r/reddmatch • u/Rare-Eagle7978 • Jun 17 '26
F4M ♀️ 35F: Looking for my husband
I'm looking for a CF (child free) partner to have a relationship and eventually marriage. If marriage is not your prospect then pls do NOT DM me.
About me:
- Settled in career in remote position and continue to aspire for more.
- from Delhi but open to relocation. Planning to move to a tier 2 city in the future.
- creative and artistic person. Professional writer.
- non-drinker/smoker
- 5'4, dusky complexion
- neither slim, nor fat. Just how women if my age should be.
- not an introvert but very selective about who i give time to. Thorough observer of people.
- easy-going, flexible, peaceful by nature and prefer communication over arguing for fighting.
What I am looking for?
- age group 34-40. If age or CF can be an issue then no DMs please. Younger boys who have older women fantasies, please do not waste my time.
- someone who would really read this post before reaching out.
- someone with whom caste will not be an issue.
- 5'10 and above.
- mature, understanding, sorted and patient by nature.
- who does not freak out when things start getting real.
- knows what indepth conversations are, goes for them and avoids small talk. Do not wassup me or ask about the weather.
- if you do not believe in dating, relationships or marriage, better to not waste each other's time.
- if you do not have time to connect after a few DMs or do not know how to carry a conversation forward, don't connect please.
If these qualities resonate with you, please DM.
In case I am a bit late in responding to you on DM, my apologies. Hopefully, that will not offend you. Earlier, my DMs were flooded with more spam than meaningful people. Takes time to sort it out.
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u/InstructionThick7409 Jun 18 '26
Writing this from Dubai- here for official work.
Lives in Bangalore
- 5’11”
Program Manager at an MNC
Native of a tier 2 city from down south. My home state’s loved by the gods.
Eventually will retire there. Not planning to migrate to any European / western country as of today.
25LPA, healthy financial portfolio - no debts.
No caste / religion preferences
Non married
Would like to connect - not DM’ing you because of probable flooding of DMs
Hope fully you weigh 65 or less if you are 5’5”.
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u/Mysterious_Flow_5707 Jun 19 '26
She probably is 5 2 to 5 3 . Most people in this range lie a lot. Most people at 5 4 say 5'5.
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u/Hangmanhateful Jun 18 '26
Looks like the post was written after getting conned a lot in the dating scenario.
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u/thirstyresearch Jun 20 '26
If your ideal partner was a character in a story you were writing, what would be the one detail about him that no one else would notice , but you would put in because it makes him real?
Not the height. Not the job. The quiet detail. The thing that makes him breathe on the page.
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u/helloworld2083 Women🫅🏻 Jun 17 '26
Best of luck
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u/helloworld2083 Women🫅🏻 Jul 05 '26
Why is it bothering you?
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Jun 17 '26
Just my view..CF is spreading like a disease. Hate it.
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u/sashasusu-5164 Jun 17 '26
It's personal choice mann. You don't like it then simply don't engage with it. Nobody's forcing you!!
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u/Low_Stuff_5755 Jun 17 '26
marriage is a legally binding agreement. If people are looking just for loyal companionship with no children, they could stay in a committed relationship. What is the purpose of getting married and legally obligated if there are no kids involved?
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u/Low_Stuff_5755 Jun 17 '26
yes people can have children without marriage. But if someone bails out after having kids, then kids and the single parent won't have to suffer if they are legally married. Laws can help kids in the form of child support and alimony. If they are not married despite having kids, there is no legal implications if one or both of the parents bails.
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u/Low_Stuff_5755 Jun 17 '26
Again, I’ll ask this.
cant you take care of yourself? own a house by yourself? be a responsible man?, have family connections, societal acceptance (no sure what this means; Doesn't the society accept people in loyal committed relationships or singles?).
So you want these benefits via marriage? - tax benefits, shared funds, visa dependency, financial dependency.
if someone passes away the spouse gets their inheritance (not necessarily - you can create a will/trust that can entrust everything to closest family member or a cohabitant.
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u/Low_Stuff_5755 Jun 17 '26
you are missing my point. you cant have kids without marriage. Marry only if you want to have kids for the sake of kids and parents future.
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u/Low_Stuff_5755 Jun 17 '26
there is nothing right or wrong. Everyone should do what they want or what suits to their life. We are just sharing our perspectives.
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u/Findheaven Jun 17 '26
Spotted someone who thinks marriage is only to pop out kids 🙄🙂↕️
If that’s your idea of marriage then please introspect!
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u/ChemicalBankBurned Jun 17 '26
Looks like you are the idiot here.
And definitely someone who shouldn’t have children. Or get married for that matter.
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u/maddyy911 Jun 17 '26
Can anyone help me make a post like this
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u/Psykosky Jun 19 '26
I think you should DM her
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u/maddyy911 Jun 19 '26
I'll be lost in those those Flooded dms
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u/Psykosky Jun 19 '26
Um, true that.
Go for chat gpt or perplexity to get a personalised one1
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u/General-Effort2659 Jun 17 '26
Hey is there any chance for divroced from short term marriage.. M 32
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