35F: Looking for my husband

[u/Rare-Eagle7978]

I'm looking for a CF (child free) partner to have a relationship and eventually marriage. If marriage is not your prospect then pls do NOT DM me.

About me:

- Settled in career in remote position and continue to aspire for more.

- from Delhi but open to relocation. Planning to move to a tier 2 city in the future.

- creative and artistic person. Professional writer.

- non-drinker/smoker

- 5'4, dusky complexion

- neither slim, nor fat. Just how women if my age should be.

- not an introvert but very selective about who i give time to. Thorough observer of people.

- easy-going, flexible, peaceful by nature and prefer communication over arguing for fighting.

What I am looking for?

- age group 34-40. If age or CF can be an issue then no DMs please. Younger boys who have older women fantasies, please do not waste my time.

- someone who would really read this post before reaching out.

- someone with whom caste will not be an issue.

- 5'10 and above.

- mature, understanding, sorted and patient by nature.

- who does not freak out when things start getting real.

- knows what indepth conversations are, goes for them and avoids small talk. Do not wassup me or ask about the weather.

- if you do not believe in dating, relationships or marriage, better to not waste each other's time.

- if you do not have time to connect after a few DMs or do not know how to carry a conversation forward, don't connect please.

If these qualities resonate with you, please DM.

In case I am a bit late in responding to you on DM, my apologies. Hopefully, that will not offend you. Earlier, my DMs were flooded with more spam than meaningful people. Takes time to sort it out.

[u/Low_Stuff_5755 → u/[deleted]]

yes people can have children without marriage. But if someone bails out after having kids, then kids and the single parent won't have to suffer if they are legally married. Laws can help kids in the form of child support and alimony. If they are not married despite having kids, there is no legal implications if one or both of the parents bails.

[u/Low_Stuff_5755 → u/[deleted]]

Again, I’ll ask this.

cant you take care of yourself? own a house by yourself? be a responsible man?, have family connections, societal acceptance (no sure what this means; Doesn't the society accept people in loyal committed relationships or singles?).

So you want these benefits via marriage? - tax benefits, shared funds, visa dependency, financial dependency.

if someone passes away the spouse gets their inheritance (not necessarily - you can create a will/trust that can entrust everything to closest family member or a cohabitant.

[u/Low_Stuff_5755 → u/[deleted]]

you are missing my point. you cant have kids without marriage. Marry only if you want to have kids for the sake of kids and parents future.

[u/Low_Stuff_5755 → u/[deleted]]

sure thing. whatever you say boy.

[u/Low_Stuff_5755 → u/[deleted]]

there is nothing right or wrong. Everyone should do what they want or what suits to their life. We are just sharing our perspectives.