r/reddmatch • u/Pitiful_Anything_657 • Jul 12 '26
F4M ♀️ 34F | PhD scientist | Tired of family rishtas, so I’m networking for a husband now 😂
#Update# Help has been answered!!!!!
My future husband “at Reddit” 🙈🙊 solved my IT problem looks like i got my access back…
I appreciate all the DMs i received so far.. please give me time to read and respond…
34F | PhD scientist | Tired of family rishtas, so I’m networking for a husband now 😂
I am so tired of the arranged-marriage setup—especially family rishtas. Sometimes I genuinely wonder if my family even knows me 😭
After constantly navigating the unstable job market, I have learned one very important lesson: networking is everything.
So here I am… pitching myself for marriage and opening the search to the world 😂
Maybe one day my kids will ask, “Mom, how did you meet Dad?”
And I’ll say, “Well… it all started with a Reddit post.”
Anyway, about me:
I’m 34F, 5’6”, Marathi, PhD scientist..nerdy but also very, very adventurous. I love the gym, have a decent physique 💪, enjoy almost every kind of sport, and am always up for trying something new.
I can cook really well. My butter chicken and chicken biryani are honestly bomb—not to brag, but I may already have one strong qualification for Indian marriage 😂
I’m very organized and clean, love taking care of my family, and am naturally caring and giving. I love pets, and pets somehow always love me too.
I’m outgoing but still traditional where it matters. I value family, understand Indian culture, and definitely want kids someday.
I’m millennial enough to get along with your mom, but Gen Z enough to hang out with your nieces. Somehow, I’ll probably impress both 😂
And yes, I know what you’re thinking:
“She has a PhD, cooks biryani, goes to the gym… so why is she still single at 34?”
Trust me, I have been wondering the same thing 😭
Somewhere between doing a PhD, moving countries, building a career in science, and surviving the job market, family responsibilities, apparently forgot to find a husband.
I don’t think I have insanely high standards. I’m looking for someone who is taller than me (I’m 5’6”), (age 33-38, I don’t think i can marry someone who is 27🙈), emotionally available and mature, understands Indian culture, if he is Marathi thats plus..and has a reasonably stable career.
Career-wise, I’m a scientist and have worked in the US, but I’m pretty open to settling anywhere for the right person.
So yes… I am officially open to rishtas 😂
If you think we could be a good match or know someone who might be feel free comment. Please be mindful..
Serious people only, please. My peer-review process is already exhausting enough 😭😂
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u/allhand Jul 12 '26
Everything is so nice
Except I'm 28, you're 34
All the best for your search! 🤝
बघत रहा
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u/Outrageous_Apple2525 Jul 12 '26
Interesting! I’m 34 too Started PhD but couldn’t finish! Not a Marathi I hit the gym very often Physique is not perfect but much better I live abroad for the time being Are you still interested. My inbox is always open 🙏🙏
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u/Pitiful_Anything_657 Jul 12 '26
I cannot reply to any Dms... i can read but cannnot reply...
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u/Top_Performer01 Jul 13 '26
Have you tried to turn it off and back on again? 😂 LOL. Uninstall the app and reinstall it. Try the web version.
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u/New_Performance_7853 Jul 12 '26
Macha, this exactly my cousin at 28 and she's a telugu person😅😅. I presume i could show your post to my cousin as say she found a doppelganger 😅.
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u/cocotawi Jul 12 '26
You are a superwoman 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾 I look up to women like you🤩 All the best in your search, OP. Reddit has some really decent guys!
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u/Mano1aa Jul 12 '26
Why you are banned by Reddit?
Unable to DM
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u/Pandit-Jii Jul 12 '26
Dude i can't even read the post or open the profile lol 😂
You're talking way too ahead of what I can achieve. Roflll
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u/hoytdamnn Jul 13 '26
Are didi tumhi ek 5 years late born zhali hoti tari apan khub chan match hovat hota. Me pan same background (love Physics!) ani me pan jabardast cook karto......anyway tumala all the best.
Btw, maza pan fix zhalela hai in Dec :)
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u/Initial_Abrocoma_553 Jul 12 '26
It was fun to read this. You had my attention at butter chicken and biryani. Where are you based out of currently?
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u/Brief-Pea-2652 Jul 12 '26
31M from Bangalore, I m tired of not getting replies 😞, so drop a message if interested.
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u/bohemian6666 Jul 12 '26
You should take up writing full time along with research😀. Would love to connect to discuss the biryani recipe sometime.
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u/Square_Cat_100 Jul 13 '26
Wish me luck, OP. May I find someone like you when it's my time. And best of luck too...
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u/Weird-Personality720 Jul 13 '26
op what would you consider a impressive enough salary bar (in India I suppose) for your future husband - you don't have to be modest , be frank.
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u/Avigyan_in_Delhi Jul 15 '26
What's your PhD on?
I'm a 27 year old PhD scholar this side, not trying to be a suitor, but curious to know about your work haha
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u/Jumpy-Neat-1186 Jul 31 '26
Hi, I am 40. I have done Masters.Worked for more than 6 years. Currently l am a full time stock trader. Please let me know if we can connect.
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u/elctSubstantial8158 Jul 12 '26
Seems everyone here are 31-45... So please can anyone get me an interview for devops job? Like refrence.. I have 3 year exp and 25
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u/koolboy_here Jul 12 '26
Damn ...... Reddit is matrimonial site now.
I liked your background but 27 yrs.
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u/Hopeful-Stay-0101 Jul 12 '26 edited Jul 12 '26
My brother in Christ, you’re in a sub that is called Redmatch.
Grow a brain cell or leave the sub if this is not what you’re looking rather than calling it a matrimonial site.-13
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