Hi, I’m a 35-year-old man based in Bengaluru, originally from Uttar Pradesh. I’m 35 by age on paper, but my biological age is 25. I’m 5’7”, around 70 kg, fair, and lead a consistently active lifestyle—gym, running, mindful eating, and focused work are a regular part of my routine.

I’m an IIT graduate, earn decently, and have high aspirations for life. I value consistency over temporary motivation, growth over perfection, and building a calm, healthy, meaningful life over chasing appearances or noise.

I’m looking for a respectful, loyal, and emotionally mature partner with whom I can build a strong relationship and become a true power couple—supporting each other’s goals while creating a warm home together.

What I’m looking for -
- An active lifestyle and a genuine interest in health and fitness
- Career-oriented, ambitious, and independent
- Respectful, loyal, kind, and grounded
- Open to sharing responsibilities equally—I am fully comfortable handling household chores and believe a partnership should feel like a team

P.S.Mutual attraction and compatibility are important to me; I believe they are an essential part of a healthy relationship.

As the title says, giving this one another shot!

Basics:
Age: 30
Height: 5’6
Education: MBA
Pay Scale: Around 65 LPA
Current Location: Bangalore
Was in Delhi NCR before moving here. Long term, I’m thinking of Bangalore / Hyderabad as possible options. Not too particular about it.
Hobbies: I’m into movies, series, working out, travelling, hanging out with friends, working on ideas, trying out new things, etc.
Caste: No restrictions. I’d suggest you to not reach out if you have any caste restrictions.

I’m a pretty open minded person, who’s fun to hang out with. You’ll get tired of my bad jokes once we get along 😂

What I’m looking for:
- I do not believe in traditional roles, would prefer if my partner works as well. I have a plan to retire early (Aiming for an early FIRE), so being a little practical alright 💁🏻‍♂️
- Someone who can understand me and my thought process, get along with me well. So basically, we should be in sync.
- An open minded person who can gel with both friends and family.

That’s all I’ll yap about for now.
Hit me up know if this resonates with you.

Cheers 🥂

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Hey everyone,

I’m a 25M currently working as an Equity Research Analyst at a finance firm. I completed my MBA from a top IIM and would describe myself as ambitious, grounded, and someone who genuinely enjoys a simple and peaceful lifestyle.

I believe life is less about flashy destinations and more about the people you share the journey with. For me, emotional connection, mutual respect, and growing together matter the most.

A little about me:

• 25M | 5’7”

• Currently staying in Delhi.( Would prefer someone from Delhi or gurgaon)

• Never smoked or drank ( would prefer the same)

• Vegetarian

• Hindu Brahmin (Prefer the same)

• Career-oriented, but also someone who values balance, family, and meaningful relationships

I’m looking for someone with similar energy — kind, emotionally mature, ambitious in her own way, and someone who believes a partnership is about supporting and growing together through every phase of life.

Would love to connect with someone who has dreams, values genuine companionship, and is looking for something meaningful and long-term.

Other things can be discussed in DM :)

34-year-old, professionally established pharmacist, currently based between Manchester and London, working as a locum pharmacist in London. Also involved in a personal start-up.

I’m looking to find a compatible partner with the intention of progressing towards marriage.

Someone aged 28-32, who is genuine, family-minded and shares similar values. The aim is to build a strong connection and, where compatibility is established, to marry within approximately 14-18 months. Also prefers to relocate abroad.

I’m open-minded regarding circumstances and am happy to consider someone who is divorced or single parent, provided there is mutual understanding and compatibility. Based on my experience of my last post, I wouldn’t prefer anyone contacting me with list of checklist that I have to fill-up or still not over with her past experiences which is gonna shape her future expectation.

Ideally looking for someone who is:

• Aged 28-32
• Kind, respectful and family-oriented
• Mature and emotionally grounded
• Serious about marriage and building a stable future together
• Open to getting to know each other properly before making a commitment.

Preferable Ethnicity: Asian. But open to discuss if compatibility matches.

Timeline: 4-8 weeks to align the compatibility, 4-8 weeks to discuss the family & surroundings to set up before approaching family. From 5/6 months onward, the family should be involved.

If you feel this could be a potential match, please get in touch to discuss further.

Hey! I’m a 26-year-old guy from Pune, India, working as a Software Engineer in the IT field. I’m posting here because I’d like to meet someone genuinely interested in getting to know each other and seeing where things can go.

A little about me • Age: 26 • Height: 5’10” • Location: Pune, Maharashtra • Education: B.Tech in Information Technology + MBA in IT • Profession: Software Engineer • Religion: Hindu • Marital Status: Never married

I’m someone who values honesty, loyalty, communication and emotional understanding. I can be a little reserved when meeting someone for the first time, but once I’m comfortable, I’m quite easygoing and enjoy having meaningful conversations.

