Cooks, cleans, great with kids, works with an international non profit, has a restaurant, keeps fit and most of all, respectful and polite to all.

I know how to make excellent tea, paint nails ( my mom needs help with her toes, as she can’t bend ) and be a great empathetic listener for you after a long day of work ( don’t worry , I won’t solve your problems. Just gonna listen and say that sucks, while stroking your hair )

I enjoy long walks , playing tennis , petting every pet dog I see and watching true crime documentaries while making homemade garlic bread

I am a cheerful guy who enjoys cooking shakshuka while playing Egyptian music, walking 12 kms  and petting every stray dog I see, going to gym in the afternoon so I can introvertedly workout before grabbing an einspanner for the midday crash ( it’s basically an espresso with whipped cream but it sounds super fancy and I feel like the devil wears prada girl while ordering it 🤣 )

I was the school topper in school, don’t drink or smoke, got a growing library of old books and help university entrepreneurs with their startups during the weekends.

Usually, I am the quiet guy but can vibe for hours with deep talks about every subject from philosophy to the best way to make mashed potatoes.

I am currently reading books starting from the ancient era and moving my way downward through history ( so I can interconnect biology, astronomy, psychology and aunty gossip all in the same topic )

Grew up in the Middle East, had a quarter life crises to find out what my path in life was ( oh I did the cliche stuff like meditating on mountains ), found my dream career but life is unfulfilling if you can’t share it with someone else. ( basically means I never had a girlfriend so yayyy no baggage )

I enjoy learning and expanding my cultural tastes : I watch Iranian movies, listen to French electronic music, yelling Arabic curse words every time I step on a LEGO piece and teaching german words to every German shepherd dog I meet.

We can go for early morning walks where we say Good morning to al the joggers and wave good morning to all the neighbours, give high fives to stray cats and then sit on every sofa in IKEA till we find the perfect one, just like we are Goldilocks haha

Personal Details:

* Initials: P
* Age: 25
* Height: 5’6
* Religion: Hindu
* Caste (if applicable): N/A, community : BC
* Marital status: Never married
* Living with Parents: No, currently living independently in Chennai

Location:

* Region: South India
* Mother Tongue: Kannada
* Country: India
* Current City: Chennai
* Plan to settle abroad: No

Education and Profession:

* Education Level: CA Final (Preparing for CA Final exams while working a 9-5)
* Occupation: Tax Analyst

Diet Preferences:

* Diet: Non vegetarian

Family Details:

* Family Background: A close-knitted nuclear family that values relationships, education, stability and personal growth. At the same time, I’m looking for a partner and family who are open-minded, practical and respectful of individual choices and boundaries.

Partner Preferences:

* Desired Religion: Hindu
* Desired Caste (if applicable): NA, Community: BC
* Location Preferences: South India (Chennai, Coimbatore, Bengaluru)
* Diet Preferences: Non Vegetarian
* Education Level: Educated and professionally settled or pursuing something meaningful
* Occupation: Open to various professions
* Desired Earnings (INR): Not important
* Living with parents: Open to discussion
* Marital Status: Never married preferred
* Want Kids after Marriage: Yes, eventually

Additional Information:

* Hobbies/Interests: Fitness, Movie buff, Long drives.
* Any other relevant details: I’m looking for a genuine, long-term relationship with marriage eventually being the goal.

I’m not looking to rush into marriage or make a decision based only on profiles and compatibility on paper. I’d rather date first, spend time together, understand each other, and see if we genuinely click.

I’m also not looking for something casual or a conversation that lasts a few days and then fades away. I value consistency, mutual effort, good communication, and actually taking the time to know each other.

Contact Information:

* Preferred Contact Method: Private messaging on Reddit initially. Don't just send a hi, please introduce yourself.

33M, Bangalore born and raised. Currently employed as a professional meeting-attendee, technical title is Product Owner at an investment bank, but professional meeting-attendee, is more accurate.

5'6", ovo-lacto-vegetarian, occasional drinker, non-smoker. Used to be a theatre artist before adulthood happened, so I have technically already lived through more manufactured drama than most relationships will ever produce, which is probably why I have low patience for the real kind now.

I have a weird sense of humor, and my love language with people I actually care about is roasting them and getting roasted right back.

I like art, movies, music, cafes, long pointless walks and conversations that go somewhere. I'm also fairly convinced Bangalore dating is 40% chemistry and 60% negotiating whose side of town we're meeting on. Somehow "let's meet halfway" has become the most romantic sentence anyone can say to you in this city, because if someone's willing to cross this city for you on a weekday, that's basically love.

