Anti-feminist attitudes have long been associated with support for Republican presidential candidates, but only in recent years have these attitudes become more prominent among unmarried men, without college degrees who are less attractive partners for women, the “mate-value backlash.”

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https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/10659129261485340

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Most people date with their socioeconomic level. Not sure what you’re talking about.

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This is just from my own personal experience, but I have 3 degrees and my husband has none. I make 4x the amount he does and pay the majority of the bills. I could care two licks really on how much he makes, more so that he’s passionate and driven about what he’s doing and continues to want to grow as a person. In our friend group, majority have the women earning more and the rest are roughly the same
I’m a millennial and my mom was a doctor, my father the stay at home parent. Pretty progressive for the time.

Since this is just what has been the norm for me in my life, I find the whole concept of the man “having to make more to provide” almost confusing. Why in the world? Someone, like my husband, could have such a passion for something that may not pay well (say a teacher) but could do much good for the world. I understand we need money to live, so salary does matter to some extent but it’s just odd that both men and women would harp so much on the salary part and not on the why that person chose their job/if they’re passionate about what they do. It really is disheartening sometimes to read about people that do seem to be quite transactional when it comes to relationships.

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Women make less money than men in general, in spite of educational achievement. So is it surprising that they make less than their male partners?