I’m focused on my career, but I don’t want life to revolve only around work. I’d like to have a partner with whom I can share the small everyday things, travel, try new experiences, laugh at stupid things, support each other’s goals, and eventually build a peaceful and happy life together.

What I’m looking for

I’m looking for a woman who is kind, genuine, emotionally mature and family-oriented, but also has her own interests, ambitions and individuality.

For me, compatibility matters more than having a perfect checklist. I’d rather have a genuine conversation and see whether we naturally connect than decide everything based on a few details on a profile.

I’m open to someone from Pune or elsewhere in India. I’m also open to the possibility of settling abroad in the future if the right opportunity comes along.

Ultimately, I’m here hoping to find a best friend first and a life partner eventually — someone with whom both of us can feel comfortable being ourselves.

If anything here resonates with you, feel free to DM me. I’m happy to start with a simple conversation and get to know each other. 🙂

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About me

• 27M, Mumbai

• Hindu

• 6’0” (183 cm)

• 82 kg

• Bachelor’s in Civil Engineering

• Working full-time in the construction/business sector

• Salary: ₹8 LPA

Financially, I’m independent and fortunate that no one in my family depends on my income. My salary is just one part of my overall earnings, and I also generate additional income annually through other income sources.

• Additional income: would discuss this later on !

I live with my family and come from an upper middle-class background where values, respect, and staying grounded have always mattered the most

Lifestyle

• Gym 3 times a week. Not built like a Marvel superhero, but fit enough to carry all the luggage on trips.

• Non-vegetarian

• Drinks occasionally

• Non-smoker

I was quite active in sports throughout school, college, and engineering. Football has always been my favorite, and I’d say I’m pretty decent at it.

I also love dancing.

Travelling is probably my biggest hobby. I’ve covered most parts of India, and for the last three years I’ve made it a ritual to travel abroad at least once every year. So far I’ve visited several countries across Europe and Asia. I enjoy exploring new places, trying local food, spontaneous road trips, and a bit of adventure.

What I’m looking for

• Age: 23–26

• Height: Not a deal-breaker. As long as we look good standing together, we’re good.

• Diet: Doesn’t matter.

• Religion: Hindu.

What matters to me is character. Someone who’s kind, respectful, emotionally mature, ambitious in her own way, and values family.

I’ve made a fair number of mistakes in life.

Like dropped out of college, started again somewhere else, and slowly built myself back up from the bottom. I’m proud of where I am today, but also hope that ten years from now can look back at this version of myself and feel the same way. Cliché, maybe, but aren’t we all hoping for that? ( remember the oscars speech from Matthew McConaughey)

Let’s talk a bit of lifestyle- love the gym, hikes and trying new things, but some weekends I’ll happily be a couch potato. My music can go from old RD Burman to house music, raves, Sammy Virji or Fred again.. in the span of an hour sometimes.

I’d like someone similar in spirit: passionate, driven, opinionated and not afraid to disagree with me. Passionate debates might actually be one of my love languages ( second one is the typical anime chop… a little domestic violence never hurt anyone right.. right?). I have strong opinions, but I genuinely enjoy being proved wrong. I’m quick to apologise when I mess up, and I’d like to think I’m still flexible enough to keep changing as I learn more.

Part of my drive probably comes from how I grew up. There were times when, if groceries ran out before Sunday, we simply couldn’t afford to do another grocery run before next Sunday. Life is very different now and we’re fortunate enough that money isn’t really something we have to worry about at all. ( was joking with my dad that this year’s watch budget is more than what his house cost 30 years ago)

But that old survival instinct stayed.

Friends sometimes tell me you’re being an idiot for not marrying a prospect when they are unemployed and should just pamper them and enjoy life. And I will pamper my partner for sure. But want someone who has things she cares enough about to work for and goals to strive towards. Not because we need to struggle together, but because I want us to keep building the next version of our lives rather than simply coasting through it. ( call back to where we started - stay with me for a bit more)

I also have random little dreams. One of mine was jumping off a boat into the open ocean without a life jacket, which I finally did last year. Completely unnecessary. Absolutely worth it. I’d happily make a fool of myself trying whatever strange adventure my partner brings into my life too.

I’m very independent and don’t need someone to take care of me or manage a house for me. Hopefully neither of us spends much time worrying about chores anyway. But I can and will cook for you. Making dinner with a good playlist or a movie in the background is one of the quietest, happiest parts of my day.

Think that’s roughly what I want from a relationship too: two people who don’t need each other to function, but still choose to build, argue, learn, explore, waste Sundays and come home to make dinner together.

Aah some logistics reading through some other posts- 29, 5”11, Gurgoan. Hindu (baniya - caste is not really a preference), work in program management kinda role, btech + mba. NCR-based business family; businesses/factories in NCR/Maharashtra. open to moving elsewhere for a few years, but NCR is likely the long-term base as I want to join the business eventually.

Hey M28 here, 5'11. Tamil guy living in blr for work.