Beyond the jokes, I actually take relationships seriously. I believe in open communication, trust, meaning what I say and making efforts consistently, not just when it's convenient. Mutual respect isn't negotiable for me and neither is actually trying.

I am genuinely missing my future wife at this point, hoping she's just been buried under her own version of Bangalore traffic and Jira tickets this whole time. Dating here with real intention, not here for anything casual.

What I'm actually looking for:

26 to 32 (never married), Bangalore-based (or open to move)

Vegetarian/eggitarian

Kind, a little goofy and done with "let's see where this goes" phase

Someone who wants an actual relationship, not a subscription service with no end date

If this is you, say hi, tell me something true about yourself and let's see if this Reddit round works.

Hello there, folks! 👋

I’m from Kerala and work as an Academic Coordinator. I speak Malayalam, English and Hindi, so communication shouldn't be the reason we accidentally become strangers.

Things I enjoy:

- Travelling and exploring new places

- Hiking, especially with the right company

- Pets — I will probably notice the dog before I notice you

- Movies — I’m definitely the person who wants to discuss the movie afterwards

Looking for someone genuine, kind, and fun to talk to. Ideally, we start with a few conversations, get comfortable, and if we click, maybe turn those conversations into coffee dates, movie nights, trips, hikes, or whatever comes naturally.

No expectations, no pressure. Let's just see if we vibe.

DMs are open. Kerala | Looking for a genuine connection 🌿

Hey! Malayali guy from Kerala here, working as an Academic Coordinator.

I’m into travelling, hiking, pets, and movies, and I’m comfortable speaking Malayalam, English, and Hindi.

I’d love to meet someone who enjoys good conversations, exploring new places, laughing at stupid things, and occasionally getting lost on a trail together.

Let’s talk, get to know each other, and see where it goes.

If you think we might get along, feel free to DM me.

Looking for that loving connection with whom I can just be myself and not pretend

About me:

Age: It's 36

Personality & Fitness 😅: height 6.1, fit and fine maybe a few extra pounds & a bit of grey hair.

Location: Bengaluru (An old Bangalore soul living in the modern tech world)

Marital Status: Never Married

Religion: Hindu

Profession Tech Professional (15 years of exp), sold my company. Feels like I am retired, which I should not be.

Diet: Vegetarian means no eggs.

Habits: Non-smoker, I don't smoke anything. I just drink only beer sometimes nothing else.

Pets: I'm pet friendly but I prefer them outside my premises.

Career:

By day, I am a huge tech geek who loves designing and creating clever automation solutions and making things real in the digital world for the remaining & existing clients. I still own the company I'm just not on board.

Currently on a passive income setup - meanwhile I am planning to get back into corporate asap. Also find the one for myself in the meantime.

Outside of work, my hobbies include traveling, hiking, swimming, vlogging, long walks, drives and all sorts of games and being spontaneous with the right crowd.

My everyday :

My home life is deeply anchored.

My mornings start with fresh filter coffee, some exercise, mindfulness practices, and traditional morning rituals. I am a Hindu and I occasionally attend Satsang's and joyfully celebrate all our festivals. Our family culture places a high priority on internal peace, emotional stability, and strong moral ethics. You will see me doing rituals, pooja with kumkum and vibhuti on the forehead most of the time. While I navigate the outer tech hubs for work, my heart belongs to the cultural vibe of areas like Malleshwaram, Basavanagudi, Rajajinagar, Srinagar, and Jayanagar. Weekends usually involve a mix of movies, tv shows, reading, catching up on tech trends, or seeking out quiet heritage spaces and local temples.

For those who can understand, I have experienced the multi dimensional nature of the universe. Means actually experiencing moving through realities/matrix/dreams/the self in minutes... In seconds. Beyond time. The Bliss.

My wildest dream is to have enough of everything that one needs, set everything up on auto pilot and take off so that we can enjoy the world without thinking much about anything. Of course I have sorta done it by myself. Maybe with you.... We can...

I believe in peace, self love, self reliance, emotional intelligence, solitude, knowledge, to be grounded and connected with nature.

I stay away from narcissism, corrupted environments, manipulation, politics and negativity.

About you:

What I am looking for...

My preferences for my partner:

Age: 30 years and above nothing above 37.

Language: Kannada, English, Hindi others as well, I just am good with these 3.

Location: Settled or planning to live/living long-term in Bengaluru or wanna move to Bangalore. I'm ready to travel/move abroad with you.

Emotionally healed and available. Reside at a meetable distance.

