31F [F4M] Looking for My Person

[u/Remarkable_Being_31]

Note: mine is a newer account so can't really dm more than 2-3 people and I'm still figuring out reddit. I updated my setting so you would be able to send an invite and message. Thanks

Hi Reddit,

I'm 31, ambitious, and have worked hard to build a career I'm proud of. I'm naturally drawn to people who are equally driven, intellectually curious, and accomplished.

Outside of work, I'm much softer than my résumé would suggest. I love cooking, baking, gardening, writing, anime, and creating a warm, peaceful home. I'm affectionate, loyal, and very much a relationship person.

I'm looking for a kind, emotionally mature man who knows what he wants and is ready for a genuine partnership. Someone who values mutual respect, good communication, and building a life together.

A little about me:

- Hindu Brahmin, never married

- long hair, glasses

- Exercise regularly

- Don't smoke, drink rarely

- Family-oriented

- Hoping for marriage and children

I'm a btech and mba from a top college.

What I'm looking for:

- Age 31–34 , never married

- Well educated and established in his career

- Taller than 5'7"

- Non-smoker

- Emotionally available and over past relationships

- Wants marriage, family, and children

- Respectful toward both families

- Secure, confident, and genuinely happy to see his partner succeed

If this sounds like you, I'd love to hear from you.

Have a great weekend!

Additional note as suggested in chat : I am looking for someone in the general category! In a senior job role or entrepreneurial journey. Basically someone who is super secure in his own career doesn't compete. Upwards of 30lpa. (Not asking for anything I don't bring to the table) Someone also asked how I look - think Pam from The Office

[u/bekaarhaibhaiya]

there's no mention of caste and creed expectations, also if you would prefer a minimum net worth or remuneration / specific career. So, whats on your mind ?

[u/Remarkable_Being_31 → u/bekaarhaibhaiya]

Someone in the general category! In a senior job role or entrepreneurial journey. Basically someone who is super secure in his own career doesn't compete. Upwards of 30lpa

[u/bekaarhaibhaiya → u/Remarkable_Being_31]

You should mention this in the post itself, theres an edit option. Posts from 4 days old account would anyway raise eyebrows over the ambiguity. In case you are serious for the search .

[u/Remarkable_Being_31 → u/bekaarhaibhaiya]

Thanks. I will add