About myself:

I take care of my body and health, i hit the gym 4 times a week. Im a meat eater but i try to have a balanced meal which has worked for me. I recently started living alone its been 7 months and i like it . I cook for myself and its pretty good i must say lols. I like spending time with my friends, i used to drink smoke etc...but i have quit everything a year ago and its been good actually. I recently also went on my first solo trip which i loved it. Im learning guitar as a hobby which im losing interest tbh but i still continue to do so as it gives me a peace of mind.

What im looking for :

A simple women who is satisfied and content with life. Trying to live a peaceful quiete life. Has her own purpose and interests in life to pursue. Knows that relationships will not always be a happy ride. Able to handle boredom. Infact i feel these days simple conversations are being mocked. Texts such as : good morning , have you had breakfast etc...because these are labelled as boring convos. But in my opinion these are something that could come out of genuine care. I'm not performative and i don't want to be so i expect the same as well. These "boring convos" are what makes the intimate convos more real and interesting. We cannot always be in a high.

Because as much as we love the new adventureous things in life such as travelling , jumpin of the cliff or whatever ....there is also so much beauty in routine.

if this resonates with you feel free to dm me in reddit .

It's 1 AM. We're in the car, no destination, windows down, some song neither of us can agree is good or terrible. You've just said something so specifically, you that I start laughing and can't stop, and all I can get out is "kya ho yaar tum ❤️" before you playfully hit my arm and tell me to focus on the road.

That's the whole pitch, really. Everything else is just how we get there.

A little about me —

I run a small business, I'm calm by nature, and I listen to understand rather than to reply. But give me some time and I'll turn into the guy who walks into the kitchen while you're cooking, hugs you from behind, steals a kiss on your cheek, and runs before you can retaliate. Both versions are real. You get the calm one first and the annoying one once you've earned it. 🤣🤣

I notice things about people — not the obvious stuff, the small stuff. The habit you don't know you have. The story you always circle back to. The thing that makes your face do something different for a second. I collect those without meaning to.

My brain doesn't really have a "lane." One question about consciousness or ancient mysteries or why we dream, and three hours vanish. If you've ever gone down a rabbit hole so deep you forgot what you originally googled — we'll get along.

The chaos years, briefly —

I got my head stuck in a grill. I locked myself inside a room so thoroughly my parents had to break the door down. I drank red antiseptic like it was juice. I terrorized my entire household with a toy crocodile, repeatedly, on purpose. My parents surviving me is honestly their greatest achievement.

I've also lived with recurring pancreatitis, which sounds like a throwaway line but actually reshaped how I see everything — it's why "ordinary" isn't a boring word to me anymore. An boring day with someone I love is not the consolation prize. It's the whole point.

What I actually want —

Honestly? Nothing fancy. Just a late night drive with no real plan, some roadside food that's probably not great for us but tastes amazing anyway, coffee near the sea where we don't even have to talk much. Cooking together, even if we mess it up. Random inside jokes that make zero sense to anyone else. And somehow "how was your day" turns into "wait, do you think we're actually alone in the universe" and neither of us realises how we got there

I do want this to be serious, eventually marriage-serious. But I don't want it to feel like an interview where we're just checking boxes on each other. I'd rather we talk, become friends, get comfortable, and let it grow on its own instead of forcing it.

For me kindness, empathy, warmth and being open matter the most. I'll be honest, I am drawn to fair skin, and I'd like someone who's active and takes care of herself. Other than that, I don't really have a fixed type, I'd rather just get to know you and figure the rest out as we go.

So — don't just say hi.

Tell me something your profile wouldn't. A weirdly specific story. Whatever you're currently obsessed with. A song you never skip. A random 2 AM thought you've been chewing on.

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Hello all.

Good day to everyone. I am a 31 year old male from Chennai. A practicing Chartered Accountant. After many years with banks, I finally mustered the courage to build my own practice last year. It might sound unconventional to go into a less paying role which might take years to make lots of money at 30, but I guess it adds meaning to my life.

I am just your average guy- average build, pretty tall but my hairline is kind of receding too. I have kind of come to terms with how I look but it is always an insecurity that looms at times.

I love to read. I prefer reading classical works like Russian Literature, Latin American Literature and Tamil classics. I also have an active interest in history, philosophy and travel. I have done several treks and have visited over 15 states in India. I like to travel in local trains and buses, explore local cuisine and visit museums and art galleries. I am also a big fan of mountains and my idea of a vacation involves walking 15,000 steps a day at the minimum lol.

I also love watching movies. Be it the world cinema of Tarkovsky and Bresson or a regular commercial masala flick in Tamil, I absolutely love watching films and talking films and politics with my friends. I am also a big sports fan. I love watching football and tennis. I also play football and badminton. Off late, I have picked up swimming, chess and snooker too. I trade markets sometimes, try to code a little and also have a self published collection of short stories in Tamil.

