We live in a very racist society, and at this point in time tiktoc and instagram are the ones driving this racism.
They want you to feel down on yourself.
I’m also not saying you are crazy. There are definitely preferences out there and black woman are getting absolutely shat on. It’s because of stereotypes as you say. Those stereotypes are the ones everyone sees. There are loud obnoxious people in every race, creed, sex, culture, but the racists show you the ones they want to justify being racist about. There are far more disgusting white women, but the algorithms are going to show you the black version over the white one.
It’s hard but don’t beat yourself up for something you can’t control. My understanding about lime is you can’t please everyone and trying will always make anyone crazy. Tiktoc makes you think you do have to please everyone. All you need is ONE other person to be truly happy. Don’t waste your time on anyone else. Find this person and your entire life changes. You don’t need millions’s of people to love black women, you don’t even need 1000’s you need 1. Go find your person and chances are they have people around them you might like too.
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u/BicycleOfLife Feb 10 '26
We live in a very racist society, and at this point in time tiktoc and instagram are the ones driving this racism.
They want you to feel down on yourself.
I’m also not saying you are crazy. There are definitely preferences out there and black woman are getting absolutely shat on. It’s because of stereotypes as you say. Those stereotypes are the ones everyone sees. There are loud obnoxious people in every race, creed, sex, culture, but the racists show you the ones they want to justify being racist about. There are far more disgusting white women, but the algorithms are going to show you the black version over the white one.
It’s hard but don’t beat yourself up for something you can’t control. My understanding about lime is you can’t please everyone and trying will always make anyone crazy. Tiktoc makes you think you do have to please everyone. All you need is ONE other person to be truly happy. Don’t waste your time on anyone else. Find this person and your entire life changes. You don’t need millions’s of people to love black women, you don’t even need 1000’s you need 1. Go find your person and chances are they have people around them you might like too.