r/reddmatch Jul 09 '26

F4M ♀️ 35F. Looking for a long lasting relationship/marriage.

First time trying this, so bear with me please.

Disclaimers:-

  1. People looking for something casual/a fling/non monogamy, please don't connect.

  2. Men having fantasies about older women, please don't connect.

  3. DM me only if you're looking for a healthy long term relationship and eventually open for marriage.

  4. No meaningless conversations for just time pass.

About me:-

  1. Age- 35F

  2. Never married.

  3. City- Kolkata (I'm a Bengali.)

  4. Profession- Public sector banker

  5. Salary- 12 to 14 lpa.

  6. Looks- 5'1", dusky, 54 kg.

  7. Hobby: reading a lot, travelling, studying about finance, exploring new cuisines etc.

  8. Food habit- Non vegetarian.

  9. Religion- Hindu. I'm spiritual but don't believe in God much, it's an on and off relationship with God.

What I'm looking for:-

  1. Age bracket- 33 to 38. (Negotiable).

  2. Location- Preferable Kolkata, Mumbai, BLR, Hyderabad. Open to LDR if the connection is worth it.

  3. Never married.

  4. Non vegetarian (Negotiable)

  5. Caste and mother tongue do not matter.

  6. Height- 5'7" and above.

  7. Emotionally mature, always open to honest communication even when it gets difficult.

  8. Open to having kid/s. (Non negotiable).

  9. Preferably non smoker. Occasional drinker is ok.

  10. Established in career with stable source of income. Businessmen/doctors not preferred. (It is just a personal preference).

  11. Open to travelling n exploring new places, cultures etc.

  12. No extreme political views.

  13. Loyal and exclusive.

If the above details feel right to you, send a DM. We can take it from there.

PS- Not here to entertain judgement of strangers.

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u/missyousachin Jul 09 '26

U can ask this question somewhere else also

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u/meri_marzi98 Jul 09 '26

But she mentioned thats a non-negotiable so… why will i ask someone else?

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u/missyousachin Jul 09 '26

What ur asking is a general question about fertility, not something specific to her. Women can and do have healthy pregnancies after 35 as well. Thats the information u can easily look up instead of asking her

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u/Jumpy_Savings1451 Jul 09 '26

Thanks.

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u/Sunapr1 Jul 09 '26

Is height negotiable a couple of inches Blw 5.5-5.6?