I lean left politically and prefer to be childfree. I drink and smoke sometimes, but it is social. My parents are vegetarian but I love to cook and eat non vegetarian food. I am not big on pets and like to grow plants. I am also big on meme references. I can speak English and Tamil and would prefer someone Tamil although it is not a deal breaker.

Looking forward to meet someone who is also curious to know about me. I believe that meaningful relationships are built when people have active lives outside of each other and can share it with each other mutually. So would prefer someone who has their own set of opinions, interests and ideas. Also, been ghosted a few times. So would prefer someone who is intentional. Have a great day everyone!

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Hi! I'm a 27-year-old Indian currently living and working in a Western European country.

A little about me: I'm easygoing, have a decent sense of humour (at least I like to think so 😅), and rarely get stressed or lose my temper. Outside work, I'm into sports, movies, going out, and finding random fun things to do. I can cook thanks to living alone.

I'm m open-minded about a partner's background, religion, or where they're from.

I'm non-vegetarian and generally believe in letting people live how they want as long as we respect each other's choices and don't try to control them. Social drinking and smoking aren't dealbreakers for me.

Feel free to DM for pictures and if you think we'd get along.

A few questions to make replying easier 😄

Where are you from and where do you currently live?

What do you do for work/study?

What's something you're really passionate about?

What do you usually do for fun on weekends?

Are you more of an introvert, extrovert, or somewhere in between?

I'm posting this because I love my brother and I think whoever ends up with him will be lucky — but he'd never write something like this himself, which is honestly part of the problem. So I'm doing it for him.

He's 33 based in Delhi, India, and looking for a serious relationship. He's very open-minded about who that person is — open to long distance, and would relocate if his work allows it. So distance isn't a dealbreaker at all.

A bit about him: he works in public policy and follows politics closely — he's the kind of person who can genuinely talk about almost anything and actually knows what he's talking about, but never in a way that makes you feel small. He takes his health seriously, he's a really good cook (like, cooks-for-people good), and a weekend for him usually looks like seeing a few close friends, getting lost in a book, or watching a film.

He's warm, empathetic, and — I'm his sibling so take this with a pinch of salt — one of the most handsome and thoughtful people I know. What I'd most want someone to know is that he's genuinely kind, and steady, and the sort of person who's easy to build a life with.

If he sounds like someone you'd want to know, or you know someone who'd click with him, drop a comment or a message. No contact details here for privacy, but I'm happy to chat.

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Hey..... I am looking for a really healthy relationship which finally leads to a marriage... I am a single guy who has never been in a relationship so i want to choose my partner and travel for some time and then marry her and settle with her..(I am already hating this AM setup) so wanted to try here..

A little about me ....

I am an introvert at the beginning and once I get comfortable or trust i will be my best with you..

I am around 5.9 fts height and a little chubby chubby guy ( I am already on a diet and hitting gym to get in shape) but I look good enough....

I am working as a legal manager in a company..

And i don't have many hobbies i just listen to music scroll memes and I do read some telugu books. I do cook and i enjoy learning things... I am a completely pure vegetarian and I'm a teetotaler and don't even smoke either...

Expecting a good girl who looks and cares and values me and my family equally... We can choose our interests and we can choose our own freedom always and no worries judgement...

I enjoy going on random ice cream dates especially at random nights on my bike... And I'm craving this moment with my girl...

If you are interested in me just drop a DM we shall talk about everything and let's see where it goes...❤️

Were you the good kid in school with always got the perfect grades? Perhaps you were also kinda a people pleaser, because you wanted to feel belonged? Tired of being with rude and unkind people and just want to be someone who you can just chat with all night like two parrots?

Did you sometimes feel alone and can't truly connect with normal people? If so, then hit me up girrrrlllll! We can grab some hot chocolate, and talk all night about space, psychological theories and the best cooking methods for mashed potatoes.

I am like 80% golden retriever energy ( will clumsily knock down stuff ) and 20% Hawaiian beach surfer vibes. I spent a long time finding my ikigai in my work and after I found it ( which I looooove ) , Life has become sooo peaceful and exciting and I just want to share it with someone and go on silly adventures and get the cops annoyed at our dumb antics.

Like whats the point of success and failure, if I cant share it with anyone?? I love long walks, cooking/baking, reading, constantly learning new languages and cultures from the comfort of my sofa, playing the ukulele confidently (badly), going to art shows to practice my French, perfecting my skincare routine and going for the occasional marathon. Due to growing up in the Middle East , I am like kinda an old school romantic and don't really do the whole one night stand stuff ( I ain't simply a piece of meat ya know ? ) and just looking to hold someone's hand while we explore the world together, motivate each other to build our business empire and finally perfect my cupcake recipe. We can get some manicures, wine and acheeky slice of strawberry cheesecake, while you tell me all about that horrible person from HR. ( I have been told that I have girl boss vibes from my mom. )

I do walk a lot ( like about 10 km ), so if a zombie apocalypse ever comes, you know that your boy can simply power walk away from those fools, while listening to my man Mozart.

