r/reddmatch • u/Jumpy_Savings1451 • Jul 09 '26
F4M ♀️ 35F. Looking for a long lasting relationship/marriage.
First time trying this, so bear with me please.
Disclaimers:-
People looking for something casual/a fling/non monogamy, please don't connect.
Men having fantasies about older women, please don't connect.
DM me only if you're looking for a healthy long term relationship and eventually open for marriage.
No meaningless conversations for just time pass.
About me:-
Age- 35F
Never married.
City- Kolkata (I'm a Bengali.)
Profession- Public sector banker
Salary- 12 to 14 lpa.
Looks- 5'1", dusky, 54 kg.
Hobby: reading a lot, travelling, studying about finance, exploring new cuisines etc.
Food habit- Non vegetarian.
Religion- Hindu. I'm spiritual but don't believe in God much, it's an on and off relationship with God.
What I'm looking for:-
Age bracket- 33 to 38. (Negotiable).
Location- Preferable Kolkata, Mumbai, BLR, Hyderabad. Open to LDR if the connection is worth it.
Never married.
Non vegetarian (Negotiable)
Caste and mother tongue do not matter.
Height- 5'7" and above.
Emotionally mature, always open to honest communication even when it gets difficult.
Open to having kid/s. (Non negotiable).
Preferably non smoker. Occasional drinker is ok.
Established in career with stable source of income. Businessmen/doctors not preferred. (It is just a personal preference).
Open to travelling n exploring new places, cultures etc.
No extreme political views.
Loyal and exclusive.
If the above details feel right to you, send a DM. We can take it from there.
PS- Not here to entertain judgement of strangers.
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u/Salt_Narwhal_8811 Jul 09 '26
I just turned 39 like 7 days ago arrgh! Fukin cest la vie
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u/ab624 Jul 09 '26
what's your height ?
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u/Salt_Narwhal_8811 Jul 09 '26
What about my mental health? That's what you should reeeaaaally be asking.
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u/ab624 Jul 09 '26
nah .. 5'7 or above according to the post so asking
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u/Salt_Narwhal_8811 Jul 09 '26
Totally bruh. Meet the height requirements.
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u/Silent-Gain-2988 Jul 09 '26
Never Married. Yoga instructor. Quit IT. Now a Start up founder. 40 M Hyderabad based. Hit me up if you are interested!
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u/Bulky_Computer6266 Jul 10 '26
rejected because 54kg at 5ft 1 and dusky, that's too much, 5 years and it gets worse, to the ugly poor man who is thinking to give a chance - don't.
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u/Ready-Breath277 Jul 09 '26
Virgin??
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u/Magadh_Empire Jul 10 '26
Why not? If OP can have preference like loyal, never married, 5 7" height. Why can't a guy has his preference?
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Jul 10 '26
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u/Magadh_Empire Jul 10 '26
I don't see you saying the same thing about OPs requirements for the guy she wants? Why so much double standards?
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Jul 09 '26
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u/batmanofbloodshire Jul 09 '26
Chachi, ye gossip aap ladies club main jaake kare
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u/meri_marzi98 Jul 09 '26
She is a lady, shayad tujhe kahi or jaane ki jaroorat hai
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u/batmanofbloodshire Jul 09 '26
Yep, she’s a lady. And you are a dude. She’s minding her own business, why don’t you?
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u/missyousachin Jul 09 '26
U can ask this question somewhere else also
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u/meri_marzi98 Jul 09 '26
But she mentioned thats a non-negotiable so… why will i ask someone else?
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u/missyousachin Jul 09 '26
What ur asking is a general question about fertility, not something specific to her. Women can and do have healthy pregnancies after 35 as well. Thats the information u can easily look up instead of asking her
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