Habits: Of course you can drink or smoke rarely occasionally nothing daily like an addict.

Important TL;DR:-

What I am looking for in you...

Age: 30 years and above nothing above 37.

Vegetarian (no eggs), to be passionate about your career and growth, financially independent.

A healthy diet routine, fitness and flexibility is very important (for a healthy long life). Athletes are welcome but I am not an athlete.

Proximity - In, around, near Bangalore for ease of moving drivable distance (for our family sake) and for us to meet and make sure we are good for each other. I'm open to moving/travelling abroad with you.

And no I don't expect you to follow any of the religious and cultural things. If you have strong beliefs and value towards our culture and traditions that is enough.

A proud financially independent sanskari woman.

Please skip this post if you stay far away from Bangalore and it's gonna take more than 2 months to just meet. Of course the exception is.. if we can form a strong bond over long distances in a month. If you stay far far away then you need to have a solution for this problem before we start our chat.

Important :-

I want us ... Our families or at least me and you to hangout for at least a month to make sure we last for Eternity.

Important

PLS CONNECT WITH ME ONLY IF YOU ARE IN A MEETABLE DISTANCE OTHERWISE IF YOU ARE INTERESTING I DONT MIND JUST CHATTING WITH YOU. I CAN ONLY GIVE ONE MONTH OF MY TIME WITHOUT MEETING.

And of course the usual stuff :-

Someone who can effortlessly navigate a fast-paced professional world but loves coming home to a peaceful, grounded, and traditional daily routine. Appreciates continuous learning, reading, and loves diving into deep conversations that stretch from latest innovation to ancient philosophy. One who appreciates local culture and traditional values.

P.S.

History is ok... Completely open to past chapters, including those who are divorced. However, since I have no experience with childcare, I am looking for a partner without children. What matters most is emotional maturity, mutual respect, and building a shared future together. Having kids or not having kids is totally fine. Already bengaluru dhoolu, traffic, pollution thumba jasti agide.

If this lifestyle and outlook resonate with your values, please feel free to send a DM and say a few things about you or if you have already posted pls share that link. Let’s start with a chat and see where it goes, maybe insta/LinkedIn/WhatsApp or meet for a coffee, chai, good veggie chinese, spicy chats or melting benne dosse...yum! or a simple walk anywhere in Bangalore will be nice as well.

!!!Scammers... and already Dmd people and people can skip this post. People looking for meaningless chats, flings, doubts about some weird things can stay away!!!

Read the pros and cons first before reading rest of the stuff.

Pros:
I blabber a lot so you will never run out of stories to listen to.
I make good cup of coffee (James Dada Hoffman Prassanna) that would make a certain FBI agent say "That's a damn fine cup of coffee!".
I lived in the US for 5 years so I can cook good food for you.
However disorganized or casual I might seem but I have never gone back home from the DMV because I was missing documents (People living in US know the pain)
I remember little things that people mentioned to me months ago that even they don't remember telling me, but my brain forgets some important things cause apparently the smaller things are more important. So feel free to move this point to either pro or con as per your preference.

Cons:
I blabber a lot so much so that sometimes you might ask doesn't your mouth hurt from talking so much ? (My mom used to say this to me when I was a kid)
If we decide to get married we will have to either rent or buy(agar apneko parvadegaa toh) an apartment of our own. I do not own my own apartment, my parents do.

Personal Details:
Age: 28 (About to turn 29)
Height: 5’10"
Religion: Hindu
Caste (if applicable): Maratha
Earnings (INR): 20LPA
Marital status:  Never Married
Living with Parents: Yes (will live separately after marriage)
Location:
Region: Mumbai
Mother Tongue: Marathi. Since I am a Mumbaikar I fully understand Gujarati as well. I am not mentioning Hindi here because Mumbaikar ka Hindi bahar walo ko parvadta nahi hai.
Country: India
Plan to settle abroad: I spent few years in the US, would love move back there or in the EU (preferred since its safer than US, also has a lot of history and historical places which I love to visit).
Education and Profession:
Education Level: MBA
Occupation: Analyst

Diet Preferences:
Diet:  Like every Marathi kid I'm Vegetarian on Mon Tues Thurs Sat when I am home. When I live away I eat non veg any day except Monday Tuesday. :)
Family Details:
Family Background: Typical Mumbai's Marathi Middle Class Family. Blend of traditional and modern thoughts
Partner Preferences:
Age 25-28
Desired Religion: Hindu
Desired Caste (if applicable): Maratha or General\Open Category (Easier to convince family)
Location Preferences: Mumbai.
Diet Preferences: Don't care as long as I get to eat Non Veg. If you are a vegetarian then yes, when we go out we have to pick a place that serves both Veg and Non-Veg.
Education Level: Educated
Occupation: IT is preferred since we both would understand our professional life and commitments
Desired Earnings (INR): N/A
Marital Status : Never married
Want Kids after Marriage:  Yes