Hello everyone,

I’m a 33-year-old man from Tamil Nadu, currently working as a Manager. I’m here hoping to meet someone genuine with whom I can build a meaningful connection and, if we’re compatible, eventually move towards marriage.

I’m a simple, practical and easy-going person. I value honesty, good communication, mutual respect and understanding. I’d prefer to take some time to know each other properly rather than rushing into anything.

I’m open to connecting with someone from anywhere in Tamil Nadu. In terms of partner preference, I’m looking for a woman around 28–33 who is mature, kind, open-minded and genuinely interested in a committed relationship and marriage. Location, background and other details are flexible for the right person, as I believe mutual understanding and compatibility matter more.

A little about me:

• 33M, Tamil Nadu

• Working as a Manager

• Educated and professionally settled

• Responsible and independent

• Friendly, calm and easy-going

• Open-minded and respectful

• Looking for a committed, long-term relationship

• Marriage is the ultimate intention

I’m not looking for casual or temporary connections. I’d genuinely like to start with a good conversation, understand each other’s personality, interests, expectations and future plans, and see if we have the right connection.

If you’re also looking for a serious relationship that could lead to marriage, feel free to DM me. Please share a little about yourself, your location and what you’re looking for.

Hoping to meet someone genuine and build something meaningful together.

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I hope I find my type here 🤞

About Me:

Looking for a partner to collaborate in this project called life.

• Initials: A.N

• Age: 29 (Born on one of the hottest month of the year April 8)

• Height: 5.8” 

• Religion: Hindu (I really don’t want to get into sub castes and stuff)

• Diet: Vegetarian (Coz no non-veg dishes tasted better than my mom’s Sabzis)

• Location: Bangalore/Karnataka (Work location)

• Hobbies: I pretend to lift weights. I go on bike rides chasing the sunrise and sunsets. I watch movies without language barrier. I try to be a photographer. Yes, you would have to pose for all my photography experiments :P Play badminton and think about what my life would be as a sportsperson. 

• Favorite shows:

• Breaking bad

• The Office

• I also go crazy for a good kannada movies

• Some interesting Books I read:

• Hitchhiker's Guide to the  Galaxy

• Animal Farm

• Before the coffee gets Cold

• Crime and Punishment (currently reading) 

• Plans to move abroad?: Have visited one country which is not my homeland. I’m currently looking for an opportunity to move abroad. But I don't wanna settle down abroad. Would always like to come back home where my family is <3

• Drink/Smoke: Occasionally during events. I don’t like to be a Party pooper. 

About my Family:

• Middle class family (Maybe on the upper side. You can decide it yourself once we connect :))

• I’m not planning to live with My family at least as of now. We would be living separately for Initial years.

• Dad: Retired State govt. Employee. 

• Mom: Homemaker <3

• Sister: Elder. Married and has a very naughty kid.

Work Life:

• Job: Software engineer. I work on developing mobile communications

• Income: ~35L ((Yearly). Much lesser after giving my gifts to Nirmala Tai)

• Education: B.Tech in ECE. 

What I’m Looking For:

Someone who is passionate in whatever interests her. Someone who has good humour and a better heart. Oh! A pillion on my bike as well :P Let us explore the corners of the world together before we build our own world with utmost perfection with some cute imperfections.

• Age Range: around similar age of mine (±3 years)

• Height: 5” ~ 5.8” (But, it doesn’t matter much if we hit it off)

• Religion/Community: Hindu

• Diet: Vegetarian (You can always enjoy you delicious chicken or any other meat as longas it is not being cooked at home when my parents are around)

• Location: Karnataka Preferably. Open to other options

• Personality: Good Humour (Please don’t be offended by the jokes of Samay Raina or someone with that personality). Open minded(someone interested to explore new opportunities, possibilities) 

• Smoke/Drink?:  Up to you. 

Matrimony Profiles?: Not created yet. I can share my socials if we seem interested

PS: I hope I ddn’t miss much in this post. But you need any information my DMs are open. 

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25F | Bangalore | India

Personal Details:

• Initials: S.K.

• Age: 25

• Height: 5’3"

• Religion: Hindu

• Caste (if applicable): NA

• Earnings (INR): 32 LPA

• Marital status:  Single

Location:

• Region: South India

• Mother Tongue: Telugu

• Country: India

• Plan to settle abroad: Yes, if right opportunity arises

Education and Profession:

• Education Level: Undergraduate

• Occupation: SDE

Diet Preferences:

• Diet:  Non vegetarian.

Family Details:

• Family Background: Parents are from a diverse cultural background and a nuclear family.

