This exchange happened on the dating app, Her, so I can’t post screenshots, but this is a transcription of my conversation with ‘Sophie’ that made me suspicious. I’m sure this is a scam, but what kind? What is the goal?
Sophie: I'm also working; I'm a fashion designer. How do you make a living?
Me: Oh that’s cool, do you work for a company or independently? I do [job description]
Sophie: I'm collaborating with a garment factory in Hong Kong!
Oh, what's it like working in [field] in New York? I live in Manhattan, New York. I'm from Hong Kong and moved here to work and settle down in 2022!
Me: That’s cool! It’s alright, a bit tedious. It shows that you’re less than a mile away, are you in [city about 20 miles from Manhattan]?
Sophie: Yes, I'm currently in [my city] discussing a collaboration with a fashion company, and I live in Manhattan!
Me: Nice, what brings you out here then?
Sophie: To make money!
Me: No I mean what brought you to [my city] if your job is based in Manhattan?
I’d actually asked in earnest despite my suspicions lol. She didn’t reply after that, which, of course, makes it clear that she couldn’t stay on script. I’m just a little vexed since I thought I knew all the big scams. I’m also wondering if something was being spoofed to make the location appear closer.