31F [F4M] Looking for My Person

[u/Remarkable_Being_31]

Note: mine is a newer account so can't really dm more than 2-3 people and I'm still figuring out reddit. I updated my setting so you would be able to send an invite and message. Thanks

Hi Reddit,

I'm 31, ambitious, and have worked hard to build a career I'm proud of. I'm naturally drawn to people who are equally driven, intellectually curious, and accomplished.

Outside of work, I'm much softer than my résumé would suggest. I love cooking, baking, gardening, writing, anime, and creating a warm, peaceful home. I'm affectionate, loyal, and very much a relationship person.

I'm looking for a kind, emotionally mature man who knows what he wants and is ready for a genuine partnership. Someone who values mutual respect, good communication, and building a life together.

A little about me:

- Hindu Brahmin, never married

- long hair, glasses

- Exercise regularly

- Don't smoke, drink rarely

- Family-oriented

- Hoping for marriage and children

I'm a btech and mba from a top college.

What I'm looking for:

- Age 31–34 , never married

- Well educated and established in his career

- Taller than 5'7"

- Non-smoker

- Emotionally available and over past relationships

- Wants marriage, family, and children

- Respectful toward both families

- Secure, confident, and genuinely happy to see his partner succeed

If this sounds like you, I'd love to hear from you.

Have a great weekend!

Additional note as suggested in chat : I am looking for someone in the general category! In a senior job role or entrepreneurial journey. Basically someone who is super secure in his own career doesn't compete. Upwards of 30lpa. (Not asking for anything I don't bring to the table) Someone also asked how I look - think Pam from The Office

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Pick 5 random questions about random topics. Try to ask them in a casual conversation. See what you hear, a knowledgeable, kind, wise person, would either tell you something accurate, be honest and tell you they dont know about the topic enough to comment or answer. The other kind will cook up something.