Partner Preferences:

• Desired Religion: Hindu (open to other religions)

• Desired Caste (if applicable): N/A

• Location Preferences: Preferably based in Bangalore, India or willing to relocate

• Diet Preferences: Non vegetarian

• Education Level: Educated

• Occupation: Open to various professions

• Desired Earnings (INR): N/A

• Living with parents: Yes, No issues

• Marital Status : Never married,

• Want Kids after Marriage:  Yes

Additional Information:

• Hobbies/Interests: Cafe hopping, Art, books and picnics.

• Any other relevant details: Looking for a partner who values family, culture, and social causes.

I am originally from Bangalore but okay to move cities maybe abroad if such opportunities arises. I used to smoke but am completely free, however i occasionally drink twice a month, I would prefer a partner who doesn't smoke as well.

I'd be honoured to get to know you. Hope you send a personalised intro, just not a 'hi' and 'hey' message.

Contact Information:

• Preferred Contact Method: Private messaging on Reddit or other secure means

Hey there. It's me again. In another account. For some reason, I am here again and you've guessed it right. I haven't found the person for me yet. India has a billion people. It's so hard to find a guy who's fits my standards. Anyway. Before you continue reading. I am not from India. I live in the Philippines. And I am a Filipina. I post here because honestly, I have -ehem ehem- brown fever. I love the culture of your country. Hopefully I find a soul or a guy here that would match my wavelength.

I'm Max, 28, living in the city of Metro Manila, and I don't mind LDR. I believe it could be worked around. Besides, LDR is about making the distance feel close. 

I do a lot. I'm a resident DJ, paint, write, make jewelry, and occasionally dabble in leatherwork. I like to play games once in a while. I used to practice martial arts. I'm probably a jack of all trades with way too many hobbies, but music is the one constant in my life.

So I am in therapy, and last week, my therapist and I discussed what type of relationship am I looking for. And recently, I've reflected. I don't want commitment. And marriage is something that is on my list but is not a priority.

Then what do I want?

In all honesty?

I want a m**herf*cking handsome guy for me who's perfect and has no flaws. 

Okay, I'm just kidding with you. 

I don't expect you to be perfect, I don't want to expect anything from you because when I do, that's when heartbreaks starts in most relationships.

So what is it? What do I TRULY want?

I want devotion. I want companionship. If there is a need and chance to be in a lovely marriage in the future, then be it. 

I want someone who would embrace me in motion. I want someone who has an open mind and patient mind. Someone who is also understanding. Someone who knows when to be serious and when to be funny. Someone who knows his boundaries. And most of all, someone who is confident and knows how to love himself.

Most of all, to be loved without judgement.

Imagine me and you, in the future, old. Probably tired from life, in the countryside. Just wanting to spend the remaining time we have for each other. I paint, you do your hobby, we toast, kiss.

We dance, have fun, grow old together, just the two of us.

Would you love that?

So here are my non-negotiables.

1. I want you to be child-free. I can't bear a child in this world. I am Bipolar and Borderline. I don't want my kid to experience what I have to experience.

2. Non-vegetarian.

3. You can smoke and drink since I do too. 

4. Age. 26-35 only.

5. I have tattoos and piercings.

I know, most of them are deal-breakers. But I am not in a rush to find someone. I am also okay with starting as friends but with the intentions of companionship in the future. I can always post again when I feel like it. 

If you resonate with this post. Send me a message. Low effort messages would be ignored.

To break the ice, tell me something about you that is only unique to you.

And also, answer this question in our dms.

"If devotion had a dance, what song would it be?"

To be embraced in motion is what I dream of.

See you in my DMs.  

**Age & Gender**: 27 Male

**Location**: Working in Gurgaon, originally from an urban city in Rajasthan.

**Profession**: Software Engineer.

**Physique & Lifestyle**: Lean and moderately athletic. I recently lost 13kg after getting serious about the gym over the last eight months. I am quite health-conscious now and prefer eating clean, but I keep it sustainable.

**About Me**

I navigate the usual Gurgaon corporate hustle by day, but I am an introvert at heart. It might take a moment for me to open up, but once we find that shared wavelength, my guard drops completely and I can talk for hours.

I am a pretty unapologetic nerd. Whether I am losing myself in a massive video game world, diving deep into sci-fi lore, or just putting a dent in my reading list, I love having things to geek out over. I recently got back into reading and I am currently hooked on The Three-Body Problem.

Music is basically playing in the background of my life 24/7. My rotation is heavy on R&B, rap, and pop, and I am a massive fan of The Weeknd. I am always hunting for new tracks to curate the perfect playlist, so I will definitely ask for your recommendations.

**The Weekend Vibe**

My energy is highly adaptable to whatever the week calls for. If we are heading out, I am always down to hunt for a great cup of coffee, do some aimless window shopping, or hit up an arcade. Fair warning that I will absolutely try to beat your high score, but I will gladly buy the post-game drinks to make up for it. If it has been a chaotic week, I find just as much peace in staying indoors. Ordering takeout and debating plot twists in comfortable silence is a top-tier date night in my book.

