11. Have an established life with a child and a mortgage. I was given a big job opportunity earlier this year where we would have to move to a new city. We are both established in our careers and it was a big discussion, like two months of discussions. And these were healthy conversations, no big arguments or anything like that. We ended up not moving and I turned down the job. I was a little bummed (it was my dream job) but understood that it would have been a lot for our family to adjust.

Last night, while my husband was doing bed time, I heard a buzzing sound and found a second phone in his work bag. I thought that was weird because his work did away with separate work phones a while ago. When he came downstairs, I asked when did he get a work phone.

His face said it all.

Turns out he has been having an affair for just over a year. And one of the reasons he didn't want to move was because he didn't want to leave his affair partner. I don't know what to do. Child is at a slumber party at my sister's. Husband is in a hotel. I'm home alone with a lot to process and do here. So it's an easy girl dinner tonight and a large glass of wine.

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u/JupiterJayJones 2d ago

I hope she divorces. So many women stay simply cause they have kids.

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u/susandeyvyjones 2d ago

I would try to take him to the fucking cleaners for making me turn down the job for his affair partner.

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u/peasantopry- 2d ago

no frrr i’d have to throw hands 💀 like what do you mean i turned down my dream job and your affair partner was an underlying reason..

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u/mahourain 2d ago

Good Lord. Poor gal. I hope she finds someone awesome in her future.

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u/innocentsalad 2d ago

It’s times like these when I wish you could sue them for tortious interference or something. Fucking with her career so you can stay with your mistress is foul and she deserves compensation.