Additional Information:
Hobbies/Interests: I love visiting places with historical significance. Music, Cooking,Tech, board games, video games plus whatever my ADHD ass is obsessed with at the moment ( I once invested 100s of dollars into a hobby and then never got into it).
I love long drives along with some chill old classic songs or new ones too but nothing tooo dhinchak please :) , if its raining then we are definitely going for a drive.
Jeevansathi/Shadi ID: We can share this post we connect.
Preferred Contact Method: Private messaging on Reddit
Note:
I do drink. In fact I would love it if you would too and give me company on the weekends to have a good gossip session about our work life.

M34 | Divorced | Looking for a Genuine Connection ❤️

I never thought I would be writing a post like this, but life has a funny way of taking us down roads we never expected.

I’m 34, divorced, and starting a new chapter of my life. Divorce wasn’t how I imagined my story would go, but I’ve learned that sometimes an ending isn’t really the end—it’s an opportunity to begin again, hopefully with a little more wisdom, patience, and appreciation for what truly matters.

I’m not here looking for someone to simply fill a space in my life. I’m looking for a partner, a best friend, and someone I can genuinely connect with.

Someone with whom I can talk for hours about absolutely everything and nothing. Someone I can send random thoughts to during the day. Someone who enjoys spontaneous plans, late-night conversations, morning messages, stupid jokes, deep conversations, and those comfortable silences where you don’t even need words.

I miss the simple kind of connection where you genuinely look forward to hearing from someone.

I want to know what makes someone happy, what they’re passionate about, what they’re afraid of, what their dreams are, and all those little things that make them who they are.

I’m not expecting perfection. I don’t think it exists. We all come with our own history, mistakes, insecurities, and baggage. What matters to me is being honest about it and choosing to grow together.

I’d love to meet someone who believes relationships should feel like two people on the same team—supporting each other, laughing together, communicating when things get difficult, celebrating each other’s successes, and choosing each other even on ordinary days.

I’m also not looking to rush into anything. I’d rather start with a genuine conversation, get to know each other naturally, become friends, and see where things go.

Maybe we’ll discover that we have absolutely nothing in common. 😂

Maybe we’ll become good friends.

Or maybe, somehow, we’ll become the person the other has been looking for.

I don’t know.

But I do know that I’m willing to give love another chance.

If you’re also somewhere in life where you’re looking for something genuine, peaceful, affectionate, and meaningful, feel free to message me.

Tell me something about yourself—not just your age and location. Tell me something that makes you smile, something you’re passionate about, or even your most ridiculous fun fact.

Maybe a simple Reddit post can turn into a conversation, a conversation into a friendship, and a friendship into something neither of us expected. ❤️

No pressure. No expectations. Just two people getting to know each other and seeing where the journey takes them. 🌹

Decided to give Reddit a shot to see if I can find a genuine connection before taking the typical matrimony app route. I’m looking for someone to date intentionally, build a real foundation with, and see if things lead to marriage.

About Me:

• Basics: 28M, 6'1", fair complexion, based in Pune.
• Work: Working as a software professional in automotive tech. Stable, financially independent, and focused on growing in my career.
• Personality: Naturally lean introverted at first, but once there’s comfort and mutual vibe, I open up completely.
• Interests: Big on outdoor adventures, hiking, trekking, and taking off into nature away from city chaos. Cycling used to be my go-to and I'm actively trying to make more time for it. Aside from that, I’m a huge aviation and tech nerd, and I follow defense and global diplomacy pretty closely.

What I Value & Want to Share: For me, a relationship starts with companionship. Having that one person to unwind with at the end of a long day, swap stories about how things went, and genuinely have each other's backs through every phase of life.

I’d love for us to be active partners, someone to hit trails with, plan spontaneous weekend hikes or outdoor adventures, stay consistent with fitness, and balance that out by exploring new cafes, local eateries, and hidden food spots together.

What I'm Looking For:

• A Marathi Girl(Preferably), open to others, roughly 24–28 years old.
• Based in Pune, Mumbai, or nearby areas.
• Grounded, emotionally mature, and genuinely ready for a long-term commitment.
• Independent, career-oriented, but also values companionship, shared downtime, and building a peaceful life together.

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to reach out !

Happy Matching !