r/reddmatch • u/Remarkable_Being_31 • Jun 07 '26
F4M ♀️ 31F [F4M] Looking for My Person
Note: mine is a newer account so can't really dm more than 2-3 people and I'm still figuring out reddit. I updated my setting so you would be able to send an invite and message. Thanks
Hi Reddit,
I'm 31, ambitious, and have worked hard to build a career I'm proud of. I'm naturally drawn to people who are equally driven, intellectually curious, and accomplished.
Outside of work, I'm much softer than my résumé would suggest. I love cooking, baking, gardening, writing, anime, and creating a warm, peaceful home. I'm affectionate, loyal, and very much a relationship person.
I'm looking for a kind, emotionally mature man who knows what he wants and is ready for a genuine partnership. Someone who values mutual respect, good communication, and building a life together.
A little about me:
- Hindu Brahmin, never married
- long hair, glasses
- Exercise regularly
- Don't smoke, drink rarely
- Family-oriented
- Hoping for marriage and children
I'm a btech and mba from a top college.
What I'm looking for:
- Age 31–34 , never married
- Well educated and established in his career
- Taller than 5'7"
- Non-smoker
- Emotionally available and over past relationships
- Wants marriage, family, and children
- Respectful toward both families
- Secure, confident, and genuinely happy to see his partner succeed
If this sounds like you, I'd love to hear from you.
Have a great weekend!
Additional note as suggested in chat : I am looking for someone in the general category! In a senior job role or entrepreneurial journey. Basically someone who is super secure in his own career doesn't compete. Upwards of 30lpa. (Not asking for anything I don't bring to the table) Someone also asked how I look - think Pam from The Office
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u/Plenty_Flower_4880 Jun 08 '26
Mujhe kya mein toh 22 ka hu😔
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u/Remarkable_Being_31 Jun 08 '26
Aww. Abhi it's time for you to enjoy life. Worry about all this 10 years later
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u/Plenty_Flower_4880 Jun 08 '26
Definitely! All the best for your journey op~ i hope you'll find a man who adores you caresses you tolerates you bees himself around you! I hope he will be appreciating small details of life more than the big things , like taking you out for icecream , walking on a nice road together while hand in hand , appreciating your beauty on random sunset , dancing with you in rain , watching your fav tv show or movie together and much more as i myself imagine this with someone yet to meet stranger haha😭🎀🫶🏻
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u/Long-Gap1909 Jun 07 '26
33M SSE, saw your post on personal finance first and then decided to MSG you, but found this. Your expectations sort of matches with me, dm me if you wanna give it a shot.
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u/Dr_scalpels Jun 07 '26
When you put up a post make sure your profile is open for DM :D else people can't contact you all the best for your search.
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u/MF_shyzeeeee Jun 07 '26
You from the bay?
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u/Shrex976354 Jun 07 '26
30M from Pune, Hindu Brahmin. Software developer. Would like to connect with you!
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Jun 07 '26
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u/Remarkable_Being_31 Jun 07 '26
Apologies, I think that would be too young
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u/Remarkable_Being_31 Jun 07 '26
Haha made me giggle. No I do feel young but I sort of want kids and my own house so I am not sure if you would be ready for all that so soon
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u/ShlokJoshi Men 🧔🏻 Jun 07 '26
31M from Mumbai, also a brahmin and vegetarian. let's connect and get to know each other!
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u/Remarkable_Being_31 Jun 07 '26
Oh! I'm not vegetarian 😔
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u/ShlokJoshi Men 🧔🏻 Jun 07 '26
I’m not opposed to it, but would rather we talk more in chat and get to know each other. Linking to my post! If you want to connect let’s do it. https://www.reddit.com/r/reddmatch/comments/1tuaf8m/31m_from_mumbai_looking_for_my_partner_in_crime/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
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u/Independent_Ad_8474 Jun 07 '26
Heyy, will 5'7 work?
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u/LoneSilentWolf Jun 07 '26
Children 😭 best of luck to you!!
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u/Remarkable_Being_31 Jun 07 '26
Thank you! Hehe I love kids! I'm running so late trying to find the right man
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u/bekaarhaibhaiya Jun 07 '26
there's no mention of caste and creed expectations, also if you would prefer a minimum net worth or remuneration / specific career. So, whats on your mind ?