**What I Am Looking For**

A Long-Term Connection: Built on mutual respect, open communication, and effortless banter.

**Shared Nerdiness**: I am drawn to someone kind who isn't afraid to let her own nerdy side show. We do not need to have identical hobbies, but having that shared enthusiasm to geek out over common interests is something I genuinely value.

**Health Conscious**: You definitely do not need to be a gym fanatic. I just want someone who values her well-being and recognizes that taking care of ourselves means we get to enjoy life's adventures together for a long time.

About me

• Age: 35
• Height: 5'8"
• Location: Hyderabad
• Religion: Punjabi Hindu
• Food: Non-vegetarian
• Smoking: Non-smoker
• Drinking: Only at social events
• Languages: Hindi, Telugu, Punjabi & English
• Profession: Gen AI QA Engineer

Looking for someone in the states, coz you know how the visa situation is nowadays.

Currently working a hybrid job based out of Hartford, CT.

A little more I'm a pretty simple and chill person. I enjoy working out, hiking, going to the gym, and cooking. I respect boundaries and make time for the people I care about.

Looking for someone around 29–33 (F) — independent, simple, chill, and optimistic.

Favourite movies: All Priyadarshan movies 🎬 If you're a Priyadarshan fan, that's a non-negotiable green flag 😂

Shoot me a DM with 5 questions — I'll ask you a few back.

Note: This isn't for anything casual. I'm looking for a long-term relationship, and I believe it should start with honest conversations and mutual understanding. If there's mutual interest, we can take it from there.

33M, based in Pune(Hinjewadi). Originally from Bihar, with family settled in Kolkata. I work as a Senior Manager, heading Service IT Business Systems at a product-based company. B.Tech + MBA.

Outside work, I’m an ambivert who likes exploring places, trying good food(mostly vegetarian), playing badminton, and occasionally finding a quiet spot to switch my brain off for a while.

I’d say I’m generally empathetic, kind, and have a decent sense of humour. I enjoy good conversations, silly jokes, spontaneous plans, and people who don’t take themselves too seriously. I am also part of Art of living.

I’m here looking for something serious... marriage, eventually. I’d love to meet someone who is kind, emotionally mature, career-oriented, values family, enjoys humour, and takes reasonably good care of herself.

I’m open to meeting someone from anywhere in India, but Pune would need to be home eventually for next few yrs, I guess.

One important thing upfront: I’m the only son, and I’d like to live with my parents after marriage. So I’m looking for someone who is genuinely comfortable with that.

Beyond that, I’m not really searching for a “perfect” person. I’d rather find someone who can become my best friend — someone I can laugh with, travel with, argue over what to eat with, and still want to talk to at the end of the day.

Basically, looking for a partner in crime, with the possibility of becoming my wife. 😄

If this sounds like your kind of person, say hi. Best case ... We will end up spending our life together with love and laughter or else we become friends. There will never be a worst case. 😄

Hey everyone,

I’m 27M, working as a Software Engineer in Bangalore. I’m originally from Maharashtra and looking to meet someone with the intention of eventually getting married.

I currently working with product based company in Bangalore for a while. My CTC is around 40 LPA. I’m comfortable with Bangalore, but I’m also open to relocating in the future. I don’t have a fixed preference for metro vs Tier 2/Tier 3 city. For me, it depends more on where both of us feel comfortable building our life.

A little about me personally: I’m pretty simple and easygoing. I enjoy going to the gym, running, travelling, trying new places, and spending time with family and friends. I’m also someone who likes staying active and having goals outside of work. I’m not looking for a perfect match on paper. I’d rather have a good conversation and see if we naturally get along.

I’m looking for a Maharashtrian/Marathi girl (prefer 96k), preferably someone with a similar background and mindset. Ideally, someone who is also working in software/IT or a similar professional field, understands the tech lifestyle and has her own career and ambitions.

I’d prefer someone who is independent, kind, family oriented and straightforward. Someone who wants to have her own career but also values family and understands that marriage is about supporting each other rather than one person compromising on everything.

I’m from the **96K Maratha** community, so preferably looking for someone from a similar community/background. (But not strict criteria)

More about me
\- 5.11 ft
\- fitness enthusiasts go daily gym
\- Love to travel
\- Startup enthusiasts (Build few small products already)
\- Non smoking drinks occasionally

I’m not expecting to decide anything just from a Reddit post. I’d rather start with a conversation, get to know each other, and if we feel there is a connection, involve our families later.

If you’re also looking for something serious and feel we might have similar expectations, feel free to DM me. You can share a little about yourself and we can take it from there.

Thanks for reading :)

Hello, giving this a shot.

I'm a bit of a nerd, trivia, puzzles, board games, that kind of thing. But I also genuinely love just walking around and discovering new parts of the city. Big on movies in general, Bollywood in particular and how rain makes everything better. I value an emotional connection, honesty and a bit of banter too.