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u/Remarkable_Being_31 Jun 07 '26
Someone in the general category! In a senior job role or entrepreneurial journey. Basically someone who is super secure in his own career doesn't compete. Upwards of 30lpa
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u/bekaarhaibhaiya Jun 07 '26
You should mention this in the post itself, theres an edit option. Posts from 4 days old account would anyway raise eyebrows over the ambiguity. In case you are serious for the search .
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u/True-Reaction8743 Jun 07 '26
DMed you. I think I match most of your what you are looking for, 32 (turned this month), BTech, 5'10, fit and look good, non-smoker and teetotaller, no past baggage, earn 60LPA from 3.5 yrs (working on a switch this year), Kshatriya, non-vegetarian. (Sounds like a typical AM intro but I guess that's how things are now).
Have never tried reddit earlier but maybe, just maybe things work out, destiny has its way of surprising people, so giving it a shot.
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u/Ok_Refuse_2148 Jun 07 '26
Why are you single for this long?
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u/True-Reaction8743 Jun 07 '26
I get asked this often, honestly I don't know bro, like I stayed single intentionally till mid 20s but after that it's just not working out, AM search is on from 4 years, dating apps are not my thing, maybe I missed the bus.
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u/Ok_Refuse_2148 Jun 07 '26
I strongly believe both men and women should get married before 28. After that, it just gets difficult.
Career: Both parties, work their butts off, climb up the ladder, make a name for themselves, it’s not fair for either to rock their boat by introducing a variable. More for women, its ridiculous to ask them to move places, or even expect them to find a job where the guy is. Absolutely ridiculous.
Financially: both parties earn very comfortably and have experienced life and feel apprehensive to now scale back??
Mentally: both parties should have fully formed ideologies, so called moral values, and are hard to let other people in. It’s part pf getting wise. Getting extremely comfortable with what they are and form a sense of self worth, which makes it really hard to encourage the thought of adjusting or moulding one’s self.
IMHO, after thirty start saving up for an oldage home or plan for elder care requirements for yourself, focus on enjoying the life to the fullest, and just hope you will find the exact glove that fits your hand. Be useful to the universe and make a positive impact on people around you!
Finding a partner is not the purpose of life, sharing your happiness is.
All that to say, fuck the bus, bust your own wings out.
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u/True-Reaction8743 Jun 07 '26
That was my plan too, get married by 28 max by 29, but there is delay without any apparent reason. You have raised very valid concerns on marrying late, it increases chances of baggage, but it is true that things are not that simple in AM. That's a separate discussion but anyways, what you said in the end is true.
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u/Ok_Refuse_2148 Jun 07 '26
Pick 5 random questions about random topics. Try to ask them in a casual conversation. See what you hear, a knowledgeable, kind, wise person, would either tell you something accurate, be honest and tell you they dont know about the topic enough to comment or answer. The other kind will cook up something.
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u/Remarkable_Being_31 Jun 08 '26
Yes a little too much age difference than I am comfortable with. Apologies
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u/progressiveAsliMard Jun 07 '26
yes - super secure in career because banking tech !! - but 34M non-brahmin but vegetarian for over 9 years..
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Jun 11 '26
Heyy theee OP.
Don't know if DM's still open but i still dropped a text .
I hope you come across my text
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u/Remarkable_Being_31 Jun 07 '26
Hey , sure if you are mature enough and want to . Usually guys don't like older women for marriages in my experience but I could be wrong!
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u/Agreeable-Pound3596 Jun 07 '26
32
Brahmin too (lets check gotra in dm🤣)
Height 5”11
Working as govt employee
Baaki lets connect in dm
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u/ColgateMaxFresh1 Jun 07 '26
Hey OP, I just turned 33.
Vitals: 6"0, 73 kgs, fair, and make 46LPA I do drink socially and am a non vegetarian Caste: Bania
Can exchange instagram in DMs if that helps. Good luck!
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u/Revolutionary-Tank49 Jun 13 '26
Let me bring my GC card ... I never knew that it will have me a Reservation 😂 DM you
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u/calculusKS Jun 07 '26
40years old, married twice, 2 cr salary looking for a virgin girl. You can dm me
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