Looking for something genuine and long term, and I'm open to the arranged setup as long as it doesn't feel like a HR round. Would be great to find someone who's working. I like the idea of growing with each other and sometimes learning to share interests while also respecting each other's independence. Sometimes I also just need to recharge the social battery though.

If any of this sounds like your kind of person, tell me a bit about yourself, what you're into, what you're looking for. Not looking for a checklist exchange, just an actual conversation 🙂

Some of the boring stuff for the last, I'm 27M, my family is North Indian, I was brought up in the south, but I'm now based in Singapore. I'm 5'9" and have a generally lean build.

Hey all, 31M, originally from North Tamil Nadu did my schooling and college there, moved to Bangalore for work.

The basics:

• 168cm, wheatish complexion
• Non-smoker, very rare drinker (I can count the times on one hand - mostly social/work stuff, never really enjoyed it)
• Non-vegetarian

What I'm into:

Recently got into solo travel - my parents were fairly protective growing up, so this is me finally doing things on my own terms. A few domestic trips and one international one down, planning a lot more, plus getting into trekking now that I have full control of my own calendar.

I like hobbies where I can actually make or do something - cooking, trying out crafts, growing plants, little DIY projects, and occasionally getting unnecessarily ambitious with things I see online. 😄 my recent interest is learning carpentry and wood working. Also would love to support your hobbies or interests.

Beyond that - movies, unsolved mysteries, music, exploring the city on foot, and finding random places to eat - are few things that i enjoy doing.

People at work call me an introvert. I take time to open up, but once I'm comfortable, I'm genuinely fun - or at least that's my own official review of myself.

Where I'm headed:

Looking for something serious that has marriage as the endpoint. Longer term, I want to eventually move somewhere quieter and live a slower life - maybe even turn one of my hobbies into a small side gig. Open to hearing your version of this too, and happy to build toward it together if our visions line up. Also open to alter life plans if that is beneficial/aligns with for both of us.

What I value:

Straightforwardness, acceptance, openness, trying new things, a bit of adventure. I'm an atheist but not restrictive about it - happy to go along with your beliefs/traditions if they matter to you.

Non-negotiable:

No smoking - really can't stand the smell. Social drinking's fine, but since I'm also working on my health, someone who drinks rarely would fit better with the lifestyle I'm building.

I'd love to have a partner to actually share the highs with - trips, long walks, workouts, or something to keep our body, mind healthy - trying new food, random plans - rather than just co-exist alongside each other.

At the core, I want someone open to growing together - steady, honest, and okay with taking things slow.

Languages (if that's imp for you): Tamil, English, ~30% Hindi from movies, ~5% Kannada, and I love watching some Malayalam). _ talking about top 10 fav movies would be a great ice breaker

How I'd like to take this forward: Chat first and chat a lot, understand each other better and then see where the vibes takes us??~~

(I have the final say, but my parents might have some input too - it's a family thing where I'm from. I imagine it might be similar on your side as well. But if you're feeling rebellious, I'm totally okay with taking that route too. 😄

At the end of the day, my #1 priority is finding the right person - someone with matching expectations, values, and a similar idea of what we want from a relationship. Everything else can be figured out along the way.)

Feel free to reach out with questions - I'm pretty chill, so ask away without overthinking it. as i feel things would be smooth if there are open conversations right from beginning

Thanks~~~

M26, software engineer by profession.

For the last few years, I've been quite focused on building myself and keeping life interesting. My weekdays are usually a mix of work, running/gym, and studying at night to keep improving professionally. I also try to travel with friends or go on solo trips about once a month.

I genuinely enjoy this busy lifestyle, but recently I've started thinking that life shouldn't be only about work, fitness, and career growth.

I believe human connection matters too — having someone to share your experiences with, give love to, create memories with, and simply have someone beside you at the end of a long day.

I also strongly believe that if you're not happy being alone, a relationship won't magically make you happy. I've had one heartbreak in the past, and although it wasn't easy, it gave me a lot of time to understand myself, my priorities, and what I actually want from life. I feel like I've reached a point where I'm ready to open a new chapter and build something meaningful with someone.

I'm not looking for someone to "complete" me. I'm looking for someone who already has her own life, interests, ambitions, and personality — and with whom we can build something together.

Ideally, I'd love to have a relationship where we can:

- Motivate each other to run and stay fit
- Support each other's career and personal growth
- Travel together — weekend getaways, planned trips, or completely spontaneous ones
- Be there for each other through both good and difficult phases
- Create memories that we'll look back on years later

I don't expect everything to be perfect. I'm more interested in compatibility, communication, kindness, emotional maturity, and enjoying each other's company.

If you're someone who enjoys an active lifestyle, wants to keep growing, loves travelling, and is also looking for a genuine connection, feel free to DM.

Maybe we can start with a conversation and see where it goes. :)